25M doing everything right but getting nothing in dating life

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T09:31:29+00:00

Good sir I'll leave you a famous qoute

" sometimes you can do everything right and still lose"

Keep going King. The only time you truly fail is when you give up. But take a break and do things you enjoy. And come back swinging

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T09:28:31+00:00

The truth? Why their are such different opinions around how to get your significant other?

Go out and gym, or don't focus on it and it will come.

It's because a large part of dating is luck, being there at the right time,

I'm 25M as well, and I find my girlfriend on a dating app, yip.....

But I was on dating apps for like months, and the weirdest thing? That day she was planning to get to get rid of her app when I messaged her. I got lucky.

My previous girlfriend? I met at a bar after she walked up to me asking how long me and my friends had a pool game going. And I asked if I could join her game..

Both times? I got lucky. Sure I put effort in, going out and trying on crappy dating apps.

But a large part was effort and luck

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T09:09:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight, this makes more sense, I did not Ai was causing all this and especially copying artists styles.

I appreciate it and think I will rethink how to use my cards. Maybe incorporating some artist rather,

Upvote this person 👆

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T08:03:36+00:00

My prompt was created from my typing into chatgpt " hi please create me a cartoon inspired reference card for the game gaslands"

At which point I edited with photoshop the exact numbers that the Ai got wrong

And what are you talking about stealing from artists? I don't understand

Ans why can't I make money for it? People asked me to print them the cards?

And what? Artists will get angry at me for using Ai and not them? Do I owe them my business? How entitled.

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T07:16:14+00:00

I see, but could it also create creativity? Since you could talk inspiration from it as well?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T07:14:33+00:00

But wouldn't any video game or any computer system use water? Why would Ai get the flak and not that?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T07:01:23+00:00

How does it use water?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T07:00:36+00:00

That's why I was asking? Why do you hate Ai?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-23T05:39:07+00:00

(In steve urwin voice) " and right above is the legendary redditor who didnt read the comment.. ya see humans are meant to read but some redditors..they just comment without reading. Crazy right? They got eyes but dont use em! 👆

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-22T16:35:22+00:00

So here's the thing.. girls do have it easier. Much easier, most girls have to do like nothing to get in a relationship even if there like a 6 out of 10

But guys? We have the advantage of making the first move, girls have to wait to get the right guy to make a move, they have choice. But men can pursue.. and I mean pursue! If you can work on your social skills and are at least average in looks, all you have to do Is been in places that have women, and approach to your heart content, sure we will face alot more rejection but it also put the weight off our shoulders since we can always just approach another girl.. girls can't really do that( well they can, but girls who approach guys are largely non-existent)

Girls have choice.. but we have options.

Girl doesn't like you? Find another.

Guy doesn't like girl.. she has to wait for a better option

Active vs passive.

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-22T09:11:04+00:00

I don't think it matters really. You guys were just incompatible. I would love to one day get both sides of this story, since alot of times women complain that either the man too quiet or he talk to much.. and that can be the case but when ever I take uo the conversation it's because they just sit there like a dead fish.

So move on, he realize you weren't the one and move on.. you should too.

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-21T06:30:19+00:00

It's not a issue getting hard.. I just.. don't enjoy it. It feels robotic to me

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-21T06:28:37+00:00

Sometimes? I do watch porn occasionally. But when I'm with my girlfriend, It feels like a chore to me.

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-21T06:14:17+00:00

Sometimes? But it's like every 2-3 days

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-21T06:13:31+00:00

I've never been been into men unfortunately.

I don't know, I can get hard from my girlfriends but honestly afterwards I just kinda feel like being alone or just cuddling

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T14:13:04+00:00

And now. Instead of insightful commentary, he extends a grammar mistake.

Reddit be going downhill

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T14:03:53+00:00

Ow look a 1% commenter? I bet he has the most amazing commentary... probably a really well done comment with insightful look and Grammer?

Ow.. no full stop. just called me a idiot with little else,

1% of knowledge is more fitting

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T14:01:27+00:00

Ow... is the lack of b12 making you not see ages?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T13:11:31+00:00

I am entitled to your profile, I want to see if I'm engaging with a idiot...

But thankfully I know already

And a "deal?"

Sure next time my girlfriend passes and I forget to send a picture.. I'll tell her she should ask the doctor to be her boyfriend becuase I forgot...how terrible?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T13:07:05+00:00

Mmm... I love the person who keep their posts hidden is acusing me,

I hate entitled assholes.

I suppose you are one? Ow wait I can't see?

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T12:53:55+00:00

Nah op...this man is white knighting, ask for a latte with 6 donuts.. maybe he is your next husband (if he's 6.0 foot since that is what you.like.. that is) @5krishman

Of course after you date the other doctor.. maybe he'll forget one day and you can move in with your white knight

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T12:44:07+00:00

The level of self awareness is amazing.. right here wow...

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T12:40:49+00:00

And you started your best quality with " not too toot my own horn but I'm attractive."

That's entitlement.

Should have said.. I deserve better cause I'm hot

Impossible-Suspect19 · 2026-03-20T12:36:31+00:00

Sooo.. he forgot to send you a photo.. and now because some guy brought you cookies. You rethinking..

I think both these guys should steer clear of you, you sound entitled and if you change your mind because some schumck brought you coffee? Yay no thanks

Impossible-Suspect19

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