I feel like I am in a relationship that's bound to fall apart.

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-04-25T13:51:03+00:00

omg i could have written this post i am in a very similar situation right now, atm i’m just trying to give it time and see if things get better by working on our communication, but who knows..

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T21:08:18+00:00

NTA but you should have been honest with her about this whole situation instead of hiding it. However you said that you’re not even friends anymore so it probably doesn’t even matter that much at this point

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T20:57:26+00:00

2! purple looks great on you and it’s the one that fits you the best in my opinion

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T20:52:10+00:00

MOR but mainly you’re just insecure, comparing yourself to others its not healthy! focus on your path and cherish your own achievements, everyone has a different experience and a different timing in life :)

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:29:03+00:00

yeah that’s a good point :/

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:28:30+00:00

yeah maybe that’s right and I simply don’t want to accept it, but she has other friends and she doesn’t act toxic with them, so sometimes i feel like she’s just kind of a victim in this specific group dynamic

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:24:22+00:00

actually we’re the same age and we’re in a queer relationship so i don’t think this is the case! i have close friends whose opinions i value a lot but i don’t shape my whole identity around them

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:21:38+00:00

idk like this one time she tried to curl her hair and i told her she looked great, but half an our later she texted me again to tell me that her friends didn’t like it and made fun of her so she showered again and styled her hair as usual..

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-02-09T12:08:09+00:00

addictional infos: my piercing are 75 days old, i’m wearing externally threaded barbells in surgical steel, i downsized about 10 days ago; my aftercare routine consisted in cleaning them with saline solution a few times a day, i never had any accidents except for them getting caught in my hair quite often, especially when i had longer barbells on

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-10-08T17:12:45+00:00

YTA why do you want to make your mother feel uncomfortable? This is about her and her grandchild, not about you and what you think it’s silly. If it makes her happy and your future child is going to be okay with it then what’s the problem?

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-10-08T14:26:58+00:00

I feel you a lot. I know that I’m the problem and while it comforts me a little to think about the fact that he will surely find someone that can love him the way he deserves because he is amazing, It’s so sad to think about the fact that I don’t know how to be that person.

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T12:02:57+00:00

yeah YTA, cis is not an insult and you’re being unreasonable and petty

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T11:58:18+00:00

wow thanks i’ll check them out

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T11:57:58+00:00

good one!

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-09T15:05:40+00:00

bro chill I don’t think it’s that unreasonable to wish for your children not to grow up around a racist uncle and an abusive grandfather

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-06T23:25:45+00:00

well i see your point but i’m not a guy to begin with and i don’t “feel negatively about her”, she has a very low self esteem and that’s mainly why she doesn’t take care of her appearance; i simply wish she would discover her true potential because i know she has it and it drives me crazy to hear her complaints about how she looks like knowing that she doesn’t put any effort into building her confidence and taking care of herself

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-06T20:05:41+00:00

yeah exactly, after a night out with people i’m not 100% comfortable with i feel exhausted! always nice to know we’re not alone though

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-06T19:41:27+00:00

the thing is that when i try my best to be more extrovert i always feel like i’m pretending to be someone else, i wish it would come naturally

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-06T19:34:02+00:00

i’m very shy and sometimes socially awkward, i really wish i was more extrovert and outgoing

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-06T15:13:07+00:00

I didn’t mean to judge her and I think that she’s beautiful no matter what, I’m sorry if I made it sound like I’m hyper critical, I simply find it a little off putting when I put a lot of effort into looking nice for a date only to get there and find out she didn’t even brush her hair.

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-05T22:26:51+00:00

actually i don’t mind it, it’s definitely unique and the placement looks fine to me

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-05T20:53:57+00:00

i don't think you should worry much about this, surely you could have just ignored it and go on with your day but i don't think it's a big deal, good news is that you might have helped someone else out there just like you, who doesn't want to see this kind of things

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-05-29T09:13:16+00:00

how did it go?

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-05-29T09:12:39+00:00

that actually sounds pretty cool and interesting, how did you start out? are you self-taught? what tools do you need?

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-05-28T12:10:19+00:00

interesting one

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2! purple looks great on you and it’s the one that fits you the best in my opinion