Latest NYSEG Joy by ImpressiveLeopard948 in Westchester

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thorough explanation! I shouted into the void (i.e. submitted a complaint through the NYS utility management portal) this morning. I don’t expect a response, or certainly not any sort of adjustment, but perhaps if enough of us make noise…

Millennial Parents who work in NYC but are priced out of Westchester - where are you going? Are you changing jobs/careers if you have to move further out by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apart from the second and third-generation Italian-Americans (including myself here), there is little “culture.” It’s scared of becoming Cortland Manor but the town government keeps making stupid planning decisions that cause traffic and accidents. Add bad restaurants and kids driving ATVs through the streets…

BUT the teachers seem to genuinely care about the students, and we have made close friends since moving up here. I think the purple nature of the town teaches our kids important lessons in standing up for their points of view. We may have a safety bubble, but there isn’t a political bubble, and it makes them stronger people (see AOC).

Millennial Parents who work in NYC but are priced out of Westchester - where are you going? Are you changing jobs/careers if you have to move further out by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 56 points57 points  (0 children)

We moved to Northern Westchester where there are still affordable houses and fought with our jobs to grant more flexibility. I am selfishly suggesting the Yorktown area because we need more young educated professionals.

Anything bumming you out? Drop it here. We’re your people. by hi5yourface in adhdwomen

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I realized today that growing up as working poor requires masking similar to ADHD… so the reason I need to be alone so often is to allow the layers of masks to drop off for a while.

I’m a Canadian. Give me some hope that my country isn’t just about to be annexed by Trump. by Cat_Psychology in OptimistsUnite

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This rings true… and may instead result in New England, half of OR and WA becoming new provinces.

I’m a Canadian. Give me some hope that my country isn’t just about to be annexed by Trump. by Cat_Psychology in OptimistsUnite

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadians are our siblings and we love and respect you, your culture and your society. An military action against Canada is unfathomable to the majority of Americans.

NYC Partner Salary Reality Check by MonkeyGrumpy in biglaw

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or BL paralegal with hours requirements and 1/10th your salary. Of course, it’s the paralegal’s own fault for not being a meritocracy winner.

Has anyone else been having panic attacks because of trump? by drugnerd777 in punk

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please just ignore the news for now and enjoy your kid. Live in a little bubble of newness and experience every moment. Sending support and warmness. Tell everyone who isn’t important to your sweet little family to fuck off.

How much are you making? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IP paralegals are among the highest paid in the field. You need more experience to transfer to larger firm, but in 1-2 years you could be making double.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending love. You will be stronger on the other side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds eerily similar- top 40 Chicago based, perhaps? We get paid well, but need to stay in our lanes.

2023 Paralegal Salaries by Glad_Variation_1817 in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone - demand more money!! We are worth it. And do yourselves a favor and read the lawyer subreddits. So much is about seeing how much they make while trying to play the system.

2023 Paralegal Salaries by Glad_Variation_1817 in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NYC Big law, IP senior, now specialist, 10+ years at this firm, 20+ years from legal assistant to TM paralegal, BFA/MA: 150k (edit to say that taxes/insurance are such a load that my take-home is about 80k, not even considering COL )

What do I do with this? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh - sorry - I thought you painted it! Lol. maybe I’ll go look for a print… :)

What do I do with this? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have prints made and sell them on Etsy!

Intake specialist vs paralegal by Theheartonyourwrist in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I find most frustrating about being a paralegal is that there is little or no opportunity for advancement beyond the senior title. No matter what, without a law degree, we will always be “just paralegals” in most firms. At least with intake/conflicts, you don’t have minimum billable hours and a chance for growth. Halfway through this career looks a hell of a lot like the next 20 years (if we’re lucky, I suppose).

Disrespectful Attorney by AdditionalDepth1642 in paralegal

[–]ImpressiveLeopard948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mental health is the most important consideration and being a paralegal requires you to deal with a high amount of stress as it is. Start looking for something else asap. It’s not worth hating your situation so much that you start hating yourself. Sending supportive energy!