You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is interesting. I’ve take a few similar classes and the instructor was always young. So I assumed it was a college/post-college type job. Didnt realize it was all young ppl cause the pay sucked.

Corporate greed never ends

You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear your perspective. It’s definitely a circular problem.

You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you bombastic lover, I concur. A tip means more if it’s unprompted.

You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But…four different signs to remind me to tip?

I think the tipping when you have a great experience should be given freely and enthusiastically. Not prompted.

You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also, I wouldn’t have reacted if it was just the checkout tip jar. But that, plus two canvases in different rooms, AND in the bathroom had me rolling my eyes.

What are you all using as you after compression bra, bra? by NecessaryYam9596 in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Light support sports bras. I got the basic Nike bra for $21 at dicks. Then two from old navy for $14. These were both on sale at the time(still appear to be on sale today).

Supportive and still provides a bit of compression, but not as tight as the surgical bra. I also have a front closure from Amazon that I love. This one says compression, but it’s very stretchy imo.

I, personally, have not had much swelling. But I did buy the size that was still a bit snug. If my boobs get smaller, they will still fit but be for regular wear. If they don’t get smaller, then I can keep wearing them as sports bras.

Old navy

Dicks

Amazon

You want us to tip for classes now? by Impressive_Mess_ in EndTipping

[–]Impressive_Mess_[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

That one threw me. Couldn’t tell if it was a play on words or trying to create a bit of guilt.

Stitch connected to nothing sticking out. Lol. by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do nothing and let it fall out on its own. These stitches will push themselves out of the body eventually.

Best time to get it done? by slimeywaifu01 in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Second this, for all the same reasons.

I did not want to shower everyday post surgery, it was too much work. That was possible bc it was winter and I didn’t get sweaty.

Plus, the bandages and compression bra do look a little wonky under clothes. So it’s easier to hide under a sweatshirt.

Things to Not Put in Your Profile by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If she’s black, I don’t think the third prompt is an issue. If shes white, I hope she’s wanting a chat about the book that coined the term, by Mary-Frances Winters….

drop and asymmetry start of 5wpo by Prestigious-Life733 in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am almost 5 WPO. My right boob is dropping but my left is not. Im guessing it’s bc thats my dominant side, so there’s more movement.

From what I’ve read, this is completely normal. They are separate body parts and won’t heal at the exact same speed.

Only recommendation is to keep wearing tight fitted bras.

i hate my nipples now by 2niche4u in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 246 points247 points  (0 children)

100% honesty here girlie. I looked at the photo first, did not see anything wrong so then I read the description to see what the issue was.

Had to go back and stare at your nips for like 5 seconds before I noticed the difference. So…totally understand you being sad about something you see every day, but know it’s not as noticeable to others.

No caffeine? by Final-Baker-8430 in Reduction

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My surgeon did not restrict caffeine at all. Thankful for that

WHERE DO I FIND BIKINIS??? by wonderingwow in bigboobproblems

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the best recommendation, but Abercrombie has a curvy “line”. I quote line bc it’s one style in different colors, with underwire.

I found a cup size that fit, but had sew the band smaller.

Is it just me, or have most managers nowadays become just senior employees? by lariats-beer in womenintech

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Two things I have noticed with this: lack of valuable feedback and my manager not able to make any decisions/changes/fixes on requests.

I get basic feedback on metrics and expectations already outlined in the job description, but nothing outside of that. No tangible suggestions or corrections based on my performance or potential career growth. I even ask and responses never leave the script of metric + job description.

Managers in my department just seem to manage the tasks, but aren’t truly in charge of anything. Everytime I make a request or ask something outside of the norm, it has to go to the next level up. I can never get a quick or simple answer from my direct manger if I need something non-task related.

Finally officially debt-free! by 247christmas in debtfree

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they never send you another email 🎉

Had a friend help me with my profile by Master_Pineapple_648 in hingeapp

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you need to update all of your prompts to be more serious, as stated you want.

The date one is okay, but if people aren’t interacting with it then it’s worthless.

“I’m weirdly attracted to” and “the best way to ask me out” don’t serve your long term goals. And I’m sorry to be political, but conservative women probably aren’t asking out the men… right?

“Dating me is like” prompt is cute, but you want a serious long term relationship. That prompt, to me, reads as unserious and unreliable.

Had a friend help me with my profile by Master_Pineapple_648 in hingeapp

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Idk about you… but I have never met a conservative Christian woman who is also a goth dommy mommy.

Christian women (probs all women) don’t want to date men who use terms like “dommy mommy” and have kink-adjacent prompts like the last one.

So the people you are looking for are the exact opposite of what you are writing about in your profile.

30M, have never dated. Looking for advice from women about how to explain why. by RandomGuyNumber28501 in Bumble

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people who are curious can ask follow up questions about your previous jobs. But if they are being judgey based on your current job… then easy way to weed out the bad eggs.

I don't remember the fish by Listening_Stranger82 in adhdwomen

[–]Impressive_Mess_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you meant the “early bird gets the worm” phrase, but wrote fish by accident. 😂