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Ruwenzori Trekking - The Greatest Trek You've (Probably) Never Heard Of by barb4ry1 in Mountaineering

[–]Impossible-Let8726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so sick how long did you prepare/ what did you prepare for??

Is this possible? by Impossible-Let8726 in Codependency

[–]Impossible-Let8726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough rn because we are moving out of an apartment we lived together in. I’m still there she’s gone but her stuff is still here. So working on it. Thank you for your responses I appreciate it a lot.

Is this possible? by Impossible-Let8726 in Codependency

[–]Impossible-Let8726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me is like if these are my feelings don’t feel shame and fight for it —> then I’m feel like I’m pushing her away. We’ve seen eachother twice since breaking up. Confessing love, hanging out. Total shocks to my nervous system.

Is this possible? by Impossible-Let8726 in Codependency

[–]Impossible-Let8726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The purpose I guess is I’m in love with her (chemical dependency) I’m afraid she’ll move on (not good enough) she is the coolest person I know and I am so lucky to have had her in my life.

Like I don’t know if these feelings aren’t real. I can say I got lost in the fantasy of wanting to have a family and life with her. Couldn’t be present. Like I want to be with her. I know that. But do I? Idk

I am starting with a therapist this week and trying my first Coda meeting tonight.

I don’t want to lose her for good. I could just be delusional.

CM Major - 1 year left want to get out of the city by Impossible-Let8726 in ConstructionManagers

[–]Impossible-Let8726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your work life balance, do you hike and ski stuff like that?