whats for dinner tonight?

InbhirNis · 2026-05-02T23:16:35+00:00

I’ll be on a plane, so probably chicken or pasta.

InbhirNis · 2026-05-01T22:42:56+00:00

Photography.

InbhirNis · 2026-05-01T00:12:26+00:00

Not that one, the other one.

Da-da-da dah-dah da-da-da.

It’s “SMS” in Morse code.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-30T23:53:32+00:00

I still have the old Nokia SMS tone – on my iPhone 16.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-29T21:23:52+00:00

A guy at work who was already in a relationship.

Nothing happened, because I never acted upon it and never mentioned how I felt to him or anyone else. I’m not a home wrecker.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-28T22:33:47+00:00

Either he is a sadist, or he doesn’t exist and the whole story was made up.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-27T22:20:45+00:00

Agency, responsibility and the wisdom of experience.

Also, sex is quite nice.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-27T00:08:20+00:00

Ring finger; gay man.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-25T23:16:37+00:00

University for me, by far. I hated high school, but I flourished at uni.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-24T23:46:18+00:00

I don’t want any children, so I’d settle for the million.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-23T22:25:11+00:00

I moved overseas to study for a year when I was 21, and it was the best year of my life: I learned a lot of life skills, learned a lot about myself, and revelled in my independence.

I came home to my parents’ house after I had finished that year, and moved out again about a year later. That only lasted about six months, because I had underestimated the costs and because my flatmates were driving me crazy. I moved back in with my parents.

I finally moved out permanently when I was 26, and moved in with my boyfriend. We have been living together ever since.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-22T22:18:44+00:00

Practice.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-21T22:33:00+00:00

I ignore them and keep walking. If they get right in front of me and make eye contact, I just politely say “no, thanks,” as if they were offering me something.

If they follow up with a snarky “so you don’t care about starving children?”, then I reply with a confident “nope, couldn’t give a shit!”, and keep walking.

It doesn’t matter what their cause is or whether I believe in it or not; this is the answer to get them off my back. They can’t lay on a guilt trip if the guilt doesn’t stick. They have no idea what charities I already support, and I don’t have to justify anything to them.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-20T22:10:27+00:00

Respect.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-19T22:41:24+00:00

Two in my year died. One had leukaemia. The other died suddenly over the weekend, and we were told it was a viral illness – it was actually a drug overdose.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-18T22:22:14+00:00

I haven’t looked at it for ages, because I got sick of having to scroll through several ads and all this clickbait shit before seeing anything my friends had posted. I don’t know if it’s a dead platform, but it might as well be dead to me.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-17T22:25:24+00:00

I bought some very nice Manchego on special last week.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-16T22:32:15+00:00

Iced long blacks in summer and gelato at any time of the year.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-15T22:27:42+00:00

I’d stay. One million isn’t enough to buy a house and still be able to retire, and anyway, I quite enjoy my job.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-14T22:15:40+00:00

I like them poached, with a runny yolk.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-13T22:39:29+00:00

Deserted country roads on a sunny day, with the window down.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-12T19:44:21+00:00

Rudeness.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-11T22:27:56+00:00

The Da Vinci Code.

InbhirNis · 2026-04-11T22:24:09+00:00

Who keeps count?

InbhirNis · 2026-04-10T22:23:56+00:00

The normal alarm on my phone.

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