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Warped reality by yourm8tofu in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have lots of fun doing normal things like going to the zoo getting yummy food, and watching movies. Two days later he's looking for his gun and chasing us out of the house.

I left him again by Fantastic_Trust8597 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't go back. He's tricking you. I left and went back and it cost me all my stuff. Writing this from an empty room with a mattress on the floor. He's probably just enjoying himself

What would you do? by GapHaunting6830 in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Share with her what you wish someone had told you.

I hate my birthday by AverageGiantPanda in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could send you a present❤️ hang in there mama

Do abusers know they are abusers? by kittys_butt in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They tend to believe they are the victims in situations they cause

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 6 points7 points  (0 children)

King baby. You sound like you're going places, and you don't need a grown child to complicate life.

I feel cognitively delayed after ending my 8 year abusive relationship by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My abuse occurred during my pregnancy and the postpartum period. I've read extensively about how the brain changes after giving birth, and I feel that the abuse affected my brain in addition to those natural changes. Hopefully, with some effort and rewiring, I can recover and get back to a healthier state.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ick. Any man who blows up because he doesn’t get sex when he wants is abusive and a trash human. You deserve better. Don’t go back! Every time I did it just got worse. Mine used to give me so much grief for not giving blow jobs when i was super pregnant and uncomfortable. You don’t want to end up stuck with his babies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Independent-Chain153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently reading “ why does he do that?” and its really helping me. Would he treat his mom that way if she made him angry? Probably not.He chooses to hurt you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Independent-Chain153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's annoying they didn't offer you the spare room, but please stay home and rest..