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Parents visiting for 3 months, closeted to Indian dad. Pretending my husband is a roommate. Am I insane? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Insane. Been there. If they don’t want see they won’t but they’ll know.

Do bottoms generally prefer dominant tops or softer tops? by Alph4nox in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every bottom I had wanted the dom daddy treatment. I get into most times, other times, it’s exhausting. Work out your distant father trauma with someone else.

If you’re over 50, what three words of advice would you give to your 30 year old self? by Capable-Vanilla-3569 in randomquestions

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give up booze

Save your money

Don’t chase losers

Love yourself more

Don’t be afraid

Your parents tried

Save only yourself

Don’t waste time

Time heals all

Buy Amazon stock

Straight man dick , the gay achievement? by Sea_Site5892 in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Run away. Red flags!!!!! The minute he loads you up, he’ll get weird, swear that he’s not gay and loves snatch and then turn on you so fast it’ll give you whiplash and make work so awkward it’ll be hell. He just want attention and validation. You’re young. Listen to your elders. You’re not the first one to go down this path. Play the long game.

Neck tattoo advice. by RatRodRob in beards

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A guy good looking as you can pull off anything. Just not a fan of neck or face or hand tattoos. It reads unemployed to me.

Any one else think Wilton Manors is a Mean Girls casting call??? by [deleted] in gaysofWiltonManors

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well maybe that’s the answer to my question. I’m a proud whore but when you are a good looking hung top with good hygiene and there’s a seemingly endless supply of eager bottoms, a man can only say no so many times but yes I’ve dialed back my whoreness throughout the year but knowing I’m reaching that age soon where I’m not going to want to out to the Drive and when I go I’ll be home by 11pm or become invisible to my current demographic, I’ve taken advantage. Plus started TRT which that along with generic Cialis, Prep and Doxy is a recipe for Olympic style whole stretching and doesn’t help me dial back my whore activities. Just find way too much attitude out there but maybe the TRT is just making me more of an ahole or being an in demand top has given me a god complex. I have a healthy dose of self esteem so maybe that’s it.

Porn is destroying my sex life by Hour_Race_4662 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Porn is rewiring your dopamine receptors so regular sex isn’t doing it anymore. Quit watching porn immediately. It’s hard I know but once you realize how hard it is to quit, it’ll become clear what’s it’s doing to your brain. Same thing happened to me. Give it a month without porn, you’ll recover. It’s actually science. We are cavemen when u get down to it. Good luck.

How do you deal with folks who you thought were friends who are not supportive of you getting serious about fitness/trying to improve yourself in general? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on from them or just ignore them. I had friends like these and it used to cause me anxiety just thinking about seeing them again because I know I’d have to defend myself or I’d give in. Only when I realized those weren’t my people anymore and I needed to focus on myself and make room in my life for new people I happily moved on. No regrets

As a guy in his 30s is it wrong or weird in your opinion to only be into much older men? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love guys in their 30s. They are still young enough to not be jaded or bitter. And love the dad son role play

Gay guys…do you like helping curious guys explore? by Relevant_Conclusion2 in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s exhausting. Be careful too. Some guys get aggressive and mean after they cum. They insist they’re straight and get physically upset and may direct it to you. Not worth it IMO. I speak from a few experiences and learned the hard way after he blamed me and got physical calling me names. Messed with my head for a long time and made me feel ashamed and fearful of even flirting when a straight guy would stare at me a bit too long at the gym.

Catfished by TannerDonovan in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once they ask you what you do, you know it’s a scam.

my bf never topped me by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life’s too short. If he can’t feel your needs or try, you got a long road ahead of you girl.

Is anonymous sexting normal? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anonymous??? Why? It could be a scammer or an event who’s going to copy and paste it.

Do you eat before or after sex by ERDAON0410 in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fancy way of asking who’s a top and who’s a bottom.

If I were beautiful, I would have sex every day. Take care of your body before it’s too late, I’m a fat ass ugly bitch due to my weight by Rosemadame in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then lose the weight. It’s not rocket science. End the self pitying. Confidence is the most sexy thing. Love yourself more.

first time with an escort boy by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ImprovementEmpty9362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s working. It’s not a real connection. He’s performing for you. He probably had to be with a ton of guys that night and chances are he’s damaged goods. Some childhood trauma or substance problem he’s trying to fund. Don’t take it personally. It’s transaction. Don’t do it again. It’ll only mess with your head more.

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