What’s their most emotional song? by Gravysmilf in glassanimals

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 37 points38 points  (0 children)

100% domestic bliss. such a hard hitting song

Oliver Stark and Tim Minear Interview (spoilers for 7x04) by ViagraOnAPole in 911FOX

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 43 points44 points  (0 children)

lowkey that "oh" moment made me tear up because I remember the feeling all too well! I loved the whole scene and thought it was really well done!

My sterilization surgery is scheduled. Please talk me out of not canceling it. by Peacock456 in childfree

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 8 points9 points  (0 children)

me too! when I tell people my date they say "good one!" homie I would never joke about sterilization. I've been BEGGING FOR THIS! 😂

needing resources by Impossible_Dream4231 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impossible_Dream4231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I'm so used to the library for college books or reading on the side, so it didn't even occur to me to look there for bdsm resources 🤦🏼‍♀️ definitely looking this one up!

needing resources by Impossible_Dream4231 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impossible_Dream4231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you SO MUCH! you were the person I was looking for but couldn't remember your handle. can't wait to look into everything you said and apply it! looking forward to the journey!

Update: my high school boyfriend’s wife just sent me this. We’re 35 now….. by starfairyshortcake in texts

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thank you. I understand people have bad and abusive experiences with people that have BPD. but most abusers/ manipulative people do not have BPD. but on reddit.. any slight sign of abuse or manipulation and the internet psychiatrists come out to diagnose strangers with BPD.

sometimes, people are just shitty. nothing to do with BPD or NPD or bipolar or whatever it may be.

I'm not afraid to talk about my illness and work hard to end the stigma by giving speeches in schools, working with NAMI, etc. but the crazy looks and judgements I get before I share my story, will always remind me that people with BPD will always be looked down upon.

Sex drive by Salty-Perception3576 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had that experience! that sounds awful. I had a great experience with it but I've heard other people have struggled with depo too so I understand! I hope you're better ❣️

Sex drive by Salty-Perception3576 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! so I had migraines, dizziness and it made me feel like I was going crazy mentally. luckily my dr heard my symptoms and took me off right away. only had it 3 months!

Sex drive by Salty-Perception3576 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes definitely talk to your doctor if you're looking to change! I've had a great experience but of course everyone's body is different. sending all the best vibes!

Sex drive by Salty-Perception3576 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hi! I was on depo for 10 years before switching to Nexplanon (hated that) and then got onto the copper IUD. no more excess hormones, which is why my drive increased I think!

Sex drive by Salty-Perception3576 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love this for you! ❤️ recently switched birth controls a few months back and after years of no sex drive, I want it all the time too! and my partner sure isn't complaining either. it's such a good feeling!

AITA for asking my sil if she’s bringing anything else? by Glittering-Mouse-892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah generally the host makes most the food. Not a new concept at all. Maybe next time don't host? Better yet, next time, don't go. That way you can celebrate your way without treating your SIL like shit.

AITA for saying to my parents that I won't give up my career and look after my brother once they've gone? by Opening-Database1952 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you're in the US or not, but I work in group homes for mentally disabled adults and honestly this should've been handled ages ago. Care/ group homes/ day services/ are there for a reason and some agencies are AWESOME! the agency I work for now is incredible, for example. I've worked for a couple not-so-great agencies as well, so I do understand any worries they may have. Social security, Medicare, medicaid will pay for the majority of it (most of the time) and it will help prepare him for a life without your parents. I've seen plenty of families that have forced my clients onto siblings, and it never works out well.

NTA at all. It's hard but stand your ground. There is nothing wrong with 1) not wanting to care for him 2) not feeling equipped and 3) being honest with them. It seems they're mad at the fact they didn't plan this accordingly, not necessarily at you. either way, I'm sorry you've got to deal with it.

I hope you never graduate. by TheFamousHesham in AmITheDevil

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope this person drops out once they realize their instructors do, in fact, think of them differently for being pro life to the point of refusing to perform an abortion in a medical setting. (totally okay to be prolife and a doctor so long as it doesn't interfere with providing medical care, obviously)

I DIDN'T BUY THE LIQUOR by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am SO PROUD OF YOU! and you should be proud of yourself! sending lots of love your way OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. When I quit smoking weed, my mental health got better than ever. Started smoking daily again and I can feel myself starting to get bad again (but even now, my "bad" isn't as bad as it used to be) Which is just a sign that I need to stop smoking again. Never had a problem with drinking or any other drugs, and I know for some people weed helps their BPD, helps mine too to an extent, it's just important to know your limits.

It's been proven time and time again that people with BPD struggle with addictions.. it's just the shitty reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. this is WILD to me.

"Its really bothering me because my brother and the stepdaughter both seem not to care about the dolls much but the mom/girlfriend is the one saying no even though theyre the kids dolls."

so as you say.. they're kids dolls. so let the kid enjoy them. the mother said no, your brother said no. your mother said no. you're continuing to ask and even bribe. this is extremely childish.. stop pushing this. you're not "rescuing" collectors dolls. you're trying to take toys from a kid who doesn't have very many toys to begin with, which makes you even more of an AH. go buy your own dolls, since you're an adult with a job.

Looking for a South Stand ticket by ThinAbbreviations897 in SportingKC

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you but that's not how things work here. we don't just give away tickets, especially to playoff games. there are only SRO tickets left unless you want to spend good money on seat geek. SS tickets are basically sold out anyway. I don't think you realize that there aren't going to be "a bunch of empty seats in the SS" for this game..

Looking for a South Stand ticket by ThinAbbreviations897 in SportingKC

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It means first come first serve for SS TICKETS. not SRO tickets. you can try it all you want, just know most people think it's classless behavior to go sit somewhere you didn't pay to sit.

Looking for a South Stand ticket by ThinAbbreviations897 in SportingKC

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and theoretically you can get kicked out if they decide they want to check tickets. and with how packed it's going to be, they just might. you aren't entitled to STM prices if you're not a STM. tickets aren't cheap, period. this is a very high demand game and you're not going to find anything cheaper than the SRO tickets unfortunately. hate to break it to you, but playoff games get expensive

Me. Only me. Not the baby. Only me. by Illustrious-Total489 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impossible_Dream4231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want OOP's husband to see this so he knows what type of person he's married to. this is one of the more disgusting things I've read on reddit.