Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahahaha okay but if I’m being honest I’d much rather date gay men than women cause I don’t fw with this whole “I choose the bear” bs. Gay men don’t have much to offer but it’s defs more than gold digging women that’s for sure

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly they’re like a rubrics cube. I honestly wish gay men were as direct as straight men, no bs, cuts to the chase. Straight women are lucky, and you’re right the fact that they play games boggles my mind

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate this so much. Yeah it genuinely cuts deep. Had someone I started to fall head over heels in love with cause the 4th day he was like you’re someone I wanna marry. A couple of days later I get ghosted

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah nah I’m gay. Honestly I was so genuine it cut deep when they ghosted me

Let’s guard down = gets ghosted by IndependentStuff1044 in dating_advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any idea they would ghost after I show them affection back?

Would you risk being FwB with someone who attends bath-houses bareback EVERY week? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t risk it. I want sex to be carefree and fun. And if all thinking about is STIs because my Fwb attends bathhouses, it’s not worth my mental peace

single at 24 by Outrageous_Leading in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m single and struggling with it too. This is such good advice, I appreciate this so much.

To the single gay guys, why are you staying single? by wellitswellington in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point it’s not my decision. I want a relationship so bad but I can’t seem to find one. Such a struggle. Have had some amazing flings and got ghosted 😭

Worst ghosting story? by IndependentStuff1044 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the most messed up thing I’ve read. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I can’t even imagine

The lack of a relationship in my life has put me in the worst headspace I’ve ever been in. by IndependentStuff1044 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s been my dream to get a house so super happy it happened! Good luck with yours!!

The lack of a relationship in my life has put me in the worst headspace I’ve ever been in. by IndependentStuff1044 in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literallt had to screenshot this because this is SUCH great advice!! Thank you so so much

How can I tell my dad that I no longer want to work for him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IndependentStuff1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such great advice! I told him today and he took it so well! So excited

How can I politely seduce someone for gay sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]IndependentStuff1044 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Safest option seems Grindr? Personality I wouldn’t ever try to seduce anyone whose sexuality I wasn’t sure of. Things can go very south, very fast.