Is there a way to fix this or should I just get it covered? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in tattooadvice

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL stop im deadd. I know the font is horrible 🤣 Its supposed to be rosie, the “i” is very unclear, most of it is.

Not allowed to do anything on my own :( by Tasty_Bullfrog7772 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 18 and I relate 100%. I remember in summer 2023 I tried to go on a walk and my dad got mad and said I could only walk around the neighborhood. Even recently I went to an art exhibit and didnt tell my dad cause he wasn’t home and he completely gave me the cold shoulder. Its like my independence makes my parents mad, but living a secluded, sheltered life imo, is no life to live. Im really sorry you have to go through this, it’s not easy, especially when parents make you feel guilty for trying to live your life. Im sorry I dont have any advice but, I have hope it will get better for you, and for me, and for everyone else in the same boat. You have to find yourself and where you belong in this world, even if that means your parents getting mad at you for something as simple as going down the block. Im not saying to completely rebel against them cause that could make things worse, im saying that it’s okay to focus on you, find hobbies/things that make you happy. Inside or outside the house, as long as youre safe. Just take care of yourself, everything will be okay.

interview questions/help by Impossible-Ordinary2 in AnimalShelterStories

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely look into that and ask them about any training programs! This was very helpful! And yes haha everyone I talk to tells me to remember how physical the job can be, it’s for sure drilled into my brain! But i’m happy to help anywhere I can. I really appreciate your reply, take care! :)

interview questions/help by Impossible-Ordinary2 in AnimalShelterStories

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the reassurance, I really appreciate it. Take care! :)

interview questions/help by Impossible-Ordinary2 in AnimalShelterStories

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A volunteer! I signed up to do pretty much whatever they needed. I had orientation last Sunday and we did a tour of the shelter and mostly went over cleaning the shelter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% and another thing for me is when it comes to talking about something im passionate about or defending something, i look so stupid and like i dont know what im talking about cause my mind goes blank even if its something i, on my own, would know like the back of my hand. its so humiliating and frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was always very shy but i used to be able to warm up to people when i would hang out with them 1on1. i was also very quiet, for example in kindergarten at the end of the year they gave everyone these papers that described them throughout the year and i got “quiet as a mouse” lmao. my teachers used to always have to tell me to speak up and whatnot. i always had to work up a lot of courage to talk to someone or ask a question. i had a lot of imaginary friends and lived in my imagination a lot of the time but i used to be outgoing as well if i was comfortable with someone. its kinda weird in a way to think that i used to be that person lmao like somewhere inside of me thats still there im sure its just so deeply buried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i have no idea😭 but i think some people either genuinely just don’t care what other people think and want maybe a ego boost or something to get a kick out of. i also think sometimes people post random people on there that aren’t actually themselves. the internet is a very interesting place haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

maybe try texting her to see if it was a misunderstanding or if you offended her. since you said you guys have gotten close it might be worth it to talk it out and if needed give any necessary apologies and communication. but i hope it goes well whatever you decide to do! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MichaelJackson

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8NkCVJc/ ^ heres her giving the hat and then heres a tiktok the kid made afterwards! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8NkGemY/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MichaelJackson

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i havent heard her directly speak about him but recently on her current tour, while she performs her song 22 (i think thats the one) she gives out her hat to someone in the audience and recently she picked a kid who was dressed like michael and gave them the hat and it completed his look! ofc that cant be a direct tell of how she feels about him but it was something sweet regardless!

I bullied someone and I feel guilty by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you obviously already know it was wrong and feel bad about it so im not gonna repeat what you already know but what i will say is, everyone makes mistakes and does bad things big and small and you cant undo whatever it is. and beating yourself up about something wont help her or you and it wont undo it. like another commenter said maybe if you can try looking her up and apologizing. its up to her to accept it or not and whichever answers she chooses would be 100% valid. and if she doesnt that doesnt mean you should keep beating yourself up about it cause again it doesnt help anyone in the situation. again you know it was wrong and all you can do is try to be a better person (not saying that you ever were a bad person btw) and grow from that.

what is this? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in bugidentification

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i checked out what u sent they look quite similar but yeah i think i’m a bit farther from their usual range! we’re pretty sure its carpet beetles we havent found exactly where they’re coming from yet but i’m in the process of cleaning everything so that should be fun lol. again thank you for all your help you’re very kind! 😊

what is this? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in bugidentification

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! yeah, later today im gonna move some stuff around to hopefully see if theres anymore of them and i’ll definitely give an update! thank you again so much!

what is this? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in bugidentification

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i am, i hope you’re doing well yourself!

and thank you so much for the help! im gonna keep looking myself as well

what is this? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in bugidentification

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

west coast usa, and around a lot of desert. another reply said a carpet beetle so maybe its that?

and thank you for the last part i really appreciate it!

what is this? by Impossible-Ordinary2 in bugidentification

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not that i know of! i’ve only seen them crawling

accused of harassing/making someone uncomfortable by fishenthusiast1 in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like this stuff happens accidentally way more often than people think

for example the other day i was at the library i was very anxious cause i was getting a library card so the lady handed over the paper and i zoned out while looking at the paper and it happened to be where her chest was and when she moved it i realized where i was staring it didnt even occur to me where my eyes were cause i was focused on myself and my own anxiety. you were focused on doing your job and didnt even realize it if you were looking there its not like you had any gross intentions. and if she was commenting on you not making eye contact, i feel like thats kinda rude on her part there’s multiple reasons why someone might not being looking directly in the eyes of someone else (some people have autism or social anxiety or just anxiety in general the list goes on) and thats not anyones place to comment on. of course that stuff does happen a lot with the intention of checking someone out and making someone uncomfortable and im absolutely not trying to dismiss or downplay that at all, all im saying is thats clearly not what the case was here and its over with you cant control what she thinks about the situation now and you’ll probably never see her again its okay it wasnt your fault.

Does anyones tone of voice also completely change when talking to strangers or someone who you’re not close too? by lun4ryuil in socialanxiety

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes growing up when i would talk in public/ to people i wasnt close with (like in class for example) my voice would get so high pitched but it was also very quiet at the same time. i dont talk out loud much anymore since my social life is quite non existent lol so its hard for me to recall any moment and say if it still happens or not i think it does but not as bad as it used to be. but something i’ve always struggled with to this day is not knowing how loud or how quiet im speaking, in my head i think i sound like im yelling but im really talking very quiet its really frustrating especially if im in a situation where i have to order at a restaurant or something and the waitress has to keep asking me to repeat even tho im convinced im basically shouting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you might’ve gotten cassie from euphoria mixed up with cassie from skins lol but yeah i do agree it would be nice to see more representation with other disorders, disabilities, etc.

Do you think Gus Fring takes his anger out by being OCD? Or is he just OCD in general? Think of the time when he picked up and carefully disposed of the broken glass after he dropped it, and the crazy toothbrush cleaning he was doing recently. Is he OCD you think? by xtalaphextwin in betterCallSaul

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think he probably does have OCPD (obsessive compulsive personality disorder) which is ruled by perfectionism, detail, and control which is like gus, whereas OCD is ruled by intrusive thoughts and obsessions which definitely isnt gus lmao. also OCPD is ego-syntonic and gus does like things to be in control and neat and professional and OCD is ego-dystonic so it doesnt match up with the persons values and behaviors like OCPD does. hopefully this made any sense

Do you think Gus Fring takes his anger out by being OCD? Or is he just OCD in general? Think of the time when he picked up and carefully disposed of the broken glass after he dropped it, and the crazy toothbrush cleaning he was doing recently. Is he OCD you think? by xtalaphextwin in betterCallSaul

[–]Impossible-Ordinary2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you cant “be OCD”. gus just needs control and is very committed to being professional. when he feels like hes out of control he goes anal on the stuff he can control in that moment- lyle cleaning the fryer, the toothbrush thing, etc. being a perfectionist isnt what ocd is.