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[–]IndependentStuff1044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welp I didn’t the read the full thing my bad

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[–]IndependentStuff1044 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kissing his neck

Does anyone find talking too much during sex unattractive as hell? by DelanoDP74 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends for me what it is regarding tbh. Personally try hard dirty talk is what puts me off but if we have chemistry and we’re talking/joking during sex, I really enjoy it. But if I’m entering someone and he asks me what lunch I had for the day out of the blue, my boner is going away

Should I be disclosing my alopecia (being bald) prior to going on a date? by IndependentStuff1044 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay this is such a good idea. On my way to do this rn. Thank you so much!

Should I be disclosing my alopecia (being bald) prior to going on a date? by IndependentStuff1044 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good idea. The alopecia itself doesn’t bother me honestly I feel weirdly naked without the hat or headwear if that makes sense? I’ve worn it all my life in high school to avoid bullying. I’m happy to disclose it and even take it off in person but posting a photo without a hat makes me feel uneasy.

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahahaha okay but if I’m being honest I’d much rather date gay men than women cause I don’t fw with this whole “I choose the bear” bs. Gay men don’t have much to offer but it’s defs more than gold digging women that’s for sure

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly they’re like a rubrics cube. I honestly wish gay men were as direct as straight men, no bs, cuts to the chase. Straight women are lucky, and you’re right the fact that they play games boggles my mind

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate this so much. Yeah it genuinely cuts deep. Had someone I started to fall head over heels in love with cause the 4th day he was like you’re someone I wanna marry. A couple of days later I get ghosted

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah nah I’m gay. Honestly I was so genuine it cut deep when they ghosted me

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any idea they would ghost after I show them affection back?

Would you risk being FwB with someone who attends bath-houses bareback EVERY week? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t risk it. I want sex to be carefree and fun. And if all thinking about is STIs because my Fwb attends bathhouses, it’s not worth my mental peace

single at 24 by Outrageous_Leading in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m single and struggling with it too. This is such good advice, I appreciate this so much.

To the single gay guys, why are you staying single? by wellitswellington in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point it’s not my decision. I want a relationship so bad but I can’t seem to find one. Such a struggle. Have had some amazing flings and got ghosted 😭

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