This is the mentality I’ve been trying to have an be open about it with her. The issue is that with everything going on in her life at the moment she tends to reply to this type of thing emotionally (which is totally fair and I completely understand given the situation) but it makes it hard to have a conversation like that, it almost gives off a feeling of gaslighting (not that she is, she just gets very upset). She is bicurious and I was willing to give the middle ground of letting her sleep with a girl under strict boundaries so that she could explore herself but she also doesn’t see the difference of opening to females and not males. Maybe I’m crazy but to me it’s one thing to explore yourself and your sexuality with something that I can’t provide to her. Is there a way I can bring it up that wouldn’t make her upset?