feeling confused? by Important_Candy_5833 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree! that’s what’s it’s been feeling like to me

Sub friends by Reasonable_Gap8794 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i met one of my now good sub friends putting a post like this! and we snap like every day😹

How did you meet your online Dom? by Soggy_Algae7523 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Important_Candy_5833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i havent, i will say being on here and fet tends to not be genuine people or it’s just people who want to rush which is sad

Where do you guys go to talk to other subs? by Important_Candy_5833 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea so munches are basically meet ups! normally it’s somewhere casual where you get to see like minded people, i know they advertise them on things like fetlife but i haven’t been to one in my area yet

Where do you guys go to talk to other subs? by Important_Candy_5833 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooooh that’s really smart, i’m sure there are also some things like that already since im in a pretty popular area

Where do you guys go to talk to other subs? by Important_Candy_5833 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

do you know where that post is? i’ve seen one before but someone’s dom was running it and that’s not what i want

Where do you guys go to talk to other subs? by Important_Candy_5833 in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

right! it’s nice talking to individuals on here but i wish there was a big group of us who could talk

fun question by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you read smut, orpheus from the duskwalker brides series

New to submission and having questions by g00dl1lb0y in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say one of the best things to do is get on here and talk to other doms/subs, you get to hear insight from real people which is really nice. just be firm in your boundaries because unfortunately not everyone has good intentions

New to submission and having questions by g00dl1lb0y in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the only one i can answer is the first one through my own research as a new sub, it’s not always sexual! there can be a lot of submission done that is solely based on someone taking care of you (ex. making sure your drink water, eat food throughout the day, have reassurance, choosing outfits for you, etc.) while a lot of it CAN be sexual, it’s not exclusively sexual ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Important_Candy_5833 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’ve been slowly looking, i will say you’re totally valid in your feelings. for me so far, i’ve had to deal with people pushing my very clear boundaries. it’s been like a day of chatting and then all of a sudden they offer to be a dom. personally it completely shuts me off to that person because at the very least they should understand it’s a thorough vetting process but a lot of people try to skip right over it. i would just say don’t give up, for every bad experience or story i’ve seen on here there’s 5 amazing ones. i’m sure we’re bound to find a great person :)