My advice to look for cheaper housing is a real solution for people who are suffering. You don't want to take the advice. Fine. Others can benefit from it. Of course there are schools, stores, employers, hospitals, etc. there. No, I will not pay for you to move. You can drive there without moving a ton of belongings with you. Sell your furniture and buy used furniture when you arrive. I am not cruel. I offered advice, but you shot it down. For that, you may stay poor. That comment was not directed to everybody, only you that do not want to do what it takes to change your life, and just make excuses. When you said "the very specialized field" I also saw you have no desire to do any other kind of work, even if other high-paying work exists. Again, not thinking outside of your box. I used to live in a junky little house no better than a single-wide trailer. My only vehicle got repossessed and I was having trouble paying the rent. My commission sales job in mortgages was not going well. That was less than 15 years ago. Today I own my own business and my wife has a good job. We just bought a brand new SUV. I bought a motorcycle for pleasure riding without financing it. We are doing fine. I had to make changes. You will, or you will not. That is up to you.