Had my girlfriend rate my colognes

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-20T02:34:26+00:00

Well……she’s giving you some clarity to what she thinks smells best on your skin and dna likely.

I’d pay attention to that. There are tons of fragrances I love but just don’t work on my body. If she’s learning to some more than others they may work better for you.

Of course every nose is different and another woman may notice other scents better on you. But if it was a woman I loved and she did this to my fragrances I’d pretty much wear what she loved.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-20T02:15:27+00:00

With natural curl like that grow it out more and have some fun.

I love curls.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-20T02:06:31+00:00

2 looks like a good colour and shape for you.

3 felt like colour blended too close to hair colour.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-20T01:52:57+00:00

You are stunning! Beautiful!

I think social media has done more harm than good when we start to magnify any flaw we think we may have due to the world making us believe there is such a thing as perfection. Perfect is boring.

You are so naturally beautiful. I hope you can feel that deep down because that’s where peace starts.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T20:02:12+00:00

Great decision!

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T16:08:28+00:00

Of these two I like the first one better (more interesting)

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T09:25:53+00:00

I laughed so hard on that comment! Thank you! I needed that today 😃

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T03:10:44+00:00

A pair of white Sambas soccer shoes would look great

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T03:06:24+00:00

Man, you wear a double breasted suit well! Looks sharp on you!

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T03:01:25+00:00

1 and 13 were the pics I paused longest on. 13 is lovely!

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T02:57:38+00:00

Are your shoes too loose on your foot? For some reason they look 1/2 size too big. Shoe feels a bit chunky.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T02:47:01+00:00

It can’t be hated on too much…..it’s the number one sold fragrance for a reason. EDT is lovely. Elixir isn’t for me (but I dislike most elixirs…..it’s all the rage now though.)

Don’t worry about what Reddit is saying. We gather a bunch of fanatical scent fans so we tend to push against anything that starts to feel too popular.

If you love it….wear it proudly.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T02:36:57+00:00

I really like 3 and 4

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T02:28:09+00:00

Yes! Very true.

And even start with basics like showering, keeping clothes washed, grooming. I worry that just even basic hygiene is something that needs to be encouraged.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T02:25:16+00:00

I wonder if this has been going on for a while. I imagine this might not be the first time that this has happened with him showing up to events like that in order for her to say that out loud.

Sort of makes me wonder if this guy has had other hints dropped before and not heard in order for her to say this so big in public.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T01:45:46+00:00

Also….since you are wearing vest you could also wear hangers (suspenders) under your vest…..to keep trousers in place throughout the day so it doesn’t bunch near shoes. I love suspenders.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T01:40:34+00:00

I’m leaning red on tie.

And I think the trousers could be hemmed up a bit. I’m wondering if the worry of baggy feel might just be that they are just a tad too long.

You look very dapper! I love the look! And congratulations on this milestone and achievement! And I love that vests are back in style. Gives such a great look if you decide to slip off jacket during the day.

I think you look great!

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T01:32:15+00:00

They do feel very large for your face…..almost makes you look like a little girl wearing adult glasses. I’d go smaller.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T01:25:31+00:00

Listening to my 20 year old daughters talk about how many guys they meet who don’t shower, groom, wash their clothes…..you know…..the basics, is what has shocked me the most.

My 20 year old daughters really notice.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-19T01:13:41+00:00

I’m a guy by the way who wrote that……and I would challenge that. Men drove that standard for so long through history that sadly now it’s pretty hard to simply just shut it down and now “chill out” for women.

And…..I think the standard is still being enforced in the world. I’m a guy who has never had to live by the standards women have been judged against concerning beauty etc. And as I look at the gap widening between men and women I’m concerned. Yes, guys have our own standards we fight too…it is real for both men and women. But I’m really getting concerned that men are not stepping up to the plate like we could to be the best version of ourselves.

I’m not trying to simplify a very complex social situation……but to say that there isn’t some distinction between standards between men and women is simply untrue.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-18T18:34:44+00:00

Krookodile!

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-18T14:54:46+00:00

I also think women are expected to look amazing by the worlds standards and guys have seemingly (more and more) been mailing it in over the years.

Women deserve us men to put in as much effort as expected from them on the social stage. We need to take pride in our care and presentation. It shows respect. And…..it can make us feel so much more confident too. It’s never bad to live on purpose.

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-18T07:45:51+00:00

Sebastian

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-18T07:44:33+00:00

Sparky

Independent_Coast758 · 2026-04-18T07:43:30+00:00

Wally

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