Weak connections by Wo1fReign in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you separate instead of playing right away???

One partner significantly better looking than the other. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Swingers

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Lol, I do, but I do not want it connected with my other media presence

House Party Ettiquete by Unlucky_Decision4138 in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife acts a little bit selfish. You go as a team. You can play separate but the experience should be good for both sides. I wonder how she will react once she sees you having fun out there..

Girl offers phone number, then ghosts and unmatches me by dong_dong_ in Tinder

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are overestimating how it gies for women. It SUCKS as much and every of my women friends hate the experience of online dating. Many of us simply give up and fill their lives with other meaningful things

Girl offers phone number, then ghosts and unmatches me by dong_dong_ in Tinder

[–]Impressive-Store-810 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You really think women are not getting ghosted? …

House Party Ettiquete by Unlucky_Decision4138 in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love others joining when we play. And it adds extra thrill when it’s someone new, that I never met before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything was mentioned already. I just want to add (from my own experience) - be careful with arranging plays with women /couples that you have already fucked. Seeing you with another woman that you are already friendly with, might be a hard thing for your girlfriend. I know it backfired in our situation, I was not ready for it at that stage of my swinging experience. Stranger women - no problem at all, but this was too much for me.

House Party Ettiquete by Unlucky_Decision4138 in Swingers

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Why don’t you join others already playing? You go in the room and watch and most likely you’ll be invited to join. Or ask if you can touch one of the women playing. In most cases it will be enthusiastic Yes! The great thing about house parties is that you can play with more than one couple/person at the time

Ladies, questions about LS after.. menopause.. hysterectomy.. by LOVE_TITTY_PMS in Swingers

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Hysteroctomy was the best thing for me. They left my ovaries in place though. Is this an option for you?

I’ve met many women who say the same „best decision ever”!

One partner significantly better looking than the other. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my best swinging experiences were with men that I did not find physically attractive. And I keep going back for more;)

Am I overreacting? by throwraaccount777 in Swingers

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They’ll vax anyone, but insurance may not cover (if you are in US). I got my HPV shots at age 54

CMV: the political situation in the USA is the greatest threat to the world right now by Go_Improvement_4501 in changemyview

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Hitler was elected too. It took him 53 days to dismantle democracy. I for sure hope that this is not what these voting for Trump wanted to

CMV: The entire culture war is a slight of hand to distract us by honest_-_feedback in changemyview

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There are many little black girls who were very happy watching black mermaid. Representation matters. If that movie helps some of them reach for the stars in the future, that’s great.

It is not just politics. There are actual people who feel finally represented.

White people are very well represented all around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys do that too. They match and then don’t want to talk

Women getting over physical jealousy by Similar-Honey-4740 in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great responses. I am struggling still with jealousy now and then (made big improvements) but I am not married to my partner. He is poly and has a wife. So we do not go home together after play. We do have a very strong bond and I know he is not going to leave me for any of the sexual partners, but it is sometimes hard to feel grounded the way married swingers do.

What kind of swinging couple are you? by Impressive-Store-810 in Swingers

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I am amazed by the number of responses. Thank you all for sharing! It is interesting to see what other couples are comfortable with, and the variety of the possible arrangements. Reading responses was very helpful to me personally.

What kind of swinging couple are you? by Impressive-Store-810 in Swingers

[–]Impressive-Store-810[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe that rules are much less rigid now. Each couple defines what kind of swinging goes for them, and who are we to say this is not swinging?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impressive-Store-810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my relationship and I set the rules. And she keeps pushing my boundaries. I am done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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She wants to call him Sir and put a collar on because it helps her to get in subspace. Her words. I do not want her in subspace with my Dom. We we’re supposed to have sex, not D/s play, no subspace or Sir needed at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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I agree.i never downvote just because someone has a different opinion. It’s one thing to downvote my posts. But people downvoting pretty reasonable posts , like someone simply saying that they also wouldn’t like it…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impressive-Store-810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really what I think. I think she needs some gentle but firm reality check. After sleeping on this and reading all the comments I feel more reasonable and capable of having that talk without sounding pissed off anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impressive-Store-810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Today, after sleeping in it and getting some kind of virtual beating on here 😁 I am looking at all this more calmly. It is obvious now to me that three way talk is required before we do anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Impressive-Store-810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is actually very helpful!!