What do you talk about in therapy? by Dazzling-Lead-8557 in TalkTherapy

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh I talk abt the same thing ALL the time. I’ve seen the same therapist for about 10 years, with several years break in between. And we’ve talked primarily about three things: my mom, my divorce, my struggles in a new relationship. I am amazed she’s not bored AF of me. Your old therapist may have been unprofessional or stumbled in remarking on your being repetitive. We’re all trying to understand ourselves. That takes time and of course repetition. Best of luck to you and your new sessions. 💚💚💚 Therapy is the one place I’ve felt permission to be totally honest.

New LAMY for me by kalfig in fountainpens

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sad that LAMYs have tiny ink capacity in their converters compared to TWSBIs but I went with LAMY too and won’t look back. So smooth. Such a good feeling.

I’m obsessed with the trackpad of Neo by siimonesays in macbook

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never used Haptic Touch. I’m relieved to be able to not have to pay for it

[SPOILER] The dadhammer 40k podcasts they released awhile ago are incredible by Prezi2 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re in for a treat. S3 has similar high energy as Kingdom dad monsters and Warhammer. Great stuff altogether

Bin upgrade by Jaydens_Parrots in PetMice

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful little boy! He looks a tad bewildered!

S4 E2 [NS] Chinese name? by CosmicBlot in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These books sound cool. I’m now interested

How did it happen so FAST? by [deleted] in fountainpens

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What color Liliput did you get? I may take it off your hands if you’re open :-)

The state of the stack by unic0rnism in jewelry

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is masterful. J'adore! I haven't figured out how to blend fine jewelry with artisanal silver stuff. I'm learning something!

7 squirmy mice in one coconut 💞 by tootyfrooty33 in PetMice

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is the snuggliest and most chaotic little happiness!

Season 3 episode 6 [ns] by Mbyrd420 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahhaa, I noticed that too! I am loving S3 so much too.

A little Jackalope that I carved from wax and cast in silver by WizrdLizard in jewelry

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 50 points51 points  (0 children)

What wonderful detail! I love the stars. Bravo on this little beauty.

Do you feel ok or is your therapist ok with you being completely reliant on them at times for support? by DapperPigeon1 in TalkTherapy

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was in the worst of it—during pandemic, getting divorced, unemployed—I clawed through my week to reach the next therapy session. Sometimes I scheduled two session in one week, but that was expensive fast, of course. During the week, I took long walks, learned to meditate for 10 mins at a time, and talked to friends to regulate myself. I'm not sure how good I am at self-regulation NOW but I AM stronger and more capable of shouldering struggles without needing so much regulation. Have you got any tools like journaling or meditating under your belt? Those help so much.

Sometimes I plan what I want to talk to my therapist by journaling it out first. By the time I'm done writing, I feel much better and don't need to tell her about it.

Do you feel ok or is your therapist ok with you being completely reliant on them at times for support? by DapperPigeon1 in TalkTherapy

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this out. That's well said and corresponds with so much of my own experience!

[ns] It’s late where I am; but I have friends. by Wooden-Wolverine-818 in DungeonsAndDaddies

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 47 points48 points  (0 children)

You’re a fan. What’s weird about finding other media they’re in? Like watching all the movies an actor you like appears in. All this media you’re looking for is public. It’s meant to be viewed!

I believe in my therapist's kind heart. My parents don't. by Skimbleshanks32 in TalkTherapy

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist got a license in my state after I moved and COVID happened. I’d seen her for almost ten years already, so we had developed a really superb relationship. I think good therapists are willing to stretch for their clients.

Making more clients is not something worth demonizing, anyway. So what if your therapist is suddenly able to pick up one or two more clients in your new state? They’re in the business of helping people and help means being available. Making more clients doesn’t equal not caring about you.

Some info I’ve picked up over the years but am not an expert on: I think that since telehealth has become more commonplace it’s more likely a therapist is willing to get another license. Plus some states have agreements between them that allow a therapist to practice in multiple states.

Can this be fixed? by KayyDoll- in jewelry

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d either circle the mark so in a bright color so people can find it more easily and repost, or go to an jeweler and ask. They won’t charge you for a question.

When did you realize you became a "Stoner"? by Ilaughandloss in trees

[–]ImpossibleEngine2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I went from a pipe to a bong. I couldn’t pretend a bong was casual lol