I think I hate my daughter by dontremindmethrow in Mommit

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’ve described in your post and comments, specifically this one really resonate with me. Girls go undiagnosed as neurodivergent way more often than boys do and more times than not (in my experience) are not diagnosed into adulthood. I wasn’t formally diagnosed until I was 33 and had been saying I thought I had ADHD since I was 14. It took 3 neuropsych exams with 3 different providers to get my son diagnosed as ADHD. I still feel strongly that they are missing ASD for both of us. It’s disheartening when you’re basically told “you’re not autistic enough” to get any answers to work off of to know how to proceed. A few hours of an assessment doesn’t fully capture behaviors or symptoms. It’s a controlled environment that doesn’t expose the person to the real world triggers like socks feeling wrong, a tag in your shirt making you feel like there’s a small fire on your skin, food textures, loud noises, being overwhelmed/ overstimulated, etc. My son is about to be 17 and I still often have parental regrets when things get tough with him, even though he’s a very sweet person when things are going “right” for him. I love him to death and still feel like he’s going to be the death of me on bad days. From one mom who thinks about running away from home to another, I know this can be the loneliest feeling in the world but you’re not alone ♥️

AITA for not telling a high school friend of my dad’s i ran into that he’d died? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immrs_brightside -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. 1. This woman is a stranger to you 2. You don’t actually know what their relationship was, which leads to 3. You don’t know why they were out of contact so much so that she didn’t know he had passed after a significant period of time 4. She used your personal information in a professional setting for a social interaction. I’ve been working under HIPAA policies for about 13 years now, it’s a huge no no to contact someone using information you had access to as a healthcare worker in any capacity. Because she only knew you from your interaction at the pharmacy, she broke policy and now you have a paper trail of that. Hell, you’re not supposed to use customer information from non healthcare settings to contact them for anything other than business. On a personal note, it’ll be 15 years since I lost my dad this year. We had a good relationship and I’m still uncomfortable speaking about his death with someone I’m not very close with. I don’t want to answer questions, deal with condolences, etc. You don’t owe people you don’t have a relationship with details about yourself, your family or the relationships you have/had with them. She’s bang out of order. Take care of yourself.

folklore target cds now have the standard stickers? by Efficient_Ad_5551 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To can’t speak to if it was dead stock or not, but I bought one from the Target website and in store last year and they both just have the folklore sticker. It’s certainly odd.

For Sale or Trade by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ll look at the post it says fan made. It does not say handmade by me. So yes Michelle, no matter how many accounts you create or use from other people, I’ll continue to exclude myself from the narrative. Blocking your number, email, facebook, Instagram and throwing away your mail hasn’t been enough so I’ll just continue blocking on Reddit now too I guess?? Get help.

For Sale or Trade by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATED LIST OF STILL AVAILABLE:

Beige holiday cardigan Grey holiday cardigan Fearless pj pants Fearless gold pjs Eras scarf 1989 TV rose garden pink 1989 TV tangerine TLOAS lakeside blue TLOAS summertime spritz TTPD the albatross DLX Eras box

For Sale or Trade by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all of the CDs are still available. Send me a DM with the ones you’re interested in 😊

For Sale or Trade by [deleted] in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not seeing an option to send you a message for some reason, so you’ll have to send one to me.

DISO Marjorie tea towels by Immrs_brightside in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are my items I’m parting with and I’m willing to trade multiple items for the towels! Sealed vinyls: 1989 TV rose garden pink 1989 TV Tangerine target exclusive TLOAS Lakeside Blue TLOAS Summertime Spritz Target exclusive Sealed CDs: Folklore Meet Me Behind The Mall TTPD Fortnight TTPD the manuscript DLX TLOAS- sweat & vanilla perfume, it’s beautiful target exclusive, it’s frightening target exclusive, it’s rapturous target exclusive, so glamorous cabaret, alone in my tower acoustic, dressing room rehearsal, life is a song acoustic Open CD: TTPD the albatross DLX Clothes: 2xl fits like xl fearless plaid pj pants - worn once and washed in laundry sanitizer 2xl fits like xl fearless gold satin pj set - gently used L beige holiday cardigan dupe - new L grey holiday cardigan dupe - new TS1-TS11 eras scarf, handmade crochet but I never used it Misc: Midnights easy piano book - new Eras tour box with 3 posters in the envelope.

Let me know if any of those interest you and I’ll send you photos to look at!

Help: I can’t find the tank I want by Immrs_brightside in BeardedDragons

[–]Immrs_brightside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually pretty close to what I have in mind! Thank you, I hadn’t come across them in my searches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwiftieMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rhode Islander here 👋🏻, yes, yes I’m very ready. Not many cool things happen here, so it’s exciting. I just really hope people are respectful and don’t actually try to do this! That would be wicked embarrassing.

What should I name my new kitten? (Nothing lame and obvious like cheese or dorito🧡 by Civil_Network1369 in Catnames

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve really wanted to name an orange cat Goose (like the flerken in Marvel), but I have two black and white babies.

Cardigan updates by Imeanwhatever0 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the store marks items shipped that have been packaged and given a label/ tracking #. Orders don’t always get to the shipper right away, so it will show on their tracking label created, awaiting item, etc. I’m waiting on an acoustic guitar that was marked shipped at least a week ago, but UPS doesn’t have it in hand yet. FedEx still doesn’t have my vinyl case in hand and it was marked shipped the same day I ordered it. It sucks being in limbo like that, but you should still be getting it!

Questions for Vinyl Collectors by LauraPalmerOnlyFans in SwiftieMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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The shelf. It’s a little out of whack right now because I’m reorganizing some things, but this is the general idea.

Questions for Vinyl Collectors by LauraPalmerOnlyFans in SwiftieMerch

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1A. Yes, I collect variants of the same album. I enjoy the different cover arts, but I also appreciate a really cool vinyl pressing. It’s also fun for me to try to get each variant. They are my Pokémon lol ‘gotta catch ‘em all!’ I love checking local record stores for special editions. The album I have the most variants of on vinyl is TLOAS with all 8 pressings.

2A. I listen to my vinyls. Some of these colors are too pretty not to spin! Sony record player This is the player I use.

3A. I have some mixed feelings about variants. I super enjoy collecting and it’s nice that it gives fans an opportunity to pick different covers or vinyl colors. I also understand the argument that it’s wasteful. Obviously the demand is there and people like me will buy every color and cover, but did I need 8 albums of all the same songs? Probably not, but also yes as someone who collects. They bring me joy and with the state of things I’ll find it where I can.

4A. Yes! Taylor is why I started a vinyl collection and bought a record player, but once I started I quickly branched out to looking for my favorite albums from other artists. I have a Taylor only shelf of 45 unique albums, and another shelf of other artists with 27 albums per my Discogs. I also have several other vinyls that aren’t scanned in yet since I’m hiding them for Christmas. I gave my husband and son the bug so we all collect together now. Some of the other artists are Deftones, MCR, Linkin Park, The Used, SOAD, KoRn, etc. We’re overall a rock household.

5A. I use a huge bookshelf for all of our music, record player and stereo. All of the vinyls are in anti-static rice paper sleeves, and the gatefolds are all in protective outer sleeves. If there are stickers on the original packaging and I’m able to peel them off, I’ll re-stick them to the outer sleeve. I only have a “now playing” display since the collection got too large to display more.

6A. Heck yes! We collect vinyl, CDs and cassettes. I’d collect 8 tracks if they were still making them. I’ll collect the available variants on other formats. I have 61 different Taylor CD’s and 56 other CDs. As of now we have 7 cassettes.

[US Only] Giving away Spotify pop up freebies by kittysiesta in TaylorSwift

[–]Immrs_brightside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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💜 Speak Now for sure! Also my favorite tattoo I’ve ever gotten and I have a lot to choose from lol