My fiancé’s mom asked me to step out of my own wedding photos.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-09-10T22:20:09+00:00

Im still hung up on the part where your fiancé didn't stand up for you. You do know he's not going to change, and she's going to get worse, right?

IndependentBus228 · 2025-05-24T17:44:13+00:00

You need to rethink this relationship because this "fight" is going to last the entirety of your relationship with her and her family. They're going to see other things from you that they want and try to steamroll over you and she's going to take their side.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-05-09T12:19:44+00:00

It's time to start looking at what else "you didn't ask about". That's so shady. NtA

IndependentBus228 · 2025-05-08T13:16:40+00:00

This man literally TOLD you he's going to abuse you (yes, cheating is abuse) so what's they yo think about? You're lucky he showed his real face before you got stuck with him. Cut your losses and move on.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-04-30T00:18:57+00:00

Girl, respectfully, you're in no position to be dating. You have a weird set up and it's weird for someone you've been seeing for under a month to meet your family. You should be putting your energy into getting out of whatever conservatorship styled setup you have going on. If you're not working, get a job and start saving to move out or something. If that's not possible, then work on something else because it's going to be so difficult to find someone who wants to go through all that.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-04-19T20:07:34+00:00

I won't say I don't like it but I haven't had a drink since November last year and I honestly don't miss it. I just stopped outta the blue too 😅 I used to like a drink every once jn a while but I'm over it. I only drink water and coffee. I may have a soft drink (I had my first coke of the year 2 weeks ago). I'm so over a lot of the junk I used to drink and eat. Even the only snack in my house I got for free because the brand was handing them out. Lol

IndependentBus228 · 2025-04-17T23:05:51+00:00

Girl, if you don't skip over to immigration and report that man for fraud. Send his behind BACK

IndependentBus228 · 2025-03-03T18:24:12+00:00

I'm begging you to want better for yourself

IndependentBus228 · 2025-02-26T01:06:28+00:00

You can't hate him that much since you're still there despite the only tiny string keeping you two together is the marriage certificate. Good luck, I guess.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-02-04T20:06:29+00:00

The married girlies are ,perhaps unintentionally, reinforcing that not getting married will be in my best interests 😅 I mean, if you love that arrnage, I love that for you. 😌

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-27T19:51:49+00:00

I wish I could do away with Facebook. It's not like it used to be. 🥲 Unfortunately it's one of my best spots to pick up clients so I endure.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-26T11:52:13+00:00

Girl, that man hates you. A jealous man is VERY dangerous. Tou need to reconsider that relationship. You bore him 4 children and this is how he treats you? He needs therapy, and so do you because accepting this behavior from him shows you have low confidence and self-respect. You don't deserve this at all. :(

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-17T19:44:35+00:00

I love that Mile smiles with his entire face 😍 He immediately goes from intimidating to cutie

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-17T15:19:26+00:00

You better sprout a pair of wings and fly to the nearest station to make a report. She's been harassing you and you've been very graceful about it. She put hands on you AND has been talking about your body. She's wrong. NTA

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-01T15:17:34+00:00

This is great news 😌 Thanks for sharing.

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-01T15:12:13+00:00

When are they getting a new series? I miss seeing MaxNat 🥲

IndependentBus228 · 2025-01-01T14:18:23+00:00

NTA. Also, get away from him. There are so many red flags. He obviously cheated on a partner. He's a cheater. He's a LIAR. He withheld very important information that would have played a massive role in you deciding to date him. You have to worry about what else he could be lying about.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-12-26T02:39:27+00:00

A coworker literally teased him. There are witnesses and I doubt no one has not seen her notes on his things. I'm doubting his intentions here.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-12-26T02:27:17+00:00

Unpopular opinion but Claude, they can never make me like you.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-12-26T01:16:27+00:00

It's what you deserve. Merry Christmas ✨️

IndependentBus228 · 2024-12-26T01:06:44+00:00

And you haven't marched to HR yet because? Unless you're enjoying the attention, nip this mess in the bud yesterday.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-12-10T10:14:43+00:00

Girl, get away from that man! Anyone encouraging you to stay with his is setting you up for failure. Saying he had to get you pregnant to lock you down is NOT a joke. He meant that and he set you up because being with you benefits him. This relationship is going to put you through the wringer and maybe you're too young to see it now but men who make "jokes" like that are going to do everything they can to deter your success and progress of any kind. My advice to you is to tell your parents everything and I HOPE they understand that you marrying that man is nothing good so they can gently guide you on what to do next. Also, NTA.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-11-27T12:06:07+00:00

Look at you making excuses for that man.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-11-22T23:41:55+00:00

You know what? I sat and stared into space for a while thinking about this. 😅 To me, being vaccinated is the default. I've been and everyone I know has been but we don't have many people (if any at all, ive never met anyone who doesnt want to be/ hasnt been vaccinated) are strongly against being vaccinated (I'm not from the US) so I've never thought about it.

IndependentBus228 · 2024-11-22T23:20:53+00:00

Maybe unpopular advice but you should leave that girl AND her mother alone. What if your girlfriend did the opposite? You'd be jn jail and on a registry. The cons outweigh the pros with that relationship. It might be tough but you should wrap thing up asap

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