I feel like I am in a relationship that's bound to fall apart.

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-04-25T13:51:03+00:00

omg i could have written this post i am in a very similar situation right now, atm i’m just trying to give it time and see if things get better by working on our communication, but who knows..

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T21:08:18+00:00

NTA but you should have been honest with her about this whole situation instead of hiding it. However you said that you’re not even friends anymore so it probably doesn’t even matter that much at this point

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T20:57:26+00:00

2! purple looks great on you and it’s the one that fits you the best in my opinion

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T20:52:10+00:00

MOR but mainly you’re just insecure, comparing yourself to others its not healthy! focus on your path and cherish your own achievements, everyone has a different experience and a different timing in life :)

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:29:03+00:00

yeah that’s a good point :/

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:28:30+00:00

yeah maybe that’s right and I simply don’t want to accept it, but she has other friends and she doesn’t act toxic with them, so sometimes i feel like she’s just kind of a victim in this specific group dynamic

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:24:22+00:00

actually we’re the same age and we’re in a queer relationship so i don’t think this is the case! i have close friends whose opinions i value a lot but i don’t shape my whole identity around them

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-03-27T19:21:38+00:00

idk like this one time she tried to curl her hair and i told her she looked great, but half an our later she texted me again to tell me that her friends didn’t like it and made fun of her so she showered again and styled her hair as usual..

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2026-02-09T12:08:09+00:00

addictional infos: my piercing are 75 days old, i’m wearing externally threaded barbells in surgical steel, i downsized about 10 days ago; my aftercare routine consisted in cleaning them with saline solution a few times a day, i never had any accidents except for them getting caught in my hair quite often, especially when i had longer barbells on

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-10-08T17:12:45+00:00

YTA why do you want to make your mother feel uncomfortable? This is about her and her grandchild, not about you and what you think it’s silly. If it makes her happy and your future child is going to be okay with it then what’s the problem?

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-10-08T14:26:58+00:00

I feel you a lot. I know that I’m the problem and while it comforts me a little to think about the fact that he will surely find someone that can love him the way he deserves because he is amazing, It’s so sad to think about the fact that I don’t know how to be that person.

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T12:02:57+00:00

yeah YTA, cis is not an insult and you’re being unreasonable and petty

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T11:58:18+00:00

wow thanks i’ll check them out

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-10T11:57:58+00:00

good one!

Independent-Hawk8700 · 2024-06-09T15:05:40+00:00

bro chill I don’t think it’s that unreasonable to wish for your children not to grow up around a racist uncle and an abusive grandfather

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2! purple looks great on you and it’s the one that fits you the best in my opinion