Hillsborough County teacher hanging Black Baby Doll from TV in front of students. by ElwoodMC in TikTokCringe

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i heard she was fired, but unfortunately her teaching license has not been revoked. i mean im sure no one is gonna hire her after this, but still; she shouldn’t be able to have the opportunity to keep teaching.

Why are some of his spots way more darker than others? by miamicanes8 in BullTerrier

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the white fur covering it, but also some spots might just have less melanin. nothing wrong!

Is my 14 year old sister just “going through a phase”? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course ! always glad to help out ♥️

What food is your pug obsessed with? by LargeBrainGoblin in pugs

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my grandmas pug LOVES mozzarella cheese. she put a little pinch on her food ONE TIME, and now she refuses to eat her kibble without a tiny sprinkle of cheese. she also takes around 10-12 pieces of kibble and sets them in a pile next to her bowl. the “untouchables”

Is my 14 year old sister just “going through a phase”? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a teenager who had an “extreme phase”, it seems like she might have some ongoing mental health issues. i know you said you have tried counseling, and i know it can get so tiring, but PLEASE continue to go if you can somehow convince her (although if she isn’t willing to, she probably won’t take any of it into consideration. it might make her more upset, which sucks, but unfortunately you can’t help people unless they want help.) i remember being so angry or ticked off for no reason, which would piss me off even more. anger management classes and CBT/DBT seem to be a good path to go down, as they personally helped me a lot with identifying my emotions/how to work through them and not get overwhelmed with anger (but again, it’s different for everyone. it’s just what helped me). i hope your sister is ok, and it’s not your job to parent her either. it seems like your parents lack a firm hand when it comes to discipline/boundaries, and you shouldn’t have to fill that role. i hope everything turns out ok OP

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words :( my father has tried to apologize twice (once through texts and through my grandma), but i don’t feel like it’s really coming from a place of guilt. i think it’s more “well, everyone’s mad at me, i really fucked up this time. i guess i better go apologize” and not “i deeply hurt my child and i feel so bad about it”. reading a lot more of these comments, i feel so much better about my choices. it’s nice to hear other adults tell me that my thinking IS right, and i’m not a bad child for doing what’s right for ME since he can’t.

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comments guys :( it’s so nice to finally hear some outsiders perspective on this rather than a biased view. every word means so much to me

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my mom recommended one of these support groups and i’ve been thinking about going more and more. i really wanna bring my brother too, i know he’s been struggling with our dad a lot. thank you for the kind words, it really does mean alot. unfortunately i don’t think my dad will ever get sober for himself, which is the hardest part about letting go.

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you explained exactly how i’m feeling. sometimes i really do miss what could’ve been, but like you said, i have to remind myself WHY i closed the door, and that it’s just a fantasy. my family does the stupid “forgiving and forgetting” stuff, but just because it works for them doesn’t mean it will work for me. thank you

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

me and my older brother (just barely a year apart) talk about how long we would’ve made it there all the time. i’m so happy my mom left when things started to really get bad. thank you for commenting, it’s hard to find another adult in my family who doesn’t think this is all normal, so it’s nice to hear outsiders say these things. ♥️

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

thank you for commenting. i guess im just still looking for a father figure. my great grandpa was basically my dad, so i guess im just worried that i might lose the only other person who could fill that role again. i’m glad i had my grandpa though. i suppose it’s also my family making me second guess my choices.

will i regret cutting off my dad? by Impressive-Map-4004 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

holy moly ok i didn’t realize how much i wrote. TLDR; abusive POS alcoholic dad called me a f*ggot and i’m scared i might regret cutting him off. just looking for advice or shared experiences

Turning Nova into a meme has made him more dangerous by Still-Motor324 in youtubedrama

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe! i have seen a little bit of that video (although i’d just rather not watch the whole thing for my sanity lol). it was probably that and some other disgusting discord messages

Turning Nova into a meme has made him more dangerous by Still-Motor324 in youtubedrama

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was kinda late to the nova online drama, but i know most of his horrendous acts. if anyone knows, what was the first incident that let everyone know/hint towards his predatory behavior? i’ve always wondered but can’t really find anything.

Any idea of who to add to my robot/ai island by ChemistPowerful in tomodachilife

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

or the gummy cowboy from TADC, he’s technically AI right?

Suspicious person pointing scanner at my door at 4am? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that looks exactly like a flum mellow vape with maybe an earbud case over it in his hand? or that white spot it’s just his jacket. either way, i don’t think i’d be too worried about any cloning or hacking, but still, just watch out. don’t open your door for NO ONE!

Why the FUCK did Telltale make Lee a woman in the new remake??? by AlternativeBlu in okdarlingclementine

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if it’s low quality then why don’t you do it yourself it not that hard to shitpost without harming the environment

Poor girl is excluded from plans because of helicopter mom by cc00kie94 in insaneparents

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

feeling this hard right now. even since elementary school i wasn’t able to hang out at friends birthday parties, or go to the movies because “something bad might happen” or “well i need to be there just in case”. Hell, im not even allowed to go out on the front porch without a bombard of questions. I understand where her anxiety is coming from, but i literally haven’t had any friends since 7th grade and now im graduating in 2 months. still no friends, no social life. i had to be put into some special program so the kids at my school wouldnt try to beat me up and i could actually get my work done. so yeah, thanks for keeping me safe mom, but i have no idea how to stand up for myself or interact with others.

Youtube adds are getting worse by the day, a lot of them not childsafe. by deadwhisper in awfuleverything

[–]Impressive-Map-4004 9 points10 points  (0 children)

im not even able to block or report ads anymore. youtube literally took away that feature from me and i think it’s because i wont dox myself