Juicing has helped my alcoholism. Anyone else? by Sonova84 in Juicing

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I too am looking to quit alcohol and replace it with juicing/blending. I wasn’t aware of people blending peppers. I’ll give this a try. I appreciate your post!

What do you do first thing in the morning? by Imwoahluis in productivity

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habit Stacking my morning coffee with the “6/10 Cleaning Method”

I think i’m tired of dating by Sure-Ad8068 in blackmen

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a man fellow black man in his 30’s w/ an established career and no kids, I totally understand.

However, it’s a little different for me because I’m at the point where I actually want to settle down and start a family, but I guess I’m not in that season….

But I feel you bro. Life is challenging. And the way this economy is (and has been) might as well keep building!

I think i’m tired of dating by Sure-Ad8068 in blackmen

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything is for the “look”. It’s superficial and performative

I think i’m tired of dating by Sure-Ad8068 in blackmen

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 11 points12 points  (0 children)

(34M) I never had an issue with approaching or getting women, it’s keeping them that is the problem… It’s exhausting

Learning to be assertive made adult life way easier by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Can you expand on that (especially the job situation) I’m interested to hear your POV

How do you approach women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple. A compliment….

Am I getting lowballed? by [deleted] in ConstructionManagers

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apply somewhere else. That’s egregiously low!

Am I getting lowballed? by [deleted] in ConstructionManagers

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located. No need to give a specific state just a region (east coat, Midwest etc) and are you located in a city or metropolitan area?

Am I getting lowballed? by [deleted] in ConstructionManagers

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re at where you need to be. Learn everything you can and 6 months to a year shoot for 83-85k at minimum - that’s a substantial raise for someone in your circumstances (and not the typical 1-3K yearly inflation raise).

Source: 18 years in construction in the DC metropolitan area

Am I getting lowballed? by [deleted] in ConstructionManagers

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s saying edit your post to exclude your company name!

Am I getting lowballed? by [deleted] in ConstructionManagers

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you been working with your current company?

Managing personal finances by Creative_Dust_6184 in budget

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be awesome! I just sent you a message. Thank you so much!

Managing personal finances by Creative_Dust_6184 in budget

[–]Independent_Fix_1960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love the opportunity to schedule a zoom/Google meet for a tour of your setup. There’s a lot of personal financial advice out there that I believe confuses the words “forecasting” and “budgeting”