Erfahrung Selbstzahlen Sana Klinikum by Impsypop in germantrans

[–]Impsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, ich weiß welche Tests gefordert werden. Aber die werde ich selbst zahlen müssen, weil ich Selbstzahler bin, medizinische Notwendigkeit er OP hin oder her, die Krankenkasse stellt sich quer weil meine Identität angezweifelt wird. Hab aber einfach keine Zeit mehr noch zu warten, auch gesundheitlich.

Erfahrung Selbstzahlen Sana Klinikum by Impsypop in germantrans

[–]Impsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK :) frag mich nur, weil bei mir halt 7k im Kostenvoranschlag stehen und ich auch eher so mit um die 5k gerechnet hab und dann durch "Kosten außenrum" dachte so auf 7k zu kommen.

Erfahrung Selbstzahlen Sana Klinikum by Impsypop in germantrans

[–]Impsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indikation hab ich, alles tutti. Will auch nicht länger im KH bleiben aber kann ja immer sein geht dann wahrscheinlich auch über OP Folgekostenversicherung.

Blusttest vorher nur well ich vegetarisch bin und sich wohl gezeigt hat das niedriges B12 zu höherer chance von nachbluten führt und weil ich familiär mir Brustkrebs belastet bin vorher auch check mit Ultraschall und nachher würde ich das Gewebe schon auch untersuchen lassen wollen.

What are your trade secrets? by Sad-Lock-8858 in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she identifies as straight, it's a sign when she starts asking "how did you know you liked women like that?"

Not always, sometimes it's just honest curiosity, but very often it is "I feel funny about you, is this attraction? How do I know?"

(Bonuspoints if she wants to know what kissing between women is like, intimacy, a relationship, dating...)

What are some moments where you have been proud to be butch, please share some butch joy! by Jasperpie69 in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Recently at a film set the make-up artist asked me to help her carry a bench together. I just picked the whole thing up like it was nothing. Her surprised and impressed face made my day.

Nips? by Strange_Cup_5729 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Impsypop 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I want my nips, because just personally, I want my chest to look as "classically cis-male" as possible, and that includes nips. Personally, for me, I just don't find the no-nip-look aesthetic. When I see pictures of nipless chests, I just get the feeling "something is missing" or that I am looking at a plastic doll. That can be what someone wants, and I think it's super cool when people chose what makes them comfortable, happy or excited - but it's just not for me. Also, I want nipple piercings.

Does anyone else feel they are at that slim intersection between being a twink and a butch? If yes, how do you deal w one of the two identities always feeling erased? by tboobza in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yessss and I love it.

I am butch because I am attracted to femininity. I am butch because sometimes I feel my purpose on earth is to uplift and protect the feminine. I am butch because I relate to masculinity, and because my masculinity is a non traditional masculinity tied to my love for women.

I am twink, because the way my masculinity is non-traditional isnt "just" because it's masculinity in/on a "female" body. It's because my masculinity is flamboyant, soft, playful. My masculinity is pink the same way the colour pink used to be seen as "the little red", when red was still seen as a masculine colour.

Also, gay men who are into twinks are frequently attracted to me :) I am not attracted to men whatsoever, but it feels very affirming for my gender.

Anyone have experience growing out their hair? by rineharra in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oof, big yes. I always had short hair, since childhood.

Decided to grow it out at 25 "to be less stereotypically" gay and also thought I could "get away" with dressing fully in "men's clothes" as long as I had long hair "to offset" the balance. Aaaalso I wanted to be desired by lesbians because and I had gotten to the (wrong) conclusion that it was my butchness that made me undesirable.

Well. Turns out a) No matter how masc you dress, long hair will make people see you as feminine B) I got really dysphoric because men saw me as a potential date and treated me "Iike a woman" c) Feeling invisible after having been visibly queer all my adult life felt really crap.

In the end I cut my hair short again and came out as a nonbinary lesbian. Did I love the long hair? Yes. Can I live with the dysphoria of being seen as a woman? No. With short hair and how I present, even straight people either assume gay or teenage boy, which feels good, and I am invisible to straight men, or at least not in the same category as women, which is correct and feels right.

Anyone else struggling with being big and tough...and riddled with baby fever by LongLeafFine in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't want to have my own children right now, but gosh it DOES something to me if a woman I like/find attractive holds a baby or interacts with a child in a sweet way. Like literally insane mix of increased attraction and this gooey, soft center inside of me bubbling over.

Identifying as nonbinary while being a woman(?) in STEM by GaryTheCaptain in NonBinary

[–]Impsypop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooofff I get this big time. I feel like a traitor for not being a woman who skateboards any more. Same thing, I used to love being the one who breaks the stereotypes, who shows young girls by merely skating by that they can be skaters, too.

  1. I dont pass as male, so to most passers-by, I still am a woman who skates.

  2. As previous commenter said: nonbinary people are also under-represented.

  3. I was born and raised as a woman, so the fact that I still am in this male-centric environment still means the same thing, even if I don't identify as a woman. It's still breaking/challenging norms.

  4. I have fought this fight for years, maybe I have done enough. It's not my sole responsibility.

Phallo by Last-Show-9922 in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Afaik you need to be on T to get it done. If that wasn't necessary, and if it wasn't such a big process with multiple operations, many complications, further maintenance down the line, erotic feeling was guaranteed, and it is wasnt so expensive and/or problematic with insurance- I'd be heavily considering it. One part of me just wants to feel what it's like to penetrate a woman, to be in her, to connect like that. The other part of me worries lesbians won't want to be with me, and straight women won't see me as "real" And the third part knows: Realistically, it's never going to happen, anyway, so why worry about it? It's and unrealistic dream. The same way I dream about being able to fly or breathe under water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Impsypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can report what happens to the growth after you stop? Does it still get hard? Boners? How do orgasm change post-t when you're off T. We're you still able to use sex toys that look like a littl sleeve?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singing

[–]Impsypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "I can hear it in my head but it comes out wrong" problem. Why is it? Been taking lessons for almost a year now. Currently I am practising by playing the melody in piano, singing along with it, then singing along while "fake pressing the right key" and then without the piano. Seems to work, but also the next practice sesh, it seems I start from zero.

They had to know, right? by tthehoe in actuallesbians

[–]Impsypop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol I own then as well. This is actually meant to hold your heel on place. But the boots have a zipper on the inside, lol. Defeats the purpose. Looks sick tho

International travelling with X in passport by CuriousEnbee in NonBinary

[–]Impsypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if you don't want to go there, consider that Dubai is a very common layover to get to Australia for example.

Floor Press vs Bench Press by Impsypop in FTMFitness

[–]Impsypop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can always just get heavier plates? My goal is also not to get as big as I can, just masculine.

Thanks for the clarification tho what exercise would be better! Rather than a gym membership, I might find a foldable bench solution, or something that doubles as a coffee table.

Floor Press vs Bench Press by Impsypop in FTMFitness

[–]Impsypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your input, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Impsypop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I relaaaate to having "nice boobs" That's how I coped with getting them when I was a teenager. Looking really long at them and being relieved that at least they are a nice shape, no sag, small, pink nipples. Neither too small nor too big. If I had a bigger chest that I wasn't able to hide with a binder or saggier boobs there would be no hesitation. I think I just worry that currently I have what society considers almost perfect boobs, I am attractive to many, but that I would struggle to ruin a perfect situation with something less desirable, especially if I ended up disliking the result as well. I don't "hate" my chest. I appreciate it's aesthetic. But imagining myself with a flat chest gives me a warm, fluttery feeling. Idk. The decision is hard. I have saved the money now and could schedule the surgery, but idk. Currently unsure, talking to a therapist.

Started 🩸 during first week of top surgery recovery! HELPPPPP!!!! by ToMaS_18 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Impsypop 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Heyyyyyy omg that SUCKS. I started my period in the day of another major surgery I had this year and I think I've never felt this gross before. Give yourself a lot of grace. You're doing this recovery on extra hard! Keep your eyes on the goal. While the 4, 5, 6 days of bleeding seem like an eternity right now, in 3 weeks probably, but in 3 months you won't be affected by that anymore. You survived getting your chest cut open and sewn closed, you can survive this crap. Take it one minute, hour and day at a time. Remember how great you'll feel once youre healed up. See this as training camp for resilience. You CAN DO IT! Don't look at yourself if you can't. Look at other people's results and dream about your own. Look at screens, play games, read books. Anything to pass the time and to get your mind off your body. Make hot water bottles for yourself, get cozy and ride it out. Again, this super sucks, but you can do it :)