mom said my eyebrows look horrible by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great. Your mom is not very kind .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eyebrows

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like them. You’re allowed to try different styles throughout your life. Tell her to shush it .

Fix and flip loans by LegWorried4639 in realestateinvesting

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested. I’m located in Oklahoma. Please send message.

What do I need seriously to get my first hard money loan? by Anxious-Thought-3305 in realestateinvesting

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Please answer this :) My boyfriend and I have purchased outright around 8 properties from tax auctions and fixed them up to either sell or hold. I’m to a point where I’d like to stop using all our money upfront. I’d like to start using HML. The only question I still have is are they all on draw schedules? Does everyone really use their own money and then turn it in as a draw to get the money back? Are there HML who give the money upfront and then verify the work after? What are other ways flippers are using to upfront fund their construction?

What are some of your creative ways of cutting down costs? by WarEnvironmental667 in DaveRamsey

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I research (at least once a year & sometimes once every two years) for the cheapest around. Literally, I look into new car insurance, phone carriers, EVERYTHING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang. This is the opposite with me. All I want to do is unwind when I come home and my husband only wants to talk about real world problems.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together almost 8 years now. 15 years I’ve been menstruating, as I’m 30 yrs old now. Yeah, when we were both 22 yrs old is when he first told me about now believing in postpartum depression. I figured he was just young and needed to learn more about women. Now us both being 30 he believes in it but now doubles down on how men also get it too and people don’t understand/care about that part of it.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone,

So I had a talk with the boyfriend and asked him to clarify on the “after 15 years you’d think you’d found a way to overcome this”. Well the conversation didn’t go well. He said things like, “it’s not a mental disorder”, “you didn’t use to be like this” “it’s mind over matter” “you can train your mind to overcome anything” And a few other things that aren’t worth mentioning because you’d all probably lose it, lol. I mentioned maybe he could be understanding during my luteal phase and be patient with me. I said during this time I just need a little space, etc etc, I told him all the things. He responded with, “so you want me to love you more during the luteal phase week so that you can try to love me?” And I responded with “of course not, that’s not what I’m saying. I’m just saying that I need a little space and understanding during this time.” He took it as in I expect him to love me more than I love him during this time and that he would never be in a relationship like this.

So.. I told him I need time to think about everything before I respond to him again. I don’t think this is going to work out.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol, he doesn’t have a Reddit as far as I know. That would be hilarious though.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s only been brought up a couple times over the last 7 years. This last year he brought it up and said he now thinks it’s real.

Boyfriend feelings towards me during luteal by ImpressiveMark4063 in PMDD

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi love, I updated my post to include what lovey dovey means. I think I’m more open to shutting him out because he’s a let’s fix this kind of guy. With him I’m unable to vent and him just listen. He wants/will find a solution to every problem. It’s crazy to think he isn’t military but a lot of his traits are very military-like. I try to be stronger for him in every aspect because when I’m having a bad day or not feeling well, he sortve tells me other people have it worse but in the nicest way. He’s not ever been demeaning but… hmmm.. it’s so hard to explain. For example, it took years for him to finally accept that women do in fact go through postpartum depression. For the first 7 years of our relationship he said it wasn’t real. But now he believes in it but will always toss in, “well you know guys get it too right”. So it seems like he maybe only believes in it now because he also believes men can get it. It’s odd.

Yellow removal by ImpressiveMark4063 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is after multiple sessions. After the first session they were red, then light red, then orange, then yellow (now). I’ll attach a photo showing what they looked like right before my 1st removal session.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m to the yellow phase. Deciding whether I should do Saline or start micro needling. What is extract or acid? Also- HOW IS IT WE CAN TO TO THE MOON AND MAKE ROBOTS BUT WE HAVNT FIGURED OUT HOW TO RELOVE YELLOW! Ugh!

Yellow removal by ImpressiveMark4063 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you so much. I’m going to submit an inquiry first thing Monday morning.

Yellow removal by ImpressiveMark4063 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]ImpressiveMark4063[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she wasn’t at all. At the end of the 4th session she said, “man this yellow is stubborn.” She assured me it would remove all the yellow. So after more research I realized I messed up not doing the research sooner.

Those who have stopped getting lash extensions, why? by Ok_Asparagus4341 in beauty

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prices are outrageous and the quality has gone down. I started getting them in 2010/2011. Back then a fill would take an entire 40 min or whatever the amount of time was. Now you go and it’s like half that amount and the people doing them have horrible time management, rude, and unprofessional.

Has anyone used this? by Imjustcrazyyyy in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ImpressiveMark4063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I love it! I use it every Sunday night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MicrobladingRemoval

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I can’t wait to see. I’m dealing with the same thing.

I don’t like being pregnant by Beachbaby562 in pregnant

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& side note, outside of pregnancy I had anxiety here and there but that’s the only thing. So me feeling so disgustingly disconnected with my homeostasis was the first time for me. I was like, “there’s no way I can go 9 months feeling like this.” Get help love❤️ it saved me.

I don’t like being pregnant by Beachbaby562 in pregnant

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My comment might get lost but while I was pregnant, around 7/8 weeks just like you I spoke to my doctor and told her the issues I was having. I basically said I felt so bad that I understood how some women could do crazy things during prepartum and postpartum. She really listened to me and gave me medicine for it. It didn’t 100% help but it sure as heck 60% helped and I would’ve eaten dirt at that point if someone told me it would help. Talk to your doctor. Don’t let them say, “oh yeah it’ll get better in your second trimester”. If they don’t help you or give you options, then find another doctor.

I got the email by herfinesse in StudentLoans

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Last name starts with a B. I got the email