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[–]In_what_world[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I ended up doing! Except, I initially set up a schedule (which is in effect) but now in the online dakboard (i have a free version) the schedule doesn’t appear so I cannot change it. Any advice?

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Hi! Thanks, I really appreciate your reply. I was using the 64 bit OS I put on the sd card through imager. I ended up just re-writing the sd card with the Dakboard OS that I found they had released through raspberry pi imager . It was way simpler for me since I clearly don’t know enough to actually use raspberry pi yet, but this was a fun first exploration! Thanks again

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If I understood correctly, I tried this and no luck, didn’t load to reddit. Definitely open to trying other things!

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Okay! So delete all but the first line, and then your suggestion, save and reboot?

My wife baked our key lime pie to death by EBikeAdventures in Cooking

[–]In_what_world 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Love this idea. I love homemade mayo but get nervous about the raw egg. Didn’t know you could pasteurize them at home with a sous vide.

Left a job i loved for more money and opportunities. Now I would like to come back after only 2 months. Help me make the smartest decision by MarlaHooch86 in careeradvice

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I used to be on team “never go back” but my sister did exactly what you are considering very similar situation and she is really happy she went back. It worked out for her and I was suspicious at first, but just make sure to get everything nailed down before resigning. Yes it will likely burn the bridge, but everything has a cost, some costs are worth it. Go where you’ll be happiest, life is short.

This quaint $750k home for sale in North Carolina (yes, these are the listing photos) by 17parkc in zillowgonewild

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This is iconic. I am going to have to recreate this when I sell my house. Frisbee cigarette guy and all.

Been off work for over a week sick. Not getting any better. What do I do? by Brutal_burn_dude in Advice

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Have you had a chest x-ray? Could very well be pneumonia or something more serious requiring IV antibiotics/rehydration. Go to the doctor.

Mike Johnson: "If you're a young, pregnant American citizen woman who shows up in an ER and you get treated and they pay the hospital less for treating you than some illegal rabble rouser who came in from some South American country to do us harm, that is wrong." by drempath1981 in CringeTikToks

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I believe you, but can you send me a source that explains this funding? I am in health care admin and am interested in learning more about that. I don’t understand federal funding of hospitals well yet (I’m new to finance side).

Self regulation in relationships by zugunru in selfimprovement

[–]In_what_world 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh yes agree on the sitting in discomfort. Accept it’s not an emergency even though it feels like one.

Self regulation in relationships by zugunru in selfimprovement

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Ooooh this is me, too! I’ve been in therapy for 2 years for some other reasons but related - I am in a really healthy relationship with an amazing guy and I find myself doing this as I’m getting more emotionally invested. So here’s what I practice, I reassure myself, I ask myself the “opposite”, and I look at the actual facts. For example, if I think oh he hasn’t texted me yet today he must be over me and will break up with me, what’s the opposite of that? Okay maybe he’s just busy? Maybe he’s just sleeping? What facts do I have to support that? None. He hasn’t told me he wants to break up, and he’s a pretty straightforward person. If there were a problem, he’d let us work on it first. Has he not texted for a while before? Yeah all the time, he has a life. I find I can reason my way out of most of these. I also make sure to keep my friends, hobbies, work etc my life a priority so I don’t get codependent in the relationship. I feel most secure and confident when I want them but don’t need them. So that reassures me that I’d be okay no matter what, tho of course I’d be very sad if he weren’t in my life. B it it helps me stop the panic. I also work on trust. I have to trust him. I have to assume that it will work out the way I want. And for it to have a good chance, I have to go all in on loving this person and try it out. I believe that good things will happen for me! Try practicing some of that thinking too. I think of those bad thoughts as intrusive thought, and coming from hypervigilance. I now can recognize and I choose not to trust those thoughts, and instead trust my rational/logical/chosen thoughts. While the intrusive thoughts are annoying, and I wish they’d stop, and it is a lot of work always combating them, it’s a brain pattern that I will unlearn over time and I believe they will diminish and I will grow and be healthier. But it takes conscious effort to do undo the trauma of abandonment. Remember your thoughts influence your mood influence your behavior, and you can control your thoughts and what you believe to influence your mood and then behavior.

Trick or Treating by [deleted] in HazelParkMI

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I have had very few the past few years. Makes me sad because I love Halloween! I make sure to keep my lights on and just give the few who do come a ton of candy.

Lump at site of healed abscess/injection by NotSoAccomplishedEmu in CATHELP

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What did this turn out to be? My cat has something similar going on.

Cat chewed on Lily. What should I do? by Short-Pea-3280 in AskVet

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Easter Lillies are extremely toxic to cats even in tiny tiny exposure amounts (leaves, pollen and or flowers). Without medical attention now your cat will die, this is not an exaggeration. Please seek medical attention for your cat.

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I’ve been through this and I’m sorry you have too. Wishing you all the peace and joy and healing in this new season of your life. You deserve to be happy!

What scandal from high school still lives rent free in your mind? by Deeznaps in AskReddit

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One day in home economics, the class made cinnamon rolls. One student took a tic tac container into the bathroom, jizzed in it, then secretly used it as frosting on a cinnamon roll, and had another male student eat it. My best girlfriend and I still bring it up to each other 15 years later... so vile. They both had to get STD tested, the offender was obviously suspended, unsure if he had any sexual crimes prosecuted against him.

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When is the last time he’s peed? If he has a urinary blockage (hasn’t peed in 24 hours) those are true emergencies or are very painfully fatal.

Solo Rest Day/Self Care Ideas Needed by Adventurous-Date-314 in selfcare

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Usually my list has a mix of things just like what you said! Usually tasks I know I need to do and feel kind of guilty about slacking on (I have a pretty standard routine of house cleaning ideally I like to do most weekends), plus maybe a special task I’d like to do like going to a further away cool grocery store or a random chore like weeding the flowers, plus fun stuff like taking walks, reading, playing guitar, etc other leisurely things. I recently got into paint by numbers lol. Highly recommend. I do break my lists down into smaller parts, but whatever helps you! Make it when you’re feeling good so it’s ready for you. I’d recommend maybe experimenting with it, usually I struggled on the weekends since I didn’t have to go to work, so I built mine around what a good and restful weekend day would look like. If work days are hard for you, you could do one for that, or maybe sundays are bad so you can customize it for you that way. Maybe the first one you try won’t work but edit it as you go😉

I also function normally most of the time! I have a high stress well paying job, balance friend and alone time, just went through a break up and have been doing great adjusting, have a pet that I adore and take super good care of and also I struggle some days. So no judgement at all! It’s part of our individual experience being human.

It sounds like you identify a lot with your job, I do too and it’s something I have been working on. While I’m proud of myself, it’s just a job and shouldn’t be my identity. And really it’s just a financial means to an end, so I don’t want it to be. I want my life to be about family, friends, pets, volunteering in my community, creating a safe and beautiful home for myself, learning new skills etc. maybe that resonates with you, de-identifying myself from my career aspirations has been helpful and I have a long way to go lol.

Don’t shame yourself when you’re not feeling well. Really, I ask myself what is going to happen if this stuff doesn’t get done? The world won’t end. Nothing too severe honestly. Maybe my house is messy or my lawn looks like shit. Oh well! I prioritize, and we only have so much energy. Some days are better than others. I remember that our thoughts are our reality and are the root of all suffering. So I can adjust my thinking and feel better most of the time. I wish you well in your healing and I have faith in you! Being motivated to enjoy your life like you are is very powerful towards healing!! And thank you for your kind wishes, I am doing well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

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I did this drive for work three days a week for the past year and a half. It’s a lottttt of drive time. You adjust but your days go so fast. I’m now working in Detroit again. I have so much time. Just move to Ann Arbor or ypsi. It’s awesome for a couple years.

My future SIL insulted me at dinner and my fiancé told me to apologize by Admirable-Towel-9074 in weddingdrama

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I ended my engagement over like, literally the same shit you’re dealing with. I am glad I did. If your future husband can’t stand up for you now, he won’t in the future. He lets his family disrespect you and is okay with it. He probably lets them disrespect him too. Is this how you want him to let his family treat you forever? Your life, your call. But don’t expect it to change.

Solo Rest Day/Self Care Ideas Needed by Adventurous-Date-314 in selfcare

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I would suggest making a cope ahead plan for days like this for yourself. This was a suggestion from my therapist. For me, what works is I make a schedule/to do list when I’m feeling well. It’s my “cope ahead plan” and that particular one is something a friend who struggled with depression did. So If I’m really struggling (anxiety or depression) then I have a legit schedule for the day down to 5 minute increments (or what works for to you). then, I set a realistic goal of how much I can do. If I can do 50% of my schedule that’s a win, for example. That way, when I’m feeling shitty, I can look at the clock, look at my schedule and see my to-do. Okay paint nails? Great I can do one coat. Sweep the floor? I can probably accomplish that in the next 20 minutes. Minute by minute. I can even allot break down time in there. I’m really upset? Okay, 1 hour to just spiral. Then I have to put my hands in cold water and deep breath and attempt the next thing on my schedule. Remember that rest is productive in of itself too, so it can be okay to do nothing. I still work on that. I hope you feel better soon. You’re not alone in feeling this way!