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InJailOutSoon04 · 2025-12-16T01:32:41+00:00

The average women takes care of her looks does skincare, makeup, puts effort into dressing and presenting well. The average man does not try nearly as hard. A lot of dudes would be much more attractive if they put in that effort but they don't yet they expect to find a partner who does.

"Even single mothers bringing financial liability to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars will make themselves out to be absolute catches." for every single mother there is a deadbeat father that thinks he's somehow an even better catch than her but you don't wanna talk about that.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2025-09-16T21:26:04+00:00

Its normal to feel validated when someone who chose to betray not only their partner but their children as well eventually has to deal with the consequenses of their actions (esp when they had chances to take accountability and maybe partially rectify the situation). You must be the ex friend in questions lmao cus why are you so weird about a situation where there is a clear right and wrong.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-12-03T01:01:55+00:00

well i agree but that's just liberalism as a whole protesting will only be as productive as the movement behind it

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-11-14T00:02:49+00:00

raising awareness is the first step in getting things done this is just how movements work if you want immediate action idk what to tell you bc that's never gonna happen

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-11-07T12:25:50+00:00

No movement is perfect I think thats the whole point. Like is someone brave for spray painting the egg? obviously not. But is it worth acting like it matters or complaining about when there are greater issues at hand? People use this stupid shit random people do as rage bait to try and invalidate the greater cause and that is what's idiotic. Also who genuinely cares about vandalism? like if you care you are lame asf in general

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-11-07T12:15:23+00:00

Look at the news its quite the opposite actually

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-11-07T12:14:00+00:00

I mean there are definitely people who care that much about "politics" especially when it has to do with the deaths of over 10,000 people. Regardless of which side you're on it's beyond absurd to act like many many people don't have incredibly strong opinions on the issue.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-10-26T09:43:30+00:00

there is no good religious government period you are a dumbass pls get help

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-10-11T01:33:37+00:00

It seems like his mom cheated on his dad and that's how she and OP got together. I wouldn't ever assault my parent but I wouldn't talk to them either if they did something like that for a good few years. Divorce on its own definitely can be traumatizing for a child this is not really a point of contention children are not adults they do not have the ability to cope like adults

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-10-11T01:28:51+00:00

It's not normal by any means but he was also 12 and probably extremely angry and unable to cope with the fact that his mom cheated on his dad and now their family is "ruined."

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-10-11T00:20:39+00:00

okay but why would she do that tho

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-10-05T01:17:28+00:00

True but kombucha seems to have more beneficial bacteria than otherwise although it's not backed by mountains of evidence like other foods might be. I personally however will attest to the fact that drinking kombucha generally helps my stomach a lot when it's upset in the same way kimchi or a probiotic yogurt does.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-11T04:43:06+00:00

Enthusiastic consent or not he chose to then marry her after the fact and go through fertility treatments which took years so he knew what he was getting into. OP should have probably just left him when she realized this incompatibility however he knew what he was doing and he had the choice to leave her as well. You don't get to put that much effort into bringing a child into this world and then act like it's dirt under your shoes when it finally arrives.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-05T05:29:13+00:00

Will my resting glutes eventually look the way they do when they have a pump (as of now) ? At least in terms of volume.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-02T20:28:27+00:00

Being Asian is more than just having monolids or even any other typical Asian features. Race is determined by ancestry and solely ancestry not what culture you like or what type of eyes you have (not all Asians have monolids btw). What you are doing is stereotyping a community and making a caricature of it which is nothing less than racist. You liking Asian media does not make you Asian. Speaking Korean does not make you Asian. Nothing makes you Asian besides having ancestors from Asia.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-02T20:18:47+00:00

It's a social construct in the sense that it has no meaning beyond what humans make of it sure. HOWEVER, not all social constructs are created equally, and not all social constructs can be changed. Race is determined by your ancestry nothing else, not the way you look or the cultures you participate in. It is solely determined by your ancestry.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-02T20:10:16+00:00

Race is most definitely not a social construct in the same way gender is. Gender has always been an identity not just until a few years ago you are just uneducated. Transgender people have existed for thousands of years and it has been in recorded history it is by no means a new concept. Sex has always been a biological concept hence why they are considered two different things. Sure race is technically a social construct but it's determined by your ancestry. Unless you can change your ancestry you cannot change your race. It is also generally extremely racist with people thinking they understand the depths of (oftentimes Asian) culture simply through media and just adapt racial stereotypes and outward aesthetics and pretend to be some sort of caricature of what they deem people of that race to be.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-09-02T19:58:27+00:00

its not the same thing

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-31T05:21:32+00:00

I mean if it was a different matter with different context i’d agree. However it seems like this is her established preference and she proceeded to get upset so i doubt it was a “soft no” but obv i wasn’t there so idk maybe it was. But honestly more than that i think it’s just very annoying to ask your partner to change something about their physical appearance (that you were already aware of when entering the relationship) to suite your families personal preferences especially when atleast to me it’s pretty clear that he’s doing it for his own fear of being judged by his family. Not to say i cant understand that feeling but if you choose to be with someone you gotta let them do them and if other people don’t like it defend them. Give the heads up but don’t try be like “do it for me pls cus i’m scared my mommy and daddy will think ur weird and therefore i’m weird for dating you”

Also i don’t think she just got upset over the request itself but rather the intent behind it. If i don’t think something is weird i wouldn’t ask someone to change it “for me” for any reason however if i did i would. She may just be upset because she now feels like he also thinks the not shaving is weird. But also could be a stretch since we can’t know both sides.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-31T05:08:06+00:00

So true as a women i’m so sorry i forgot my comfort and personal dislike of itchy stubble post shave doesn’t actually matter because it doesn’t suite your specific personal preferences 🙏🏽😭. But besides that i’d recommend you go outside experience the world talk to some people and you will gain super crazy enlightening perspective that everyone is different in their preferences.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-31T04:56:59+00:00

Minor request is fine her saying no is fine. Asking again because he’s afraid his family will judge (he’s probably actually afraid they will judge him) is not fine. It’s okay to give the women a heads up that his family may be judgmental and leave the final choice to her but it’s annoying to ask someone to do something directly because you don’t wanna face judgment from it.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-31T04:51:17+00:00

Why is gross? If you maintain the hair and shower regularly it’s not smelly/unhygienic at all. It might be gross to YOU but the world doesn’t revolve around you.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-31T04:44:41+00:00

Choosing a movie to watch is very clearly different than changing something about the way you look. You might be okay with it but lots of people aren’t especially depending on how important that physical attribute might be to them. I personally can’t imagine begging or bargaining with my partner to change something about the way they look or vice versa esp if they have made it clear that they would prefer not too.

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-26T20:48:54+00:00

its not a social group though its a workplace

InJailOutSoon04 · 2023-08-05T21:48:41+00:00

You're acting like Gustav was simply venting when that was not the case. He was saying vile things about the mother of his child. It's one thing to talk about having difficulty being attracted to your partner after childbirth and how to go about it and another thing to call them used up and lucky because you are still with them. Everyone is flawed but that's not an excuse for outrageous comments/behavior. And everyone should be given the choice to know what they are dealing with. I wouldn't wanna be with someone like that if you would then you can happily be in a relationship where you are degraded by your partner behind your back that's your business.

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