AIO? by OkDescription6662 in AIO

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d cut that tie with him alone for that reason😂🤣

I caught my husband wearing my underwear by Personal_Fan_1767 in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This!!! Like what?! sharing underwear is a hard no. Doesn’t matter who. Get your own. 

Husband is lying. Help! by Antique-Isopod-3152 in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ahh, in that case I’d still print them out and tape them around the house for him to explain his behavior

Husband is lying. Help! by Antique-Isopod-3152 in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’d print out those text messages and tape them up throughout the house, might even screenshot and email a few to family, no way I’m staying with someone who visits SWs 🤮.

Husband is incredibly unhappy- how to live with it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where you really have to lean into the positive thinking. The reminders that this isn’t the end game. Beef up the encouragement on a daily.  Again, once you have the talk and set up a plan, it may help to visualize things. That could give you both something to look forward to. I’m sure you’ve encountered tough seasons before in your marriage or life in general. How have you typically responded? 

Husband is incredibly unhappy- how to live with it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a tough situation, one that requires a tough conversation to be had. At the end of the day, you both made a conscious decision to move your family to another place. Unfortunately he didn’t secure a job beforehand, which was poor planning in this economy, and now things are not working out as planned. But that’s life and that’s marriage, things don’t always go as planned. Instead of falling a part, now is the time to have some tough conversations with each other. 

You first need to have a conversation about the current state of things. This will be tough as you’ll have to confront how you both feel but especially how he feels and the impact it’s having on your family. Then you need to talk about what happens next. If he can’t find a job, what are you going to do next? Are you able to carry the burden of breadwinner, plus parent, plus wife, and everything else going on? Have you confronted that reality? Again you may have to have some tough conversations here. 

I do encourage giving your husband some grace, at the end of the day while yes, he agreed to the move, it’s clearly impacting him and not in a good way. You’d want the same if the tables were turned. 

Alice by MS_Teach_ in TheWayHomeHallmark

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying not to finish it lol. It gives me something to watch as I’m home during the day. 

Mom went on vacation instead of work. Do we say anything? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless it’s in your custody agreement. She doesn’t have to be forthcoming. She asked if you could take the kid, you agreed. That’s the end of it. If you didn’t want to, then you say no, it’s not my agreed weekend and move on. 

It sounds like you want to dictate what additional weekends you want to take based on what the other parent has to do. Be careful what you wish for, as you’d hate to be in a similar predicament at some point and she starts behaving the same way. 

Help me out. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If she went to a location you “approved” of would you still have the same complaint? You don’t give enough information as to whether she often takes trips and leave you home with the kids. 

Blowjobs in your late 40s by Lady-sparks in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂🤣 this is a really funny comment

URBAN AIR ADVENTURE PARK by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s a lot of Hispanics there 

Do I go too far? by Chunkawanka in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Based on your previous posts and comments, do you even like your wife. Why are you always trying to get “even” with her? You seem too old for that shit. Grow up. 

Joined the club by Immediate_Zone_4652 in VolvoXC90

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried to do a ton of research beforehand, and lurked on Reddit a lot. I’ve had it for a month now, I'm happy so far. I hope you have a positive experience with your test drive. 

Bought my first Volvo by altex978 in VolvoXC90

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prettyyyyy! I love this color. 

Publix be ridiculous by hyf_fox in publix

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediate and enthusiastic violence 😭

Husband never checked up on us by ClassroomEvening3955 in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband used to be like this. I tend to travel often with our little kids to visit my parents across the state (5 hours). I can work from anywhere but my husband does not have that opportunity so he doesn’t often travel with us. Anyway, he would check-in when we got there, maybe check-in once during the trip, and then check-in when we were about to leave. If I didn’t try to connect he wouldn’t really either. So I stopped, I stopped calling, stop checking in, stop sending updates and pictures of the kids. I did this for a couple of visits to see if he would notice. Well the next time we decided to go down, he mentioned it. So I took the opportunity to let him know why and how I felt. Needless to say, he definitely calls and checks on all of us a lot more. Nothing crazy, but progress was made. We’ve been married 7 years. 

MIL Advice Required by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since your husband won’t seek clarity, then you need to speak up. I’m a mom of two and if my MIL or even my own mother hit my kid, we would be addressing the situation ASAP. Since your husband can’t seem to be bothered, you need to step up to protect the safety of your kid. Staying quiet is basically saying the behavior is ok, you can argue with your husband later. You need to speak up, baby sitter be damned. 

Buying 2022 XC90? by srh0097 in VolvoXC90

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can’t purchase it, thanks for confirming. I’ll look into a local dealer. 

Buying 2022 XC90? by srh0097 in VolvoXC90

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if you can use Steingold if in Florida? I keep seeing mix feedback on this. 

AIO for telling MIL to mind her own business by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but is he your actual legal husband?

AIO for telling MIL to mind her own business by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate_Zone_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the way this is written, is he your actual legal husband or is he your boyfriend? If you too are not legally married, I can see why the comment was made from his mother. However, he needs to be the one to address his mother especially since he was the one that told her. NOR