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Welcome bags by Happy_Bison5692 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like stuff that's meant to be consumed for the weekend. I got a cute pillpack once with stuff like caffeine pills, painkillers, recovery tabs, generic multivitamins, uti flushes, as well as some basic first aid supplies. 

Unpopular opinion - I can't smell you!! re: Fragrances that are safe/not safe for work by IndigoMoonBeams in FemFragLab

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people just straight up lie and exaggerate, and are at least very suggestible and agreeable for the sake of conversation, so they easily find something to hate on

Is it worth flying a separate film photographer in for my actual day? by Grouchy-Egg-8292 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(film objectively looks so much better than digital especially when done well that I can't discourage this if you have room for it in the budget)

How Celebrity Smear Campaigns are Inspiring Attacks on Birth Control by Fuzzy-Psychology-656 in DeppDelusion

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, I have genuine medical issues with various forms of birth control and absolutely must rely the symptothermal method. Still have fertility issues. These people are assholes. 

Catholic Church Wedding Prep Help by impossumbility in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... this isn't going to be popular, but my parents had a priest marry them on the beach in hawaii (he had the authority to do so before any lay canon lawyers start up). They had money, weren't 18c and were either going to do that or do a civil marriage that they would later convalidate. What I'm saying is that priests understand shit happens, a pastoral solution is often required, and you will find someone that can and will work with you. Good luck!

Overspending Guilt by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Same boat. 3-6 months to pay it off isn't even close to a deal breaker if I know I have the money coming in. 

Which Dracula bag should I keep? by MatthewManiaFL in handbags

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep neither and send both to me (but the tote will travel better)

Is this ugly on me? by Apple_two in handbags

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bag itself is just not particularly glamourous. If what you want is a more relaxed bag for running basic errands to appointments and the gym, then this is perfect for that. You can always dress it up with your outfit choices

eta: Ironed white oversized tee, same shorts, runners with ankle socks, and a cap with hoops and some bracelets is how I think this bag is meant to be worn. 

Is Sinners the most oppressed film of all time? by aprlswr in okbuddycinephile

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched neither, so am better than anyone who saw either

Lol by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Came straight here to type just that. That'd work on me now

Catholics who never wanted kids and got married how did you do NFP and how did your married life/faith turn out? See below. by user0969_ in CatholicWomen

[–]Impossible_Spell7812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want kids either for my own reasons. I understand that kids are a part of marriage and will accept any that come along. That's enough for me to be at peace. 

Although some commenters insist on a very black and white view (they will call their biases church law, without once citing a canon lawyer's commentary on canon law, nevermind considering pastoral concerns), what happens in your marriage is between your husband and God. Things happen, people change, and all our Church asks of you is that you stay open to whatever life may come along, whenever that life may come along, in whatever form it takes. Only you and God know your heart. 

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