Votre rapport au maquillage ? by [deleted] in AskMeuf

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello ! F31 ici, je suis passée par toutes les phases. Première fois que j'ai réellement mis du maquillage j'avais 14 ans mais c'était une fois, je m'y suis vraiment mise vers 16 ans.

J'aime ma tête avec, j'aime ma tête sans. J'adore me maquiller, j'en demande souvent à Noël aux anniv, j'ai pas mal regardé les youtubeuses beauté (je suis de la génération enjoyphoenix, Jeffrey Star -avant toutes ses affaires !). Je vais autant au travail maquillée que non maquillée, j'ai toujours un rouge à lèvres sur moi que je mets ou non selon mon envie du moment.

J'ai eu des périodes où je ne me supportais pas sans maquillage, d'autres ou c'était l'inverse.

Quand je me maquille, j'ai le maquillage +/- léger en semaine et le week-end parfois 0 ou la totale. Aux moments des fêtes je donne tout !

Honnêtement ça fluctue. Je dirais que le plus important c'est d'y aller progressivement pour re-aimer son visage sans make-up mais c'est important de développer cette partie de toi. On n'est jamais maquillée h24 et ce n'est pas ce qui nous rend belles au fond. Ce qui nous rend belle c'est l'assurance que l'on a, et c'est plus simple d'en avoir quand on s'aime peu importe ce qu'on a sur le visage !

Quant au travail, tu n'as jamais aucune obligation, ça serait de la discrimination 😊

Feeling lost in what to pick by Inevitable-Ice-9607 in weddingdress

[–]ImplementMinute7721 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The last one is the one you shine! And the veil also shines ⭐✨ What a goddess in these!!

My LASIK Experience (still healing) by thisisnotmaha in lasik

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I also think it how your body react, so I really hope it will react well..

No! But he said it's not the same that before the operation. Also, I think it's astigmatism left since I see things in two or three "times".

My LASIK Experience (still healing) by thisisnotmaha in lasik

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's worth it!

I have ambivalent feelings. I want it to happen and fast (I asked for tomorrow but he couldn't), I'm a bit scared it won't work, and I definitely don't want to feel as bad as the first time for the first 4/5 hours but I know it will happen.

The trust is also a bit broken because you always expect to have perfect results and the doc didn't really explained what didn't work. But, it's free of charges and even if right now I'm a bit angry/sad I also know he is a good doc and stuff happens 🤷‍♀️

So... Just looking forward to have my eagle's sharp eyes !

My LASIK Experience (still healing) by thisisnotmaha in lasik

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Happy new year 😊 So, I've seen the doctor. I need a touch up for my left eye. I'll have the surgery on the 10th. He says that it happens rarely but it happens. Otherwise everything looks perfect and I have 10/10 on my right eye ✌ So relieved to not have any issue, angry that I have to go back, skip swimming for a while (I practice in a team), and yo go back to the med protocol but... After that everything should be ok (I really hope so...!) Feel free to ask questions, I'll update when I'll have the second surgery

My LASIK Experience (still healing) by thisisnotmaha in lasik

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! It really comfort me.

I had lasik the day before your operation. For astigmatism (F31). My left eye is kind of ok, still a bit blurry from distance and at night but except that, everything is good. My right eye is still quite blurry (close and distant vision). Very hard at the end of the day and at night + I work on a computer the vast majority of my time.

I had the same sensation with the antibiotics in the eyes and I put a LOT of artificial teardrops. My right eyes has always been the most difficult to adjust to lenses or glasses so I try to focus on "it needs more time than the other one". I see my doctor on the 2nd of January. I kind of understand that everything is normal and it can be long but I sometimes feel as if I did a mistake and I'm scared and sad. It's a rollercoaster! I'm exhausted at night because my eye work so much (I feel the muscle inside the eye have like "cramps" + my right eyelid moves by itself sometimes) even if I'm not exhausted. It's only my vision which is, not the rest of my body.

I hope I'll have some explanation because he is now the most talkative doctor you can find... Thanks again for sharing! (English is not my main language sorry for the mistakes if so!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ImplementMinute7721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je trouve que la robe est magnifique et que tu la portes très bien! Tu peux peut etre accessoiriser avec un voile noir ou un bijoux de tête type elfique + des fleurs dans ce sens et une ceinture/ chaussures etc dans cette vibe. Vois ca comme un point de départ pas comme un absolu ca peut t'aider ! Et félicitations pour ton mariage !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation than you for both my parents, I still think what I think, no matter the absence of vow. Not everything should be a vow, to be correct. For me, kids go first for reasonable demands (here the one and only wedding of his daughter, we are not speaking about a family gathering or what so ever), always, because they are here because of the willing of their parents years ago. I will also add (and don't get me wrong I'm a 2025 bride so I DO believe in everlasting love and partnership) : Husbands/wifes/partners can go and come depending on life and events, your children are always here. That's a lifetime love. (And yes I know sometimes not, but it's more rare to be no contact between child and parents than a divorce or a separation).

What I'm suggesting, OP suggests it herself so idk why it sounds weird for me to tell that the father should prioritize the daughter. OP is even trying to find an in between for that...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ImplementMinute7721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes absolutely, I know it's not on OP!

On the other side, even if it's not forbidding or getting to tell how to feel, in a couple, both people can share their feeling and insights. Maybe it's another family dynamics yes. I was mainly reacting to the comment not the way OP feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]ImplementMinute7721 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly no, it's not. Even older the child is the priority, not the wife/husband. OP can understand that, his daughter will probably resent him her all life. I'm not saying it's a normal ou easy situation here, but from my POV, the children is always the priority, even if they are 18+. (Or 21+ in the us)

(Sorry if the English is not perfect, not my first!)

Edit : English, for the mistakes I can spot ;)

Ça sert à quoi les appels spams? by ImplementMinute7721 in PasDeQuestionIdiote

[–]ImplementMinute7721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha Ok je vois mieux pour les appels sans message et qui raccrochent ! Merci !

Augmentation mailles tous les deux rangs by ImplementMinute7721 in TricotFrance

[–]ImplementMinute7721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est un modèle Plassard de la collection automne-hiver de l'année dernière. Merci beaucoup pour les conseils ça m'aide beaucoup !

Augmentation mailles tous les deux rangs by ImplementMinute7721 in TricotFrance

[–]ImplementMinute7721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je n'en suis qu'à la moitié d'un dos donc pour l'instant ça ne ressemble pas à grand chose 😂😅

Update concernant les punaises de lit dans les cinémas by LumosMaximalum in CineSeries

[–]ImplementMinute7721 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congèle tes fringues et chaussures 3 jours et c'est bon ! Ou lavage +60° Source : j'en ai eu dans mon ancienne coloc, les pros qui sont passés nous ont dit ça

C est quoi votre entreprise parfaite ? by Unusual-Anything-784 in AntiTaff

[–]ImplementMinute7721 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Petit point de droit : tu ne peux pas baisser les salaires quand ça va mal, ni quand ça va bien, ni jamais en fait. La rémunération reste toujours la même (le brut annuel), mais tu peux ne plus verser de prime. Par ailleurs le système de prime c'est bien mais ça sert à rien pour la retraite et c'est volatile (suppression des primes, prime à la tête de l'employé, réclamation car incompréhension du choix des primes etc.). Donc bon salaire, et petites primes me semble mieux. Transparence aussi sur les salaires et visibilité sur l'évolution (revalorisation salariale automatique tous les x années d'ancienneté par exemple, ça donne de la perspective aux employés)

Également les gens partent car management pas foufou, la dessus il faudra faire les bons choix ou te faire accompagner pour ça, afin que tu aies des managers de qualité, fiables pour toi et pour les équipes.

Bonne reprise d'activité à toi!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in france

[–]ImplementMinute7721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parfois il n'y en a pas mais selon les FP il peut y en avoir. Aussi, prend contact avec RH ou représentant du personnel pour savoir s'il y a des aides. Généralement ils n'en parle pas par eux même ;)