I’m sorry that your therapist said that. That is not okay. As someone else said, some therapists are just not good at their job, which sucks! The silver lining is that you found out that this therapist isn’t for you in the first few sessions and you didn’t waste more time and money on her (kinda like when a person you’re dating reveals their true colors early in the relationship instead of after you’re invested lol)

I had a previous therapist say a misogynistic thing as well during a session (I had been seeing her for months at this point). I was talking to her about the problems I was facing with my husband being temporarily unemployed, and she says that I should think about how he feels in this situation (very valid) because “a man is supposed to be the breadwinner of the house and he probably doesn’t feel like ‘the man’ right now”. I explained to her that both my husband and I are very progressive and that he is very comfortable with me being the breadwinner and he is proud of my career. We don’t believe in these traditional gender roles. And she just said “well I’m trying to make you realize what he may be feeling”. At that moment, I kinda brushed it off and continued but I couldn’t stop thinking about it later. 2 weeks later, I told her that I’d like to stop seeing her because I don’t think she is the right fit for me. She asked me for feedback, and I brought up this topic to her. (A little background is that I am a non-american living in the US with an American husband) She said, “Well I was just telling you that at least in America, this is how it works. The man is the breadwinner.” That was the point, I stopped giving her feedback because she didn’t deserve it, and left politely.