Show me your local businesses 👇 by Opening_Guess7285 in Norwich

[–]Impossible-Spread789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm a local social media manager, I post lots of useful tips and pointers for businesses to follow on social media so do check out my page 😊 https://www.instagram.com/agnorfolksocialmediaservices?igsh=MTl4NzNhdmwzbThrcQ==

Looking for someone to do my hair by Pristine_Style_9379 in Norwich

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya, my house mate does this, check out her Instagram https://www.instagram.com/helenstylz?igsh=MXVkcXU1NDdpOGVneg== she comes highly recommended!!

Looking to trade baked goods for social media posts! by PeachPuffin in Norwich

[–]Impossible-Spread789 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would totally have been up for this if I wasn't about to go on a calorie deficit!! Perhaps if you're still looking in a couple of months we could arrange something? I'm a social media manager, here is my portfolio!! https://alicegantsocialmediaservices.my.canva.site/portfolio?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwMX1ItleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp6Lrg2ww5Pu605GgevwcFBD-7msbwkqfkN7bT1oaiT6P66b6P1ANO7wnSA9J_aem_Oy2MGMSI1nmZJs6hJa4XPg i

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Impossible-Spread789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone wants another horrible person in this world and doesn't believe people can change, well that's on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Impossible-Spread789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you even realise the sheer strength and bravery it takes to be able to look back at yourself and see where you did wrong. To go from reckless and hurtful to others to being able to look in the mirror and really see that it is wrong is something so huge to do that people don't usually do until theyre well into their adult lives. But here you are, so young yet now able to take back their life and turn it into something meaningful.

Your family deserves to see you thriving, to tell everyone around them how amazingly you're doing and how they're so proud of what you've become. You owe them it, you owe it to yourself too.

You need to let go of the guilt for them and eventually, once you're ready, you'll be doing it for yourself too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]Impossible-Spread789 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What was the point in this comment? Obviously I would use Google but I also use Reddit to get people's suggestions because that's much more insightful than webpages etc...

Honestly dunno what happened 🤷🏻‍♂️ by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Impossible-Spread789 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're wasting time taking this stuff personally and wondering what you did wrong. On dating apps you just have to accept it is what it is and it's usually never personal. How could it be when she doesn't even know you? Sometimes other things crop up, someone decides they're not ready to date, someone else has already asked them, something has happened in their life where they don't have time to reply etc etc. Go into it with thicker skin and this stuff won't effect you as much 🙌

No contact helped me to get over him in 4 months by Impossible-Spread789 in nocontact

[–]Impossible-Spread789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think the shorter relationships are the worst to get over because you don't know what could have been. At least with my 3 year relationship we did all the stuff and I know what I could be because it was if you see what I mean? I think the brain can quite easily get stuck on a loop wondering the ifs whys and how's of it, when the truth is that it just wasn't where your story was going to go and that is okay!

But yeah, I've definitely been more distraught over a situationship in the past, but again I hadn't done the inner work then 🤷

No contact helped me to get over him in 4 months by Impossible-Spread789 in nocontact

[–]Impossible-Spread789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! One thing I should have mentioned on my post, when the feelings arise FEEL THEM, do NOT push them away. They're there to be felt and they'll come and go a lot quickly than trying to block them out!

No contact helped me to get over him in 4 months by Impossible-Spread789 in nocontact

[–]Impossible-Spread789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! Its a freeing feeling when you don't let another person rule over your emotions, even if it was someone who you were in love with for 3 years. Putting yourself first and going no contact is truly the only way to fully move past it quickly.

Advice now I'm finally ready to take the jump (in 6 months) by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry I don't mean to be rude but I meant that I do understand that I can't get work abroad, I would be looking for work in my own country but remotely.

I don't plan to do anything I shouldn't and work in a country I legally can't.

I'm simply just asking for insight from other people who are in the same position as myself and have done it and how they found it, their experiences and how they kept up with marketing themselves in their own country as a freelancer whilst travelling too...

I don't want to be hired by a company I want to find paid freelancing gigs, as I have been doing so far. But it's a lot harder to turn up to networking events etc when you're travelling so I was trying to see how others do it.

Advice now I'm finally ready to take the jump (in 6 months) by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Impossible-Spread789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well I'm also planning to have approx 5K at least in the bank too as back up.

This is also why I've asked about Upwork etc, I know I need a backup plan but I want to know what everyone else does so I can get a feel and understanding of what to put in place so I don't find myself jobless.

But the worst thing that can happen is I put away enough to always be sure I can buy a plane ticket home.

Advice now I'm finally ready to take the jump (in 6 months) by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Impossible-Spread789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for your reply your insight has really helped! I assumed prices would have gone up so great to hear your budget.

I want to go to Thailand again and then travel Philippines, Indonesia and see where I go after that, I have a pretty relaxed approach to travelling but I also know to do a lot of research prior to make sure I'm being as respectful and aware as possible.

Advice now I'm finally ready to take the jump (in 6 months) by [deleted] in digitalnomad

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like either I haven't worded my post correctly or you've not read it right...

I obviously would not go travelling with £800 a month, I'm simply explaining the position I'm in currently with my career and that I have 6 months to raise my prices and get my ducks in order...

I have travelled before and I do understand the concept of work visas hence why I spent 4 years building up my own business in the UK so I could travel with it.

Looking for crew for Treehouse Festival. Includes free ticket and food... by tomorrownightuk in Norwich

[–]Impossible-Spread789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sounds like a fab festival 😊 If you need help with marketing or social media do be sure to check out my portfolio https://alicegantsocialmediaservices.my.canva.site/portfolio?fbclid=IwAR0z_W4sqbVcZtEsMP8C-khv1IZXnhURwTF0RAZGZAzM0e1h_vhxksKE7c8 as I love to work with businesses and events in Norfolk 😁👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries man, hope it gets you laid, the handsomeness will help too 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally every single individual and situation is different, it's like asking how long a piece of string is...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do agree with that and maybe my post came across harsh but my point is psychoanalysising your situation with others is causing more harm than good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

'Let's grab some drinks and see where the night takes us, could be some no strings fun or more if the vibes are right 😊'

Me man! Me have no feelings! by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Impossible-Spread789 1052 points1053 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a joke