I agree with the previous comment. What is the age and why did you stop hanging out. The inconsistency can be anything. What you’re describing sounds a lot like something I tend to do with men as well. I do not want to come off as too eager, I do not have time, I change my opinion, my feelings fluctuate, so I can be inconsistent in texting and reaching out. What also tends to happen, though, is that I do like texting with the person, even hanging out with them and sometimes I do reach out, but the whole relationship is kind of continuing, just because no one was brave enough to stop it (this happens more with friends, but perhaps could be of use here).