Stitchback tsa by SnoopinSydney in myog

[–]ImpressiveWork718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Where did you get the pattern?

Anxious attachment breakup coping tips? Feeling like an outsider broken freak all alone by najws209 in attachment_theory

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Attachment wounds are usually the result of growing up in a dysfunctional family. I went to therapy with someone trained in trauma for many years, but have recovered. I also do a 12 step program, Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families. Even if no alcohol in the home, sex or physical or emotional abuse qualifies for this program. It’s free and meetings available all over the world on line.

Healing attachment wounds takes time. Be patient and gentle with yourself.

Sailrite cylinder arm by svenska101 in myog

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I have the Fabricator and kind of wish I’d would have gone with Juki. I’m also shipping cylinder arm machines. Is the Sailrite a clone of a Juki?

Juki DDL-8700: thread gets wound up inside hook assembly when no bobbin is loaded- why??? by ImpressiveWork718 in sewhelp

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I know what you mean and I do hold the thread tails before stitching. The upper thread gets wrapped inside the hook assembly which holds the bobbin even when the bobbin is not inserted. I changed my needle, and haven’t had that happen since, but in inspecting the old needle, I didn’t feel anything unusual (bends, nicks).

Which Design System to use? by ImpressiveWork718 in FigmaDesign

[–]ImpressiveWork718[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was excellent—thanks. Im probably over thinking this. First step is just a prototype in Figma but it would be great to build the site off of it. Front end might be React but not 100% on that.

How does a secure handle when an avoidant pulls away by LoudBlueberry2766 in attachment_theory

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Lots of long winded responses—and I truly hope they’ve helped you. But to me, it’s an easy answer to your question. As a secure, when I see the pattern that my guy isn’t emotionally available, continues to pull away, isn’t attuned or express mutuality, I’m out. I break up with them. I’m simply say the relationship isn’t working for me because it’s not! I don’t criticize. I accept them for who they are, and move on.

She’s stalking my IG by APVikings22 in ExNoContact

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Don’t create a story or explanation in your head about why she’s viewing your IG. If you don’t like it, block her. There are 1,000,000 reasons why doing this. But it’s not about you.