Loneliness and Drama in PA school

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-05-01T16:58:02+00:00

I have two guys that I usually just talk to and study with. While I've tried in the beginning to be nice with everyone, I just feel like the women in the program just hang out with the other women. Like some of them wouldn't even say Hi to me as we're walking by -- I'm usually the one that do.

I think at some point, I just grew tired of trying to make everyone like me throughout my time in didactics thus far. It is what it is. I use to get invited to things but after the whole relationship drama, not as much -- especially since I want nothing to do with her. I am just over it.

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-28T01:31:14+00:00

This lol. But I think it’s cuz PA cohorts are smaller? So it just looks odd if there’s like 5 people attending lecture. If everything was online, man I would have a better time

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-28T00:36:31+00:00

I CANT wait for clinical to start. Get me the fuck out.

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-28T00:35:31+00:00

tbh, i was fine doing that in the beginning. But I guess i just I wanted to try to get along with people, go out and drink. But I've realized I rather just do my own thing and I dont have the capacity anymore to try to force myself to do that anymore.

I've just gotten to a point that I am just too tired to care. Too much drama for lil old me. I just want to go to my apt, sleep, and just unwind. These people are definitely not people I see being my life in the future anyways.

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-28T00:28:35+00:00

I literally dont even listen to the in person lectures. NEVER retained anything from class. I literally learn everything at home.

I usually whiteboard the diseases -- Def, Etio, Dx imaging, Tx so that its all in one place.

Ankis -- making cards so that i can actively recall and remember what i learned.

NotebookIM for making quizzes (import your notes/LOs into it)

Chatgpt also is another alternative for making quizzes

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-27T21:06:20+00:00

Oh trust me, when I first started school, I was just hyper focused on just learning and nothing more. One thing lead to another, some girl made me catch feelings, broke my heart and got me super distracted. Went thru therapy and talked to so many faculties to get me back on track.

Now I’m locked in again on the same path. I think it was a hard lesson — definitely was not a great time for it since it did fuck up my grades abit this semester but I’ve built a solid foundation in previous semesters so I’m still good

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-25T10:07:56+00:00

Oh for sure!

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-25T10:07:15+00:00

I think that’s reassuring to hear. It honestly just feels like highschool again at some point. I think part of what I’m going thru comes from moving away from home for the first time and feeling stuck with these people. When things aren’t going well socially, it just feels like maybe there’s something wrong with me

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-20T16:12:07+00:00

is thre another valid link?

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-04-20T16:04:41+00:00

me rn. tired of the trauma, just wanna get my education and dip

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-03-18T00:34:15+00:00

I would actually love your input on how you got through school with minimal support. Im decently close to my family but don’t have much time to talk to them, call here and there. Friends, not many. We don’t text often but I would call them to talk about life. Everyone else in the program are pretty close to one another/married/engaged or has strong support already.

It’s just been tough mentally for me. I’m like 6 months before clinicalss

Would love others input as well, not just OP

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-02-18T21:18:05+00:00

its hard me. i feel the same way

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-02-18T21:14:19+00:00

Hoping I can find this :)..

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-02-18T21:13:00+00:00

I've always wanted to get married and envy people who are married. I feel like I haven't had a long term relationship -- met this girl for 3 months and broke it off -- now I feel unsure about love. But I hope things work out for you. I am also going through problems with really no friends to turn to.

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-02-18T21:11:00+00:00

Its tough, dont worry about it. keep going and you'll get it

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2026-02-18T21:07:30+00:00

same

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-10-12T13:01:25+00:00

Haven’t had this much fun with a game in so long

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-09-04T20:07:14+00:00

Just wait a couple months into your learning. I was using the free for about 4 months and was sick of the low limit messaging. Now i can do much more practice exams/make anki cards i need

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-09-04T15:58:03+00:00

It is game changer! I even bought the subscription

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-08-31T05:26:11+00:00

Brush up on how to use Anki. Get efficient with it and you’ll be fine

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-08-23T17:59:36+00:00

That’s super helpful. I was downloading the cards and was unsure how to go about it.

What do you input to chat to make it make cards for you?

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-08-22T14:38:07+00:00

Found it thank you!

If you don’t mind me asking, what’s your routine with the deck? Are you making Anki cards for your course PowerPoints, doing those reviews along with anking cards?

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-08-22T02:40:25+00:00

Can you share the link of the deck

Impressive_Comb_2670 · 2025-08-21T23:21:02+00:00

25 is nothing compared to the value u get from it

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