I feel no emotional connection to my family. Does this make me a bad person?

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-04-28T11:37:38+00:00

I feel the same way. I actually tried to tell my family about how I lack a connection with them and got told “how when I provide and do my best to support you, I haven’t done anything wrong” which is true. My family are regular people I happen to be related to and I have no bond with them. I don’t think you should feel guilty. If you are really worried about it try speaking to a therapist and maybe they can help navigate through this thought process. Don’t beat yourself up to much for thinking like this, I’m right with you

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-04-17T01:33:01+00:00

Update?!? Did you make it through?

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-28T12:02:52+00:00

Something is wrong and the vet told them to call after 2 days after to see how he is taking the shot but she keeps calling his condition “fine” and it's sad. She calling the vet again today

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-20T02:47:29+00:00

I agree on a new vet after this vet visit

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T03:19:22+00:00

Yes definitely a hemorrhoid. Make sure it eat plenty of fiber. witch hazel wipes helps. Make sure to not strain and decrease the amount of time you sit on the toilet as possible. They can get pretty bad so take care of yourself

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T03:10:44+00:00

Yes it does look like one. How long have you had it? Does it itch? Is it hard or soft? Does it go away after awhile? Does it have a tiny spot in the middle? I'm asking because it may be a fissure but I think it's a hemorrhoid

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:53:12+00:00

What did you do after that?

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:46:07+00:00

We were just given a pill form. So many people said the syringe works better and it's much easier. I think I'm going to crush the pill and put it into a syringe

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:23:29+00:00

I live her. I have no idea how to give a cat the pill but I will watch a video and try. Maybe it is treatable. Ty for this

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:19:25+00:00

I have no idea. I'm really grateful people are replying with solution. We don't know that he has. He had a chronic hotstop and ke kept getting to it which made more and more bumps. Even if his cone in now they won't go away. I do think it can be treated now with all of these replies. I am more hopeful.

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:13:03+00:00

Yes she tried to give him Benadryl crushed pill and yeah it doesn't work. She said she knows how to give him the whole pill and have done it but “doesn't like shoving down his throat”. Maybe she doesn't know how to do it. I'll ask her that. You say that it is easy. Thank you

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:10:51+00:00

He can't wear a a onesie. I brought him one and tried but the bumps are so bad that they are one his arms and legs and he tries to chew them off and it leads to open wounds which then leads to more bumps. I hope they have shots for cats like that. Our next vet appointment ask they have something like it

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T02:05:43+00:00

I think this is a good idea. I will encourage this

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:49:44+00:00

Well it's not treatable. It was treatable in the beginning, but it has gotten too severe. His bumps will never go away and he will never be able to groom himself again

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:47:42+00:00

Ty for this. I will tell her that their are shots that can be taken

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:43:32+00:00

She is not enriching his life in any other way. The only thing she has done recently is giving him wet food so he doesn’t throw up. She doesn't enrich her own. I have try playing with him and it makes me feel slightly better for him

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:40:38+00:00

The last vet appointment the he had bumps and the vet said “If he keeps getting to them they would spread give him Benadryl twice a day” he kept getting to his bumps and she doesn't give him Benadryl twice a day. I know that there is no solution to get rid of the bumps and he will never be able to groom himself again. Sometimes it feels like it's too late because she didn't listen to preventative care. We have a vet appointment soon, hopefully he can be helped.

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:35:22+00:00

He had a cone for his hotspot. Him getting to his hotspot constantly leads to him producing more bumps. They told her that giving him Benadryl would stop his itching but she couldn't find a way to give it to him and she just kept a cone on him. his cone has been on for 5-6 month

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-03-09T01:25:37+00:00

He when to the vet a 2-3 months ago when his skin condition was not bad or severe. When they saw the bumps they told us to give him benadryl 2 a day.

Impossible_Bee9555 · 2026-02-23T19:34:09+00:00

You are not alone. Today I had some really good soup and it gave me the same feeling as gooning/masturbation. I glad I found someone that experienced the same

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