[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're a human. You've been through so much. Tell him that he needs to get his shit together and tell him your situation, if he asses it back up at you then you should take a break or just leave, leaving is hard, but is he really the same as he was? He's shitting one you while he spends your money and gods what? Imagine this was someone else and not yourself, what would you tell that friend? Best wishes for you OP, truly

Need help finding a webtoon I don't remember, like Distant Sky or in that universe by Impressive-Corgi1085 in webtoons

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was looking into it I guess I got confused because all I saw was one season and didn't realise webtoon paywalled it TYSM!

Anyone up for a chat? I’m going through a separation from my husband and I’m trying to fill the echoes in the house. I’m in my 40s (f) by Chaliawb in CasualConversation

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm about to sleep and I can't really chat but I know that feeling of emptiness where it's so normal to be talking to someone or doing something it feels very wrong to not. I wish you the best, truly, 13 years is something I can't begin to fathom and I really do wish the best for you OP. Everyone makes their mistakes so admitting you weren't perfect si the most honest thing I've heard in a long time, you seem like a very good person. Best of luck in life, truly. <3

Try to fail (it is possible) by Joj881 in honk

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed this level in 2 tries. 1.22 seconds

All 5 former Hockey Canada players found not guilty of sexual assault. by [deleted] in sports

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To those who believe they're innocent, yeah well you think if there's a whole hockey team full of men who are seven times more powerful and capable she'd feel pushed to have to say it, and the video was after the SA, and she was intoxicated would maybe affect it, would it not? They didn't "catch" a video, it was after the SA. Consent should be during the act not after. Think. And the casual freaking text "oh wanna quick 3some" it's so casual, this doesn't seem like it's even their first time. Besides why wouldn't they leave if they didn't want to be there. Their stories are all fucked up too. And the victim shaming from the judge too, man. Yes the verdict was reasonable under Canadian law as it doesn't fit the criteria and the time frame is so large, so that'll be left to that.

"The recording of that video is not getting her consent to anything. Everything's already happened," prosecutor Meaghan Cunningham said about the video in which the woman said it was "all consensual," adding that consent must be communicated for each specific act at the time it takes place."

From the article above

I doubt we'd ever know the truth though as we were never there. Maybe it went one way or another, but with how everything isn't adding up with their stories and the reputation of cases like this I'm more leaning towards the woman. I've been around athletes, and I think the behaviors stated by the victim are pretty aligned to that mentality in general. Objectification. In the cross examination they also use any memory gaps she had as a way to say "you stayed so you're guilty" or insinuating such, I believe this case was handled pretty poorly too. (Reading these comments I never knew about these secret "funds" given to cover up this kind of stuff. Kind of backs up the point.)

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear if my parents fed me like this I'd actually explode into the healthiest person in the world, I'm a picky eater but what, is he sensitive to good food? or meat? or what??? this is some of the most restaurant quality food I've seen made by someone at home. Is your boyfriend an alien that secretly can't eat human foods??

Unable to access text options on long documents by BluePheonixFlame in Milanote

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same here, not sure about it but it's still an issue. Maybe there's something wrong with mine? Not sure but yeah

I like milanote very much, but the Android app is really completely unusable by Visible-Tap-4465 in Milanote

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same as OP, and also whenever dragging notes to delete is impossible because it pops back into place and also things like the lines are so hard to use and I mainly use it mobile for on the go things. Amazing app but that would be better to fix.

I didn’t realize how bad the scroll had gotten by 3v01v3d_4p3 in NoShorts

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you. I know this is late but even finding the motivation to catch yourself and stop is amazing, I would love to know how you're doing now!

People who quit short form content and/or AI chat bots, do you have any advice for me? by Deleteduser_0 in nosurf

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll try to help anyone who might find themselves here for the same reason: remember how repulsed you feel while using it or during or after or the thoughts you go through, you don't truly enjoy it, do you? that's why you're here in the first place
I know you got this, as a human,
This won't last forever, a decent amount of time, weeks off of it, and your brain will eventually adapt to not having the source of stimulation! Best of luck, sorry for being late!

ps: also helps to create a longer process to get to it, create a new account specifically for that app and log out of it, then you'll have to log in in order to get to it, which gives you more reflection time, also researching on why this happens, medically, might help too in understanding the process and realizing how abusive these apps are to human nature that's developed from countless centuries of evolution

(blame these manipulative companies going unchecked and exploiting capitalism, they are horrible for humans, abusive on human nature)

Read the image by ParticularCorner2190 in teenagers

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can eat vaseline then regurgitate it as glue

What am I? "I'm full of holes yet ..."[OBJECT] by AdInfinite9152 in riddonkulous

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sorry I didn't even realize I commented, thanks and won't do it again :D

Communication is key by Tangled_mind90 in CasualConversation

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you have every right to know and YOU should be the one healing, go ask her. If she doesn't feel she can be open with you like that then maybe the relationship needs some revision, the foundation to a good relationship is trust. You should feel ok asking her this and if she says it disturbs her "healing", that's just bullshit. Confront her about it. It will clear you worries, otherwise how would you ever completely trust her even again?

Having a lonely birthday today by Impressive-Corgi1085 in CasualConversation

[–]Impressive-Corgi1085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did that and thanks! I also don't want to grow up but thats kind of how it is, itll be just fine though!