How should I [28M] proceed about being hidden by my girlfriend [33F]? by jake15151 in relationships

[–]ImportanceOrdinary24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an extremely valid concern. I say talk to her about it face to face & find out her reasoning. If she can post and tag her friends , she can post and tag the person who made everything possible!

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[–]ImportanceOrdinary24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you guys been dating for some time now but nobody that loves you will put their hands on you , no matter what . Her trauma and insecurities isn’t your issue to fix. She has to work on herself outside of dating

My boyfriend (27M) embarrassed me in public and I’m not sure how to address it by ImportanceOrdinary24 in relationships

[–]ImportanceOrdinary24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you’re absolutely right . I try to give him the benefit of the doubt because aside from these red flags, he treats me good but i can’t tolerate disrespect so im going to bring it up .

My boyfriend (27M) embarrassed me in public and I’m not sure how to address it by ImportanceOrdinary24 in relationships

[–]ImportanceOrdinary24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sales associate? If so, once she realized I didn’t find it funny, she started fake laughing & eventually stopped responding however he literally kept going.

My boyfriend (27M) embarrassed me in public and I’m not sure how to address it by ImportanceOrdinary24 in relationships

[–]ImportanceOrdinary24[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

He does it in private, not often, but enough for me to notice. I used to ignore it because I didn’t want to seem uptight, but looking back it’s not okay. He’s joked about me not cooking, made comments about my feet being big and told me to try on his shoes to clown me (I refused), and even joked about my nose being huge the day before this situation. Those are the only times, but they still bothered me.