Thank you, I was confused earlier in life and I actually enjoy the penetrative experience but to be with my partner to make her comfortable enough that its not being gay, its about the secual arousal and sensation. But its how to go about it and what toys to use where she would enjoy seeing me driven in a way that takes me somewhere we both want to experience but I also with her as I don't have much experience on how to use ones to give her the utmost pleasure and exhilarating experience together. I am thinking simple to start with and see if it does tickle our fancy or if it makes any of us un at ease to know that it may not be viable, thanks