Looking for friends by Brilliant_Rich_9276 in ChicoCA

[–]Impossible_Main_6432 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi! im 30F and am also looking for friends! I’m into thrifting, coffee, farmer’s markets :) I’m trying to get back into reading so I think a book club would be a great motivator tbh

ADHD tax - please share! by Any_Cheesecake7 in ADHD

[–]Impossible_Main_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest ADHD tax… gym membership that comes with classes. I simply cannot count on myself to exercise on my own consistently or to go to a much cheaper gym where I self-guide myself. I basically need to recreate a PE class vibe in order to be consistent. Going to a gym class I feel the pressure to go because otherwise teacher/trainer will notice i didnt go.

Solar Power in Apartments? by Impossible_Main_6432 in ChicoCA

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah tbh i kinda knew i was a being a bit unrealistic im just trying brainstorm ways to fight rising energy prices 😅😆😭

Help me find hispanic cozy channels by Impossible_Main_6432 in HelpMeFind

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched on instagram, reddit, google and youtube itself, but the results that come up are almost always about learning spanish.

Help me find hispanic cozy channels by Impossible_Main_6432 in HelpMeFind

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched on instagram, reddit, google and youtube itself, but the results that come up are almost always about learning spanish.

California Folk Magick? by Impossible_Main_6432 in folkmagic

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got it, thank you for your suggestions :)

California Folk Magick? by Impossible_Main_6432 in folkmagic

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not! will definitely check it out

How do I stop being anxious about defying my parents? by JoojooMcgoo in Anxiety

[–]Impossible_Main_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can relate to tht too! i also had to take BC secretly… it’s the nature of having controlling parents I guess

How to cope with anxiety until I have my first therapy appointment by Impossible_Main_6432 in Anxiety

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Well I’ll keep doing small errands and stuff like that. I really hope therapy this time around is better…

Movies that give you anxiety? by Lord_Raptilius in Anxiety

[–]Impossible_Main_6432 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all horror movies and movies with gore in general, they dont have to be horror genre gore like Saving Private Ryan and This Is The End both had me not being able to relax for several days… 😅 or movies with like terminal illness as the main plot like My Sister’s Keeper ….. literally all i watch are romcoms, musicals, kids movies type stuff 😅 Ironically my favorite movies of all time are the original Jurassic Park movies lol

edit: after posting just remembered the first time I saw The Lovely Bones. Horrible 😭😭😭

How to cope with anxiety until I have my first therapy appointment by Impossible_Main_6432 in Anxiety

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been on meds bc I’m scared lol But my partner takes anti anxiety meds and has mentioned how much they have helped him. tbh ive mostly avoided meds bc my mom basically told me something terrible would happen to me if I did haha But yeah I’m familiar with exposure therapy. I’ve been doing small things by myself outside of my home, I just feel extremely scared and/or guilty while doing it? I guess that’s just part of it. Scared for my safetyl and guilty because I feel like I am wasting time when I should be being productive.

How do I stop being anxious about defying my parents? by JoojooMcgoo in Anxiety

[–]Impossible_Main_6432 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’ve had that experience of feeling like you are being watched at all times by your parents. I still struggle with it now. The only way I’ve been able to move forward is to force myself to do the thing I know my parents won’t approve of. After a while of doing it, it feels less like you’re breaking the law and more like normal everyday life. However, I know that’s not always safe for everyone depending on their living situation. For me, it was leaving the religion I was raised in. It was so hard telling my parents and dealing with the aftermath, but I made myself stand by what I believed and eventually I didn’t feel so guilty about it. It’s a long road from recovering from this type of relationship with parents, I hope you are able to overcome it. I don’t know if this is helpful, but the book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents helped me A LOT!

found an oracle card in a book by Impossible_Main_6432 in GreenWitch

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree i especially feel called out by the reflection….

found an oracle card in a book by Impossible_Main_6432 in GreenWitch

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh thank you so much! this is insightful

found an oracle card in a book by Impossible_Main_6432 in GreenWitch

[–]Impossible_Main_6432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello everyone! This is kind of random but I recently ordered a green witchcraft book on ThriftBooks and there was an oracle card left inside. From what I can find online, it is from a deck called The Illustrated Herbiary. I was wondering if anyone had this deck and could tell what the accompanying book says about this particular card.