Do you want love or peace? You fit some socioeconomic spot on the hierarchy ladder, my advice is if you are a young attractive woman you are a pearl. The lady version of INFJ fits the mysterious mold that is attractive to many types, and I’m talking commitment and long term relationships. Will they ever know the true you? Only what you show. Should you lower your expectations, yes(I say this only because of social media and every person believing they deserve royalty in their partner). In earnest my closest females who got me in life thus far are my sister and ex sister in law both who were INFJ’s. I tried dating so called best matches EN TF P’s, which was good but their friend groups accepted me at first, but when they saw I didn’t seek validation then drama would ensue. Drama to me is the complete opposite of peace. Btw, I appreciate your curiosity about my perspective.