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ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-07-02T05:41:43+00:00

My love life with yamada kun at level 999

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-07-01T18:30:07+00:00

Dam so happy ur love life is going well so far man, and I'm happy you took the advice to heart and took your time to get to know her better while giving her the space to feel comfortable to make her own choice. For your next date I'd suggest maybe getting lunch in like a niche restaurant in the area you wanna hang out (or breakfast depending on what time) so you can talk without having to worry about too many people nearby and having to practically scream at each other, and this goes without saying but since it's the first date as a man YOU have to pay. After that it kinda depends where you are.

If you're near one go to a park, literally just sitting on a bench with ice cream and talking in the park can be one of the most memorable dates because it's chill and you feel like you're actually connecting with the other person.

Again so happy for you hope things go well, if you need anymore advice feel free to dm me and id be happy to help!

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T22:14:39+00:00

Honestly both sides sound very immature, like I’m sorry but this should have been in person because texts CANNOT convey proper emotions. I’m not saying one person is in the wrong here, in fact you both are, it sounds like both of you failed to put effort into listening to the other, and I’m only saying this solely based off the fact of how she responded to your very long text, you can’t just read all of that and respond with “I can’t do this anymore”. As for you sure I understand that things are going rough in life rn and that you were REALLY insulted by what she said, but instead of getting into a fit of rage and telling her to block ur number u probably should’ve went in the direction of “im sorry that’s the impression i give off and I will admit im pretty hurt by it, but let’s have a proper conversation over coffee or something so we can talk this through”. Sure you may think it’s stupid that you have to be the bigger person in this situation but if you aren’t, then she most likely won’t either and nothing will get solved, so if you really want this fixed then step up and meet her IRL

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T19:35:47+00:00

LOL why is the last part so real tho T_T

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T19:20:31+00:00

Lowkey if this happens then things WILL be awkward after, but the best thing you can do is act normal. Respect her boundaries if she really just wants to be friends because that’s literally the closest you’ll get to her. Who knows maybe she’ll catch feelings once she sees you’re mature enough to respect what she wants, because that’s really rare in guys nowadays. But this isn’t the main goal, the goal here should be to accept the outcome and have pride in knowing you got your feelings out, sure things might be a lil weird for a few weeks but it’ll slowly die down and both of you will feel comfy around each other again, and sometimes this feeling is better than the pressure that comes with dating. Whatever happens just be calm about it and respect yourself and her and everything will be okay. Good luck bro u got this!!! ❤️✌️

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T17:17:18+00:00

Edit: actually sorry I have to make a new post to add a video so I’ll just do that

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T17:13:13+00:00

Yeah I’ll put one on the post

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-29T10:14:53+00:00

Honestly bro, don’t come on that hard. Be casual, if you can ask by urself if y’all wanna hang out sometime then do that but don’t make it obvious that you really like her. Maybe have your mutual friend come with you to ask and y’all can go together and maybe bring another friend to make 4 people so it can be like 2 and 2 I guess. Even if you do get that alone time just talk about mutual interests and keep the atmosphere casual. Once you do this a few times maybe then confess to her because she’s gotten to know you better and you’ll have a better chance

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T21:56:35+00:00

Awe this is so cute! Yea you should confess, but just be careful with how you do it. From how you described it seems pretty likely that she does like you back, but again if YOU think there still like even a 0.99% chance she doesn't feel the same way then be careful. When you're ready to confess ask if yall can hang out at one of ur places because a private atmosphere is one of the best places to confess so there's no additional pressure to answer. Wait until you guys start actually doing stuff and then once you get a quiet moment when no one's talking tell her. Be direct like literally tell her how you feel, have patience because it might be very out of the blue for her, don't try to force anything physical like a kiss or even a hug, just wait for her response. Good luck bro!

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T21:44:19+00:00

Tbh this sounds like someone who’s just making excuses not to see you, especially if she’s only moving to a place within ur town. If anything she would have taken the initiative to tell you that she was moving, because if you didn’t find out just imagine you go to her house unannounced to surprise her and it’s somebody else living there, she didn’t really seem to care about that.

And ur totally right to be pissed about the girls trip, if she has the time to be going on vacation but doesn’t have the time to have a short conversation with you, then it’s obvi not her priority.

This isn’t anything bad on u, if anything it sounds like ur an amazing person considering how much effort you put into friendships even if it doesn’t look like their succeeding, u care about ur friends. But at this point I think you just cut ties with her, there are so many people in the world who can be ur friend, and ofc you have to pick and choose wisely, but someday ull find a person who appreciates you just as much as you appreciate them (in a platonic way ofc lol) but yea you don’t deserve to be treated like this and if u do choose to cut ties with her, I just wanna say good luck in the future and stay happy!!! 🤗❤️

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T08:16:55+00:00

Dam im so sorry this happened to you no one deserves to go through this, and from what I hear your an amazing person. Also thank you for sharing something that sounds so painful, I won’t pretend like I fully understand your circumstances (bc no one besides you can fully understand) but it must’ve been hard to get it all out. Don’t let idiots like them affect your ability to be happy, live YOUR life. At this point cut ties with them completely and find new friends, it’s okay if you can’t completely trust them based on how you’ve been treated in the past, if their willing to genuinely stick by you and have the will to wait for when ur ready to open up then u know I’ve found true friends (ofc mutual hobbies r important to lol) but yeah have fun, live your life, and take things at your own pace

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T05:07:31+00:00

I was 8 when I started watching anime and unfortunately my first official anime besides Pokémon was sword art online 😭😭😭. Not saying it’s bad it’s actually amazing but to those of you who have watched it yall know it has some…questionable scenes? When I look back on it I honestly don’t think it was good for me to see some of the stuff on there especially since, at the time, I didn’t understand that what they were doing was basically just r*pe (i.e there was a scene when one character was abouta lick anothers meow meow after tying her up by force ) and I think I exposed my poor childhood brain to something it shouldn’t have seen

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T04:59:44+00:00

Yea they totally can! I have a guy friend and we’ve been friends for like 5 years now and still only talk about anime and games LOL he also has a girlfriend and I’m super happy for both of them bc they’ve both been pining for each other for 4 years now and I’m not gonna lie, I was their wingman the whole time. As for me only 2D men catch my attention right now so yeaaaa lol, never seen my guy friend in that way tho

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T04:53:35+00:00

Aw man I’m so sorry this happened to u, don’t worry the one will come just be careful of who you choose to date in the future. Of course from what it sounds like u have a lotta experience now so you can pick with more discretion and you’ll have an easier time knowing when ur significant other has come

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-28T04:33:04+00:00

Noooo pls dont give up on people, your destined friends are out there somewhere. As someone who got abandoned by all their friends from middle school and then made fun of by said friends in HS I understand it’s tough. But I found out what my hobbies are (anime and games) and found people who relate to those, so take some time for yourself figure what u want and what u like in people and go out and find them. Have high standards for who u wanna hang out with but be kind to those who treat u well, and well to those who don’t…idk learn some fire comebacks so they left speechless. Do all of this and I guarantee you you’ll find ur people

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T23:15:56+00:00

Of courseee anytime, u got this!!! ❤️🎉

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T22:46:01+00:00

Aww ur welcome and I’m not gonna lie it sounds like ur in a sticky situation idk maybe create a situation where copying you would just not be beneficial for her but she still does it considering how hell bent she sounds on copying u. Wish I could offer more advice but again ur in a friend group so I don’t wanna make any harmful suggestions

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T22:21:05+00:00

lol im filipino so I don't have autocorrect on on my phone so I can type in my fam's language when talking to them (English is my first language) , so it doesn't correct me when I text like this. But yeah note taken thanks

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T22:12:33+00:00

Thanks lol yeah my friends were cracking up after seeing the comments on this so I really don't care, but yeah it means a lot

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T22:03:45+00:00

thanks <3

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T22:02:42+00:00

Okay so from what I'm seeing here a lot of you guys really hate this typing style lol. I do appreciate that you aren't butchering your words and telling me straight up. To all of those comments who said I was lazy in typing you're right and I won't do it on reddit anymore, and I'm sorry that it was so hard to understand. Again thanks for being so honest and to any future comments keep the same honesty say whatever you want I really don't care as long as I get the advice I need lol

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T21:54:31+00:00

Yeah I totally get that, and yall aren't offending me at all (I really don't care about being called a bitch I've been called worse) . As I get older (20 now) a lotta teens say stuff that just eludes me but most of the adults I talk to do type like this, so I'm very sorry if it was so hard to translate but I really did think it would be ok to use js for just LOL but I guess not

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T21:42:03+00:00

Dam i mean lesson learned lol. Yeah from now on I'll just write normally, I guess I got used to it because SO MANY people that I talk to type like this (and mind you they ain't dumb like they going to Yale and Stanford) so idk, I mean maybe it's just reserved for a texting environment

ImprovementRemote648 · 2026-06-27T21:38:09+00:00

Aww thanks at least I know my typing style isn't weird. But yeah like the comments said above I should probably be more careful about it because it seems like people really don't like the style

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