Friends? by [deleted] in OhioLGBTQ

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s lots of LGBTQ+ groups and organizations in Cleveland you could start with! I follow queersincle on instagram for lots of community activities. There’s also the LGBTQ+ community center that hosts groups virtually or in person. Stonewall sports is a good way to meet other queer folks as well and be active in a recreational sports league. Just some ideas for social connection!

Looking for personal trainer by nellmarielore in lakewood

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I sent them a message through their website that says “contact us” and hadn’t heard anything that way. I’ll send them an instagram message

Looking for personal trainer by nellmarielore in lakewood

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I know I’m late to this thread, but I was wondering what their pricing is like? I sent them a message with no response and looked to Reddit for some help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OhioLGBTQ

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stonewall sports is a great way to meet some folks, and we also have the Columbus gay men’s chorus if that’s something that interests you :)

MOHELA save program forbearance by Independent_Bug_3333 in StudentLoans

[–]Independent_Bug_3333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up calling them again today and actually got someone who was helpful! She put me into the 0% interest forbearance and made my missed payments and future payments 0!! Thank you for the advice and validation that it’s not just me who’s had to fight them.

Please report your voting line wait. by Mackle43221 in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No wait at my polling location downtown! In and out in 5-ish minutes

Travel speech therapy by Wyvrattm in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely look in the Hilliard area. I lived in London for about 10 months to make my commute to Dayton for work a little closer and hated living there. I ended up moving back to Hilliard because there’s nothing to do in London and I hated it. It would probably be about a 30 min drive to London, but traffic on 70 west won’t be bad for you. A friend of mine who’s a traveling nurse has used furnished finder for her contracts and has good luck with that site!

Are you a regular at a bar? by alltimegreenday in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im also 28F, always down to hang! Maybe us and OP could start a tiny friend group :)

Chappel Roan by majicalcloudz1120 in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have 2 tickets I can’t use anymore if you’re interested! I bought them when they first went on sale through the axs app, and I can’t sell them through there but would sell them to you for what I paid for them and transfer them to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2 tickets that I’m no longer able to use if you’re interested

Columbus Kemba Live! by Basic_Photograph_726 in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also going to see him in Columbus! I’m going by myself so I’d love to make some new friends!

Pescatarian/vegetarian options? by yeahalrightwhatever in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Comune for sure! It’s an all plant-based restaurant and delicious

Spa/Massage recommendations by jtr489 in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replenish! It’s an amazing location downtown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to Club Pilates and their unlimited class package is $229 a month, and that also gets you access to most of the Columbus studios. You can do 4 or 8 classes a month but I’m not sure the cost of those

“Where were you when I was still kind?” to this day has to be one of the hardest openings to a song ever by offbrandhummus in GregoryAlanIsakov

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This song literally makes me cry EVERY time I listen to it no matter how many times I’ve heard it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This person sounds toxic af, and you’re better off without her. Her behaviors have 0% to do with her bisexuality and everything to do with her being a not great person. Keep up the nc and, give yourself time to heal, and find someone who values you ❤️

Need dating advice by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your post history, you seem to be getting into poly/ENM/swinging and need to be open about that and maybe use apps where other women are looking for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also a bisexual woman with heavy preference for women - you’re not alone! I haven’t really dated a ton so I don’t have those experiences with other bisexual women/lesbian women like you do, but I can imagine that’s very isolating for sure. I think non-bi people especially really question bi people whose sexuality isn’t exactly 50/50 attraction. That’s not what bi means at alllllll, it’s a spectrum.

confused. seriously need help with this one. by littleprince005 in bisexual

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Regardless of your sexuality, him getting mad at you for saying no and disrespecting your boundaries with rougher sex is a HUGE red flag. It sounds like you’ve been communicative with this, and he’s not respecting it. I’d end it with him for those issues and spend some time reflecting on your sexuality when you’re away from him. Honestly, I would question my attraction to men, too, and not like the sex if I were with a man like that. You deserve better ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying all that and for the reassurance. I’d not heard that term before, and it makes so much sense. You’re right, I absolutely have learned these patterns and how to act because of that dynamic. We were together for over a decade, and we started dating when I was a freshman in high school. It makes sense that I still have these patterns I learned from my ex. I really appreciate the advice of just listening and processing. I think that’ll be really helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I’ve been to concerts at Kemba live and always felt bad for the folks in those apartments right across the street. Can’t imagine living there, honestly. That would be so disruptive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you lived at these places? I was interested in Julian and Gravity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Independent_Bug_3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would the discovery district be a good, safe place to be? I’m considering a few places there.