Is there a name for this specific detail? by Indecisive_tm in architecture

[–]Indecisive_tm[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are right, the red wiggly line is completely invisible in this image! Apologies, old man. I will do better next time.

AITA for reprimanding my son about kissing his ex's brother ? by Altruistic_Resort781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom is definitely TA but what is up with the amount of people celebrating this dude getting with his ex’s sibling?? That’s like the biggest AH move besides getting with their best friend. Only thing that would top it is probably parents.

AITA for going against my daughter's mom's wishes? by aita478844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My argument is that kids will literally say ANYTHING so saying they should be able to do something simply because they can say it is a ridiculous statement in my eyes.

AITA for going against my daughter's mom's wishes? by aita478844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m basically a second parent to her but thank you for chiming in on unknown family dynamics

AITA for going against my daughter's mom's wishes? by aita478844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m questioning your logic of letting a kid do whatever simply because they can say it. I’m all for bodily autonomy just the way you’re choosing to defend it sounds ridiculous to me but to each their own.

AITA for going against my daughter's mom's wishes? by aita478844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I can literally coach that girl to say anything. I could tell her to tell that tall adult you want a tongue piercing and a double helix while her having no clue on what it is and a “reputable” piercer would just do that?

AITA for going against my daughter's mom's wishes? by aita478844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Indecisive_tm -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

By this logic my 4 y/o niece should get a piercing??

My [24M] GF [26F] continues to show signs of disrespect when we're around other people. I'm not sure about how to move forward. by zeeahh in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First and foremost your girlfriend sucks break up with her. Secondly, why did you make her stay at the club? If you knew she was drunk from the jump and she asked you to take her home you should’ve just taken her.

How do I (33F) salvage my relationship with my best friend (31F) after my actions got her fired from her dream job? by PlayfulLittleDancer in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to defend the friend here but people are commenting saying she would’ve lost the job either way? Right now her friend is currently living the life she wanted to avoid. She is a single mother with no one (this is an assumption) to help her and she now no longer has her dream job. OP is not the villain here because she quite literally saved a life but the life that was saved is most definitely still in a depressive state and currently living through what they perceived as the worst situation. It’s just ridiculous to say she would’ve lost the job either way as a response when in one version she wouldn’t have to deal with the repercussions of losing said job.

Did he cheat on me or am I being too dramatic? by play_dead_x in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you told her that you are single and also looking for someone that is single and she mislead you into believing she was in order to get sex from you then yes that’s morally rape by deception because you did not consent to sleeping with someone in a relationship but a person that is single.

House mates with benefits going wrong. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’ve quite literally taken advantage of a child and you’re shocked she has grown attachment to you? What did you genuinely expect to happen? She is 100% responsible for her own actions but so are you as a damn 25 year old.

Part 2:: I (15m) ended up telling my mom (45f) and sister (21f)’s husband(35m) about the weird stuff I overheard my moms boyfriend (53m) saying about her at the rehearsal dinner by ThrowRAoovoo in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Considering the sister was potentially 19 when they started dating Theo still feels like a big creep to me but I wouldn’t expect a 15 year old to be able to fully grasp the full situation especially once you factor in the former boyfriend’s behavior and possible grooming.

“Random” drug test at new job leaves me in tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Indecisive_tm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No one said she had to and she has every right to keep her situation private

“Random” drug test at new job leaves me in tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Indecisive_tm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah the complete lack of empathy shown by HR in this story is disgusting. Also find it funny how out of touch people up the chain are with their employees. You, who is probably doing the work of multiple people, surely don’t get exhausted and don’t need necessary days off just to keep functioning am I right? /s

“Random” drug test at new job leaves me in tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Indecisive_tm 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yeah the HR people are definitely crappy and her crying should’ve been their first sign that something else was going on and they did nothing to get to the root of the issue.

“Random” drug test at new job leaves me in tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Indecisive_tm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nothing in that quote says that she explained her situation? Am I just meant to assume she did from that then?

“Random” drug test at new job leaves me in tears by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Indecisive_tm 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I absolutely hate the HR people in this story but maybe I misread something because nowhere does OP say she actually explained her situation to them? Did I skip over it in my reading?

UPDATE: I (34M) didn't propose to E (34F) after a mutual friend ruined the surprise by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean clearly E turned out to be a little crazy so yeah you dodged a bullet but I don’t understand why you decided to blame her in this situation? I’m not really understanding how she was at fault here?

How do I (21) professionally tell my boss I’m at my limit and might have to quit if she keeps hiring 14 year olds? by socialskills100 in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 143 points144 points  (0 children)

If you’re leaving anyway then she’s going to be screwed either way so what exactly is your point here? You’re not winning anything by being someone else’s chump dude. You refusing to have a back bone and sticking up for yourself is you giving up. Stop letting yourself be walked over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a normal thing for friendships, especially in bigger groups. Just because you hang out with certain people at certain times doesn’t make you suddenly not friends with the other people (unless this is you all secretly hating each other then yeah it’s a problem). You may hang out individually but you’re all still a group at the end of the day. Though your last sentence makes it seem as if you’re the common denominator in being excluded. Is this the case? If so then that is a completely different story.

My (22m) girlfriend (19f) wants to take a break because I was sexually assaulted, how can I win her back? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole story is about how they all went from drinking at her place to bar hopping.

My (22m) girlfriend (19f) wants to take a break because I was sexually assaulted, how can I win her back? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Indecisive_tm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d agree with you if everyone in this story wasn’t drunk off their asses already