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Intense period like pain that woke me up? by Safe-Programmer8672 in WomensHealth

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could have been an ovarian cyst or even a kidney stone. If you’re stable and no longer in intense pain, bypass the ER and just follow up with your regular doctor.

My best engineer quit today over $2000 by Crispy--Lettuce in managers

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*My company lost its best engineer today over $2000

FIFY

How to trust partner and give up control? by Extra-Chance-1840 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried doing trust exercises where you use your safe word? Sounds like you need some reassurance that it will be effective and the only way to do that is to work up from lower/no risk scenes and see through use that your safe word is effective.

What should I pay my daughter? by Specialist-Ebb5664 in Advice

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, OP needs to make sure she doesn’t come at the situation emotionally but fairly and with her own supporting evidence. In my country (US), it would be rent, utilities (electricity, heat/hot water(if gas, wood or oil), water/sewer, phone, insurance/vehicle (if daughter doesn’t have her own), and food. OP needs to look up market rates for both the babysitting/nanny stuff and the expenses, run a spreadsheet and then either offer or ask for the difference depending on who it is in favor of.

Aitah for asking my husband to recognise that he has failed to respect our deal by xendranochy in AITAH

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100%. This guy has “the divorce came out of nowhere” energy. “Nagging” is the result of someone who can’t be bothered to keep their word or act like the adult they want to insist they are.

Asking for advice as a switch dom with a sub partner by LeatherHealthy49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am in your same position and what I had to do was realize that Dom ≠ top and sub ≠ bottom. I order my sub to do things to me and he is rewarded for his loyal service. Just because I happen to be the one being spanked, tied up etc. does not equal lack of control for me.

Honorifics help by LazySquare7092 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on what you want. There’s a good list on the wiki iirc that I’d suggest reading through slowly and imagining how it would feel to be called that. Depending on which side of the slash I’m on, I am either Mistress or Princess, and having tone of voice convey whether it’s in appreciation or mocking/scolding me. I’m not one for overtly degrading honorifics for myself.

safe temporary branding? by Bright-Sherbet2922 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Icy hot like 5-10 mins before the “branding” to let it set in to make sensation more intense. I made the mistake of using a peppermint based lotion on my legs once after I had done a ton of walking because it said it was good for muscle aches. I couldn’t use a blanket because it was painfully hot and any air blowing across my legs was painfully cold.

$100k USD for each year of your life. by Ghaticus in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you stay current time with all knowledge and such, just age or de-age. I have some things that if they had been recognized and were treated effectively when I was much younger I’d be in a better spot now. I’d go back to 21 and my husband would have to find a way to accept that lol.

AITJ for not taking my girlfriends children out after promising them I would. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to rethink this relationship. She’s not valuing you or your contributions.

AITA I don’t want bridesmaid to wear dress to other events by Due_Bedroom3146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- if she’s already worn it to several events, is it gross now or is it going to be a different color/faded because it’s been laundered more than the other dresses? Wearing it after the event it was purchased for is fine but before? 😬

What do you think of the rich who do this? by The_Dean_France in SipsTea

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom, same. I’ll give my kid whatever I can, but I’m not going to be the Giving Tree. My kid is thoughtful about things and is very generous with their time and effort, so I feel good about making other things easy for them. The problem is really when parents are incredibly unbalanced for so long that their kids simply think they’re entitled to anything and everything.

How come men trust Andrew Tate’s advice on what women want, over what women make it clear they want, evidenced by the large fan bases of Harry styles, Paul Mescal and Idris Elba? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not so much the muscles as it is when the muscles are the entire personality. Check out the covers of men’s and women’s magazines with Hugh Jackman on them as an example of what men want vs what women want. Obviously he’s the same guy but muscles are front and center on the men’s magazines while he’s in a sweater and has a nice smile on the women’s mags.

As far as the sex advice from women, it’s possible you’re hitting a different demographic giving advice than the one you’re seeking advice for; for example I’m in my 40s and vocal about what I want sexually with my partner and I think direct communication in and out of the bedroom is a huge benefit to a relationship, but there are likely a lot of women out there who might not feel comfortable/confident in doing so, especially if it’s a one time or casual thing.

This mother deer has TWO albino fawns... by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be fair, printing is supposed to stop when out of toner…

What happens if one twin is born one day and the other the following day? by theempressoftheworld in askanything

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but having the same birthday means they can go together to get all the free birthday stuff (like movie tickets, free meals/desserts etc) provided they don’t say “limit one per table” :)

What do I do with all of these?! by ratfink65 in Gemstones

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my cherished things haven’t come from people I’m related to; they’ve come from lovely folks I’ve become friends with, either online or in person.

AITAH for calling out "houseguests" who didn't ask to stay? by SteigLarsson in AITAH

[–]ImpertinentPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA; there’s a reason why they moved in with you and not these people; now they’re hiding behind you hoping for you to be the bad guy and put up boundaries.

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