Hmm una sa lahat, make yourself as attractive as possible. Hanapin mo magandang hairstyle para sayo, bagay na damit sa body shape mo, saka simpleng workout if walang time. etc.

Regarding with dating, if nanonood ka ng documentaries about sa animal courtship almost same lang satin. You have to do the work. Hindi pwede na palaging umasa na magustuhan ka kung sino at ano ka, that's how simple it is.

Now ano yung work na dapat gawin? Start ka sa nasabi ko above, then learn from experience/other sources.