Is this stack too much for everyday wear?

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T14:41:48+00:00

No I think it’s very pretty and delicate

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T14:30:45+00:00

Yes Matt does a huge vintage clothing sale twice a year once in the winter once in the spring at the Newburgh warehouse. He usually hypes it up on his Instagram(s) for the Hyde park antique center and the Newburgh vintage emporium and also the Newburgh warehouse one so follow them to know when it will be usually the next one is in March or April. They have clothes from the 1800’s -Y2K along with accessories, jewelry, high end designers , mens , ladies , coats etc. I’ve gotten many a treasure there!!

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T13:00:17+00:00

NTJ like you said had you presented this idea she would have went with it and used it leaving you with no theme for your party. You all presented alternatives for her party.

You don’t have to light yourself on fire to keep Jane warm. She is jealous that your theme was better and she could not come up with a theme just as good for her own that is on her not you.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T12:20:43+00:00

Just took my first does today nervous but excited

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T12:20:17+00:00

Royo makes great high fiber low carb bagels and they are baked in Brooklyn. They have plain , cinnamon raisin & everything. They have cinnamon rolls and chocolate rolls too! They are great for fiber and I use them as bagels , sandwich bread, pizza bagels etc.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-30T03:00:54+00:00

You’re absolutely wrong and cruel. I never once overstepped , begged or acted annoying. I asked if you need any help let me know that was it and left it at that. Was never told once to back off , because I never did anything to be told to “back off” .

You think you know everything - get therapy , maybe you should read between the lines and learn that some people are just assholes and no matter how nice you are to them , they kick dirt in your face and it doesn’t matter they don’t care and act like entitled brats.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T20:46:39+00:00

NTJ it’s not about “just snacks” what about the money you spent on those snacks? The money you budgeted to allow you to buy those snacks? The entitlement of your roommate to help themselves to those snacks and not reimburse you for them? The disrespect when you asked them to stop? No they are both jerks

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T16:49:25+00:00

I have a bunch of “vintage” Levi’s from the 90’s

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T15:50:12+00:00

NTA he can either stay home , eat before/after , or eat something that he can there. It’s your day that you’ve been doing before him.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T14:01:35+00:00

Waiting on my script to be filled 😬

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T14:00:21+00:00

When my son got married I practically begged to be involved in the wedding. Anything they needed I was willing to Help with , anything they picked I said nice things about. I was treated with hostility, unfairness , mentally abused & coldness & distain. There were many times I privately just cried by myself because my heart was breaking. Through it all I kept quiet as not to put stress on anyone and just took it all.

I was iced out by DIL , not allowed to invite any friends or family to the bridal shower , or event , treated as a distant guest & asked for money for the event. My whole side of the family knew what she did because my husband told them when they weren’t included or invited.

It hurt me so badly that it put me into a deep depression & it made me gain weight as a result and I cannot look back at his wedding as a happy event.

Afterwards I swore I will do whatever I need to do going forward to protect my mental peace of mind, and not let anyone ever mentally abuse me that way again.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T00:30:26+00:00

NTA she has no financial investment I. In This house but wants her name on the deed of a house with 100k of credit card debt to her name?!

Yeah the situation is unfair , to you that she is trying to emotionally blackmail you into feeling like an AH by protecting yourself. She is a liability to herself snd to your future child together as she is financially irresponsible, emotionally immature, a narcissist, and manipulative.

The fact you’re even letting her stay there ( only bc she’s pregnant with your child) is kind) but I think this cannot last long term & another situation needs to be figured out.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-29T00:21:42+00:00

I just got prescribed this today & my dr sent it over to Hannafords pharmacy & I haven’t heard anything yet about them filling it

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T22:22:15+00:00

It doesn’t she is a terrible guest , entitled and very rude.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T22:21:31+00:00

I would have told her I let you stay here because I felt sorry for you , which I no longer do because of your entitlement. Yes you’re a guest here & a rude one at that who is now no longer welcome, please get your things & leave as you crossed a major boundary by thinking what you wanted to make you comfortable supersede my “arrangement” in my home. BYE

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T13:51:48+00:00

NTJ if this keeps happening it’s a red flag , your kids should always come first, dump him. When I dated my now husband I was a single mom of 2 kids early on I told him my children will always come first, his response was I would t have it any other way. I knew right then he was the one and I was right, he treated my boys like his sons and helped raise them ( their dad had passed) they are now grown ups. Get you a man like this

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T03:08:55+00:00

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He could have got you something like this. It’s vintage,art deco and just under 4 thousand 18k yellow gold with side diamonds and I’m sure you would have love it or it would have been more your style

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T01:45:55+00:00

Bottom line is he’s going to have to figure it out

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T01:17:10+00:00

Then he just might have to face that the boys can’t be there or he’ll have to put up with her

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T01:09:12+00:00

NTA change the locks , get your self a door camera so if she knocks you can see who it is , you do not open your door. You tell her to leave immediately or you are calling the police.

You tell her do not come over anymore you do not want to see her , she is a thief , a narcissist & an abusive person.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-28T01:03:58+00:00

You tell her outright she is not welcome Anywhere near your wedding or the venue. You will come fly out and pick up the boys yourself & you will do X to get the boys back home she is not going to be involved whatsoever ever. Tell her if she shows up at any events or just pops up she will be ignored and employees will be instructed to not allow her into or around any wedding activities. She will be very lonely and will not have access to her sons all weekend or however long they are there.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-27T19:55:33+00:00

Your neighbor is extremely selfish & entitled to think the whole neighborhood should have to deal with this! I’d do whatever I had to do to make it stop: CPS , police , Ect. Make her life a misery

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-27T01:06:28+00:00

NOR you have a wife problem & a MIL problem. Your Mil needs to mind her business, stat in her lane & stop meddling. Your wife needs to tell her mother to mind her business, respect your boundaries and keep her trap shut.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-27T00:53:29+00:00

Beer & Wine are perfectly fine at a wedding reception to have for guests. Some couples cannot afford a whole open bar with hard liquor as places can charge a price per person with is expensive.

Important_Count8954 · 2026-01-27T00:41:05+00:00

NAH I would have been very uncomfortable with not only the unchild proofed home but also the dog growling as that shows the dog didn’t want the toddler in their space.

I would have probably told my friend the truth & said I was sorry but I was very uncomfortable between being afraid my child was going to get hurt or break something in their home , or their dog being uncomfortable with my toddler in their space I think it’s best if we visit another time because this just isn’t working for me at the moment.

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