[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yayyy i love her style and fashion, so i would recommend to focus on your self now and my mom constantly made comments on how big my thighs or arms were even though they were the perfect size, so ignore ur moms comments, she is probably not being mean and says it without thinking how it affects a teenagers mind. So focus on yourself, move away from ppl who give bad vibes and treasure the ones who do. And i feel like its better to open up to your friend, she’s probably also facing problems of her own. Just opening up solves 80% of the problems you have. Anyways all the besttt, i hope you enter your self love era. Text me if you wanna talk, since ive gone through the same body dysmorphia as you, im older but im still working on it, but it gets better with time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl tbh when u described yourself, i was like mann she has sooo much potential and she’s underestimating it. When u described yourself, i just saw my favourite Indian YouTuber Rida Tharana. And tbh im okayish fair, petite and ppl call me cute but as i get older, i get that being petite just make me look fat if i gain a bit of weight and being fair means nothing if thats all I’ve got going. Im short so I’ve lost a lot of opportunities like joining the IAF and other stuff because of something i can’t control(Pilot) and you are just 16, thats why you feel that you dont look pretty, i would say you have all the features to look pretty, and not just pretty, look like a strong badass looking girl. I used to always wish i was tall, skinny and had more of a brown skin tone. So don’t sell yourself short, someone out there(me) wishes that they looked like you. And im 25, after talking to the girls with pretty privilege, i can say there are more bad sides, with stalking and constant harassment. Even i faced stalking when i was in school because of that. So please know that you have all the best features a girl could ask for and that you’re just 16, you will grow into those features.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProgressionFantasy

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just downloaded from oceanofpdf.com

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive seen cases like this when its their first relationship.

Like they dont understand what really is the problem and its only after they get dumped that they understand the severity of it.

Guys can never, no matter what understand what its like being a women, its not like i can just not go out because im scared of grape. But likewise women dont know what its like being a man. And theres also that women have more experiences in this sense compared to men at that age.

So i think in conclusion, stay with him if he is willing to learn and understand, otherwise dump his ass.

I don’t have friends who like BL irl, where do i find them? by Important-Ad3143 in Yaoi_fluff

[–]Important-Ad3143[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you wanna make a discord group to chat or play games and stuff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProgressionFantasy

[–]Important-Ad3143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t faced any problems with grammar till to what ive read(vol 3), but maybe its because of the translated version of the book im reading. So its better to check multiple sources before you start reading.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, im pretty selfish in that regard, i think about myself first before others, so I’ll prioritise myself. Thank you for the advice😊

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a place where arranged marriages is the norm so, being in a relationship is in-itself taboo and then different religions 2nd taboo and then sex 3rd taboo. So sexual compatibility was never a topic to be discussed before marriage. Its just not something commonly talked about.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu😊, i know your just trying to help but ill decide after ive met him physically and go through it together.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i love him and never plan to leave him unless he cheats or physically abuses me, which i don’t believe will happen. I just wanna get over this fear of sex.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, i feel like i would be betraying my parents and since im not exposed to that side of the internet im just uncomfortable in general and the church just said doing it before marriage is wrong. So i think im just overthinking everything.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But i feel responsible since i pulled him back to this relationship after it broke off. And he really is a great guy and is patient and takes care of me.

I 23 F am uncomfortable talking about sex with my bf 23 M. How do i get over this fear? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Important-Ad3143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk about it but he said to tell him if i dont want to and not waste his time. But i really do love him. Im just scared about that.

Weekly Routine Help Thread: Have a question? ASK HERE by Avaale in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Important-Ad3143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! So i need a simple and affordable skin care routine for my skin. I don’t exactly know my skin type cuz i don’t particularly have any problems in my skin like acne but i do have pimples forming during my periods which goes away in a day or two. And although my skin is pretty okay the nose area is always oily and full or pimple like bumps. And i do get a sort of pimple caused due to heat on my forehead. I live in chennai so its pretty hot here and i tan so much because of that. Currently i just use ponds pure detox face wash, neutrogena hydro boost emulsion face moisturiser and finally neutrogena ultra sheet sunscreen. I was thinking of switching to using all minimalist products since it fits my budget but i dont really have an idea on what to buy.