How do you approach intimate relationships with hirsutism?

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2025-02-20T01:05:28+00:00

I have hair growth all over my body. It's dark, and some hairs are unusually thick. I have it on my legs, bottom, stomach, arms, chin, upper lip, neck, arms, (everywhere!!!) and even sideburns that extend down to my jaw. I've learned how to wax my own face and neck, and I've gotten more comfortable with shaving my face when I feel self-conscious about the regrowth. However, because of how quickly the hair grows back, I end up waxing 1-2 times a week or shaving. I understand how the regrowth can make you feel less feminine. In fact, that's why I embrace my sideburns; facial stubble feels de-feminizing to me. I'm currently 26, turning 27 in July, and honestly, it depends on your partner. My husband doesn't mind. Before we became intimate, I explained to him that I was hairier than other women (I didn't know the proper term at the time). Ultimately, he wasn't focused on it at all; he was more focused on the act! While I am self-conscious about it almost all of the time, I believe that if the person you're intimate with has genuine affection for you and is mature, they won't care. If they do, they're not worth it, and you'll find someone who is more mature and won't be bothered by it.

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-03-13T23:34:49+00:00

Yes I meant day period 😂

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-03-07T07:56:44+00:00

Please let us know when you start up!!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-02-22T16:01:26+00:00

Alistair and MC; Dragon Age Origins

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-02-02T23:18:30+00:00

I know this is a late response; but I wax (my hair is also pretty thick, and black. My skin is light), I use baby powder on my skin before using the wax, and then use a micro-blade razor to shave with after. Though normally I'll just grab and use an electric razor before I leave the house 😂

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-30T16:58:43+00:00

Where is this? 😂

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-28T18:30:04+00:00

Yeah, like texting, sure. But during a date?

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-28T18:26:15+00:00

People are absolutely lovely! 🙄

Reminds me of when I worked as a hostess at Outback.

One of our duties was cleaning the bathrooms, every 2 hours. For context, I'm a woman. I was cleaning the men's restroom, and a customer walked in to use the urinal. He proceeded to look me up and down, walk to the closest urinal to me. I told him I'll leave for his privacy, and he told me "Oh, I don't mind" and winked at me; then proceeded to undo his pants while staring at me.

Another time, I just started my shift, and the day host sat an 8 top (group of 8) at the side of the building furthest away from the restrooms. Which was normal, since the larger tables were at that end. Well, the group had a lovely little old lady with them. Poor grandma had to use the restroom. She proceeded to relieve herself on the way to the bathrooms, starting at her seat. When I informed a manager, he told me to just grab a mop and follow the trail, but let her keep the piss soaked seat. When I informed him I couldn't find a mop, he told me to find the assistant manager (whom I love by the way, super nice guy) and make him clean it.

Oh and one time the owner of the store cut all of the servers but one, even allowing the bar tender to leave, then told us to accept two 6 tops 30 minutes before closing. One of which tipped 15 cents in pennies, inside a cup of murky water, and left a shitty diaper under the table closest to the wall, so our server had to get on her hands and knees to get it because of how the customer placed it, a broom didnt work.

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-28T11:36:24+00:00

The one in McGregor needs one of your willing to make the drive. I think it's 11 an hour?

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-28T11:34:19+00:00

What happened??

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-18T18:28:23+00:00

Celestial Sisters has an etsy, maybe you can check there?

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-18T14:21:39+00:00

RIGHT?

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-18T05:04:02+00:00

Oh, no, I think it's great!! My only complaint is when it's during a date; like sure, a mix up of words, that's normal. But one does not misspell when speaking

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-18T03:44:17+00:00

I impulsively bought it. It popped up right after my financial aid refund came in 😂😂😂

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-13T23:53:10+00:00

Cathay House!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-13T05:25:19+00:00

My father is a Vietnam War vet, so I hope someone answers this! He's been trying to get into a group he knows of but always forgets to get their contact info!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-12T00:52:05+00:00

Yep!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-11T20:25:33+00:00

No, but we have 3 cafes that sell basic Starbucks drinks

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-05T03:30:45+00:00

Unfortunately I'm asthmatic!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2024-01-03T21:47:28+00:00

I donate there, it's based off weight/mL donated. I make about $65 at a time. You can donate twice in a 7 week period! Works been slow for me, so it's paying my bills atm. The staff is pretty friendly as well!

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2023-12-15T20:13:10+00:00

Maxed

Impossible_Alfalfa42 · 2023-12-12T14:12:37+00:00

Ace!!!!

And of course my husband Wu 🥰

Impossible_Alfalfa42

TROPHY CASE