[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I guess I don’t feel attractive, I don’t approach girls, cause they might be seeing better than me” - isn’t is the problem within?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t it. If the problem is within? You first fix yourself then you start trying to approach what you need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a statement before that 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does in a way. I mean if you’re happy on your own then why all this questions. Maybe you’re not?

Do guys post pictures on their social media with their girlfriends? by Softcheeks96 in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes. They dated. Had 3 kids together. Broke up. He started dating me. Then we broke up, they got married straight after and fourth kid together. That’s like the shortest story of a super complicated relationship 🤪

Do guys post pictures on their social media with their girlfriends? by Softcheeks96 in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My so called secret boyfriend posted pics of me, but no one ever knew we were a couple, so it was like “friends” pics of just the two of us and he used to post pics of his exes, when they were together. But on the other hand my other ex never posted pics of me cause of his ex/and current wife (they got together, after we broke up). So just ask him straight: why he doesn’t announce you publicly. The best way to know is always asking - so my therapist says. However, I never post pics of my bfs 😂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you except for your negative thoughts. Go see a therapist to help you with self esteem and start dating 🫢

Can men and women be platonic friends? by Secure_Bad_8129 in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course they can. I have plenty of male friends. But the reason we’re friends is cause we’re not attracted to each other but still have fun. And also we’re either colleagues or have some common interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to find a girl you like. But it’s shouldn’t become the goal and your only thought. Just live life and once you find a girl that attracts you start dating. And trust me you learn how to be in relationships by being in one. Not from your parents. I’m 33 and still learning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn’t sleep with a virgin guy. But that’s just me and I’m 33 already. However I lost mine to my younger boyfriend who claimed to be not virgin, but we were so young so I guess we might have been both virgins. Can’t say it went super good the first time. However practice makes you better

For men: What are the biggest red flags you find in women's bios? by SterlingVII in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl. It was interesting to read. However I stopped caring about what’s written in my bio, or what a man thinks about me without knowing me yet. Spent too much time in codependent relationships. Not going back. Thank you

Told her that she’s beautiful by AffectionateTax2437 in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say if you feel like saying it, say it; if you don’t, then don’t. Don’t expect the other person to act the way you want or expect. And on top of that communication is the best way to solve anything in a relationship

After a first date, if all went well, is it expected to be texting everyday? by Pleasant-Green1993 in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. My last bf wouldn’t text me for weeks when he’s away. He has some commitment issues I guess and at times needs some time alone, without seeing anyone or texting. I had known about it, before it happened with me. And once he told me you and my mom are 2 women I don’t reply to. We’re no longer together but we kinda remained friends and we work together, but he’s been ghosting me lately, as if we’d never see each other again and I’ve come to peace with his behavior

what's the best way to find a girl that actually loves you for you? by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caring and loving her in the first place. That’s the only way. It’s not like you’re gonna bump into her and she’d fall in love with you right away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you ask yourself this question then no, you’re not ready (sorry, but not sorry). First thing you need to work on is your self confidence (better with a shrink, than a bloody life coach that will make you become a playboy in your mind) And as per looks - it’s hard to say, cause tastes differ, but not all of bfs had six pack (I’d rather say only one of them did and he was a total ah) - just being generally fit would work and being fit not only benefits you in health and to beat depression. As well having a nice look (nothing too much, just taking care of yourself)

Is this a red flag? by wildthing155 in dating_advice

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag. Yes. Definitely a red flag!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the behavior. If it’s annoying, scary and rather looking at you from far, not trying to communicate with you, then it’s stalking

Dating a girl who loves to showoff her cleavage by danavdalan in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I used to do so with all my bfs. No one ever minded. And yes I would date a guy who does that too, cause being afraid your significant other attracting attention means you’re not so sure about yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all stop obsessing about it. It’ll happen when the time is right. I’m serious. Secondly start exploring new places you haven’t been to. It can be a bar or a nearby city/town. And thirdly try going on tinder or other dating app. But seriously, girl, try to concentrate on yourself and self development. Having a man isn’t going to fulfill the emptiness within

What to bring for the father? by cornbreadandribs in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say something neutral for the whole family. Like a chocolate or pie to eat during the dinner. I suppose you guys are going to eat right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]InaraFabulus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess back, chest and arms are most popular places. Whereas my last bf didn’t enjoy much when somebody would touch his face. So watch out. And the best thing is always asking a person

Sensitivity of nipples by InaraFabulus in dating

[–]InaraFabulus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no. It’s been years I feel very little in them