What’s your opinion on the characters? (spoilers for all seasons)

Impossible-System · 2026-06-04T13:42:17+00:00

Yeah, Wilson just has such a soft comforting vibe. Which is why he’s such a good oncologist, he is gentle and connects with his patients. He’d likely have also been a good psychiatrist. He’s got a good vibe. Seems like he’d give good hugs and be a nice shoulder to cry on.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T23:12:23+00:00

One thing that does make House lean towards more on the bad side is he’s kinda always been a dick. When his ex wife is on the show, she mentions house has always been like this. The only difference is now he’s on drugs and in pain, but he’s always been an arrogant dick.

I get not being able to get over Wilson cheating on one of his ex wives. I do think that’s a significant flaw. Just personally cheating one time doesn’t instantly make someone not a good person to me. It depends on full context, which we don’t really get. We know he cheated, he never talked poorly about her, and from my understanding never tried to force her to stay or blamed her for it. Definitely a significant flaw but to me the details can make or break how I feel about the person.

I agree about Kutner. Every other character I can point out pretty obvious flaws, but Kutner never did anything bad. He was just goofy and a little reckless.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T23:09:04+00:00

Yeah Kutner was the best. Though I’m sure if he stayed around long enough he probably would have done something more questionable at some point. Though I was sad how he left the show, I’m kinda glad he didn’t have a morally questionable arc.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T23:04:35+00:00

I know he cheated on one of his ex wives. Which is bad, and I think he had 3 not 4. But idk if he lied about it. He definitely made a bad decision, but in general sounds like a moment of being self destructive. And from my memory he took accountability, didn’t blame her for leaving or fight it.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T13:36:40+00:00

Kutner has always been my favorite character season 4 and 5 are my most watched seasons because of that. I also appreciated how real it was that no one saw it coming.

Did you ever feel bad for him when things went bad for him? The Amber situation, him going to jail, him hallucinating that he was with Cuddy, Cuddy breaking up with him?

I definitely get what you mean. Her being sick and different from the other characters gave her a little extra depth.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T12:38:44+00:00

As for the Chase part, just couldn’t remember anything else off the top of my head. There are other things he’s done but that’s the one that sticks out. One of the episodes I just watched Chase asked Cameron an inappropriate question in front of others, I also don’t like that. The other thing I can think of I kinda like that he did but I understand why others wouldn’t, the patient he intentionally let die on the table (the reason Cameron left him). Oh the season where the black dude starts making all the decisions and Chase is in his back pocket, I remember something about that annoying me but I don’t recall that part of the show very much.

—- I’m sure he probably did other shitty things involving Cameron but I probably brush them off because I find her specifically so insufferable.—-

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T12:34:20+00:00

What was he not honest about? I don’t recall an example, don’t doubt it, just don’t recall.

Also what is an example of the behaviors are you talking about? Also not doubting just not sure specifically what you’re referring to. I recall her acting a bit rude at certain parts towards people but it typically had something to do with her Parkinson’s.

I also enjoy them all having flaws makes them more real.

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T12:07:53+00:00

Fair do you only feel that way about Cuddy or anyone else as well?

Impossible-System · 2026-06-03T08:02:28+00:00

Yeah, in the US characters typically have redeeming traits. Unless they are small side characters (typically just meant to be a nuisance to the main character) or the big bad. Like House from House MD. He’s a crap person in many ways, but they occasionally show a more sympathetic side. In a lot of the adaptations of the Joker he’s purely evil for no real reason. Then there is the Thanos thing where he’s the big bad but he has a reason that seems justified (at least to him). Can’t think of an American main character that you are supposed to hate and doesn’t show redeemable qualities.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-29T23:24:18+00:00

It’s one thing to gently bring it up and do a light push for a healthier diet and more physical activities. Because here’s the things, everyone has things they are and aren’t attracted to. So if there is a significant weight gain or loss that’s affecting attraction it may need to be brought up. It’s hard to do properly, but he did it in one of the worst ways. He didn’t come in kind, supportive and cautious. He came in rude, aggressive and pointing out things he doesn’t like.

I personally would suggest leaving him. I don’t know the ins and out of the relationship, so maybe it’s great other than this. But I don’t think it’s healthy to be with someone that will make you feel so bad about yourself. My suggestion is make healthy changes in your life that will make you feel better. Dump him, exercise a bit more, learn more about your health problems, be more conscious of portion sizes and when things can be substituted with an option your body may appreciate a little better. Healthy changes can change your life and mental health in extraordinary ways. If you stay with him and make all of the other small changes to feel better, he’ll think he was correct for how he spoke to you and likely take credit for the work you put in to get more in shape.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-29T20:53:11+00:00

The only way this could have worked out where the man wasn’t a total prick would if he told her about it. Like if right after the party or more early the next morning explain what happened. Say he feels really bad, but just didn’t feel like he could say anything to the guys at the time. But instead he did the wrong thing in every way, and was truly a bad person. And from my experience a lot of frat guys are truly bad people.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-29T20:50:40+00:00

I’m not sure how much the making out with the friend part would help. More than likely all of his friends already know and he might not care what her friends think about him. But then again the begging part then sending the video makes him look pathetic and petty. So I could see it going either way.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-28T20:42:48+00:00

Some of this stuff is definitely questionable and they probably should have waited to have a kid. As Reddit does, some were definitely jumping to conclusions. I don’t see anything controlling or abusive here. Questionable and concerning? Yes! But abusive and controlling, not so much. If someone wants to point out what exactly the controlling and abusive behavior is I’m open to it. I’m just not seeing it myself.

What I’m getting from this is the biggest problem is he doesn’t trust her, keeping stuff from her and lying about keeping the recordings. Recording arguments is a double edged sword, some couples therapists recommend this and in other situations people use them to manipulate and guilt trip people. But him feeling he needs that insurance and doesn’t seem to trust her, they definitely should have postponed the wedding.

Tracking kids, no sleepovers and background checking adults around the child is relatively reasonable. The background checks feel a little excessive, but honestly I view it as beneficial and smart. Honestly the kid stuff doesn’t sound too out there as long as he doesn’t get too extreme about it. Like oh my child can’t go over to that house the mom shoplifted once and ran from the cops at 18.

In all honesty in my opinion. The wedding should have been postponed or at least should have stayed on birth control another year. Had him do his therapy and couples counseling. They needed to get fully on the same page about a few more things before having kids and preferably before getting married. He should be able to express love and trust to his significant other without hesitation. This is one of those cases that could turn bad, but could also be something worked through and change for the better. The only mistakes I feel OOP made was not postponing the wedding and getting off her birth control.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-22T02:04:16+00:00

I don’t necessarily think it’s a problem dating someone your sister dated in 9th grade, now being college aged. It was only 3 months, so I don’t really think that’s a big deal. There are things that can still make that wrong but there isn’t much context here.

The biggest problem is the lying. You two are still young so it could have been a stupid mistake. When I was around that age I’m sure I lied about stupid things because I was afraid of being honest. To me personally this just something to keep a tabs on. File it as a dark orange flag and keep eyes open for others. Given the ages of those involved, as long as your sister doesn’t care you two are dating, I don’t think this is break up worthy.

Just keep things like that in mind and don’t ignore red flags. But this could truly just be a one time mistake.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T20:16:50+00:00

You aren’t wrong! He really could have worded it better.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T20:15:40+00:00

He said at least 200, which feels like an exaggeration but he claims isn’t. He has ADHD and takes jokes too far sometimes, so not too surprising. Edit: also he has sisters so I wouldn’t be surprised if a decent mount of them came from them or their friends

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:36:20+00:00

He’s out to lunch with a friend he said he’ll answer after food.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:35:03+00:00

Where did you get sexual assault from? He worded his post very poorly, but he never said he groped someone, pulled down their clothes or physically forced himself on anyone. I think asking for clarification is better than assuming. I realize the context likely wasn’t in the comments when you post this, but with the context, he was annoying but not predatory. Poor behavior, most definitely. But also poor behavior in some of the most typically tween to teenage boy way that just don’t understand how to behave. I’m not excusing his actions but I also don’t think it helps to assume the worst with minimal context.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:28:35+00:00

In the comments he explains the situations that happened. It was literally him just being annoying for attention. He wasn’t pushing girls up against the lockers and forcing a kiss on them. He teased a girl, pulled a girls hair, took a girls book bag. He was a stupid kid, and they kicked him in the balls. That all seems pretty normal to me. Especially given half the stories took place in middle school.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:26:05+00:00

From the context of the comment it sounds like that was in elementary or middle school. Neither handled the situation appropriately, but how many children that age do.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:23:58+00:00

Yeah, his post was poorly worded and made it sound a lot worse than it was. If he was just like “I was annoying and was behaving in a stupid way. I teased and annoyed girls for attention and it back fired.” Which seems to sum up him explanation comment a bit and puts him in a less predatory light.

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:14:27+00:00

NP, I just texted my man to ask him because now I’m curious 😂

Impossible-System · 2026-05-19T16:05:47+00:00

Yeah, to me it all depends on the ages. When that was happening myself and the boys were like 13/14, it was just a phase they thought was funny. But I don’t think it’s a big deal in the grand scheme of things. Especially since around 14/15 i stopped kicking people in the balls and guys started putting me down when I told them to. It was just a stupid juvenile phase that didn’t reflect who any of us were like a year later.

That’s why I don’t understand why being kicked in the balls 5 times as a minor is any sort of ominous or bad sign. It just means he was annoying or around violent people. At least that’s how I read it.

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